on the one hand, she has told you and that in itself means something.
you need to figure out what you want to do, and then sit her down and tell her what you want to do. she broke your trust and you shouldn't just welcome her back with open arms. terms and conditions should probably be set to make sure she knows that she shouldn't be doing this if she wants to be with you.
on the other, the reality of the situation is that she very well may break up with you. doesn't this sound familiar? how did her relationship end with your "acquaintence"? you may need to recognize that this is something that she does or could do and be prepared for it.
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This is what is hardest: to close the open hand because one loves.
Nietzsche
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