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This is tough and not-so-tough at the same time. If you are really feeling this way about someone else while dating your girlfriend, you must know, in your mind, that the relationship is over. It is. So, the first thing you must do is end that relationship. don't tiptoe around it, don't try to sugar coat it. sit down with your girlfriend and tell her that you honestly don't see a future, and you want to date other people.
Then, do not approach the roommate, that would be a really nasty thing as it could lead to the two roommates llosing each other as friends, and then that would be on your shoulders forever. If the relationship with the roommate is inevitable, it will happen, but you also must know that, being human as we all are, means that this, too, may never materialize.
Even if this is true, there is still someone out there for you, whether it is your curent girlfriend and you just don't see it, her roommate, or someone else.
But this thing you're doing right now is like touching a 9 volt battery to your tongue: it hurts, it's pointless, and it'll feel good when you stop. So stop.
Peace,
Pierre
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