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My parents have been married almost 22 years and ya know what... I wish they'd get a divorce. My mother told me a few months ago that she'd be surprised if they were still together by the end of the year... I hadn't heard anything else and then they started house shopping in Wyoming. Mom told me a few days ago that she'll probably just tell him to go when he's ready to move and she'll sell the house they're in and move back into the old one.
Ya know what? It'd break my heart, but I'm not stupid and I want my mom to be happy. My brother and I can see how my parents are and neither of us want to be like them. I divorced my husband because I was so unhappy... ya know what? It took me telling my mother flat out that I deserve to be happy just like everyone else and that he treated me in a way that made me fear waking up every morning..... It's only been since then that Mom's talked openly to me about being unhappy... mostly in the form of complaining about my dad a lot.
Kids hear things. They see things. They sense things that they don't see or hear.
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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