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Also I was wondering if with out coming out and confronting her about it , if there were and very sure fire ways to know wether or not she is cheating on me?
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is a sure fire way to get her to either cheat, or drop you because you accused her of cheating.
Need to start with some basics here -- How old are you and she, respectively. What keeps you apart? School or is it just because of where you live.
She's had a troubled past, but has she given you reason to beleive that she will cheat on you? Has she ever done it before?
What's your experience been wiht other women? Have you been cheated on?
How long have you been together.... and what kind of relationship has that been?
Jealousy is a sure fire relationship killer... it's ok for men and women who work together to talk to each other and spend break times together - it doesnt mean anything... (I have been a round the world more than once with male colleagues I work with - their wives had absolutely nothing to be concerned about)
Relax and really think about what you want from this relationship and what you want f rojm her - It's almost like you are expecting her to cheat so you can catch her - otherwise why would you enlist the aid of her roommate... There's a tihing we've talked about here before- -called Self-fulfilling prophecy... if you beleive something negative will happen... it will happen because you've done something that has caused it.. ie you think she's going to cheat -- you've all but accused her of cheating- she thinks -- well screw it - he already thinks i'm doing it so I might as well.