I agree with everyone else's statements. Sex/ physical intimacy is an important part of married life. There is no way she will be able to move past this without therapy but she may not be willing to go. Starting with a marriage counselor so you will both be going may help although she's eventually going to have to do some serious one on one counseling sessions. Try to make it about both of you, try not to make her feel like you are blaming her. I can tell you love her and I'm sure she loves you. Tell her how you feel, be honest, make sure she can see how much you love her. If you didn't love her you wouldn't want to work this hard to make your marriage work.
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