I think that guys want us to hint less, and be more forward. Actually make the first step of demonstrating affection (be it physical or verbal). My theory is that since we tend to be able to turn guys down, and they almost NEVER turn us down, that they are afraid of our power to say no. They therfore do not clue in when we throw encouragement their way (unless they are in their cups a bit, and have reduced inhibitions).
Unfortunately if we are too encouraging, we get labled as 'easy'.
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