One thing that I found that helps is to get a life sixed picture of some one (pretty) to look at and practice staring at it's eyes. A wallpaper of your fav actress, model, or girlfriend on your PC is a good start. From there, move up to a real person. Ask if he/she will help you with the eye contact issue your going to overcome. Like a close friend, teacher, family member, and stare at them. Have staring contests. See if you can have fun with it.
Just face your fear. And keep us posted.
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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