stonegrody

Sorry to hear this Johnny. It must be tough. Maybe your wife needs a little therapy to help get her feelings out about things? The fact that she has such a negative attitude towards sex probably isn't healthy.

You seem to respect her stance which is great, but this has to be hard on you as well. A marriage is a two way street. Maybe you should talk to her about this and let her know that you would like to have a healthier, happier sex life. Something to be enjoyed and not endured. You seem to be making a lot of comprimise here, maybe she should make some of her own. Not to say that her feelings are not legit. I'm sure what she went through has a lot to do with this but you also have needs of your own. If approached the right way, I'm sure she would consider improving the situation. It sounds like you have a good relationship otherwise so maybe it wouldn't be so hard to talk to her about it. It's a touchy subject so tread lightly. Good luck.

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