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I went the other day to speak with a sex therapist, and I must tell you, I feel 100x better.
As well, I disagree with everyone that says that some things are better left unsaid with your life partner. I do not know about all of you, but my conscience speaks volumes, and I could never hide anything from her. Isn't the entire point of having someone you love sooo much, and care about, to have a bond like no other, a bond where you hold nothing back.
True, certain confessions may hurt the other person, but mine did not, because it occurred well before we knew eachother. Yes, I did risk losing her by telling her this in the first 3 months of our relationship, but it was somethin that had to be said.
I cannot comment how I would feel if telling her backfired and we were not together. But, I do not have to think about that. She had many things in her past that seemed shocking to me, and bother me, but it was her past, and it doesnt change the girl I fell in love with, or the person she is today.
Everyone has some skeletons in the closet.
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