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After three years, your relationship with your gf has grown quite stale. I've always believed that by the end on one year, you should make a choice: Are you going to get married (eventually) or not. If you are, you should take action and get engaged. If not, then you should break up so that your friend can circulate and have a chance of finding someone right for them.
Going together for three years is just wrong.
No wonder your libido is trying to tell you to circulate more.
But your gf's roomate and good friend isn't going to want to get with you. It would be so disloyal. The only acceptable way is to break up cleanly with your gf, wait at least six months, and preferably a couple years, and then run into the roomate again. Show interest, make conversation, and ask her out. But then it won't feel disloyal, and if she likes you, she'll go for it.
But don't dump your gf for her roomate. On the other hand, aurigus had an idea. Only why not bring up a ménage à trois some evening when you're sharing dinner with the two of them. Just honestly admit that the three year relationship has grown a little stale, and you'd like to spice it up a bit. Then ask them how they'd feel about a manage? You may find yourself on the street in about 30 seconds, or in bed with them in for the night. Depending on how they feel about it.
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Trueheart
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