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First three guys I dated, I never slept with any. One of whom I never even kissed and one of whom I became engaged to but never went farther than necking with.
Then there was hubby. I made out with him frequently within the first 2 or 3 months of dating him. Later on we engaged in oral sex. But it took a year before I actually had sex with him. We were both virgins and raised conservative Baptist. Intercourse outside of marriage was taboo and we were living in a very restrictive environment where the opportunity for time alone was seldom.
Now - I'll have sex within 10 minutes of meeting a guy. BUT that's because we swing and I'm not planning on a long term relationship with these guys. It's not intimate - it's just fun.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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