I dunno, how long do
you usually wait before going to bed with a guy for the first time?
..
point being, it's good forum etiquette to elaborate a bit more in the opening post.
either, explain the situ, or give your own opinion, or
something.
a better opening post generally creates better discussion, and, why would people want to open up and be honest if you can't do it first?
...... and now that that is out of the way ....
I usually ... don't 'wait'. It happens when it happens. I'm pretty comfortable with sex, and certainly don't need to have 'love' going along with it .. waiting just for the purpose of waiting seems almost game-playing-ish to me, which is really not cool ..
relationship i'm in now, we slept together the night of our first date, which was like, 2 months ago, and things are all going spectacularily, so i don't think there's any harm in it.
