If you are constantly worrying about if she's going to leave you or not, you're not going to be able to enjoy the relationship. Maybe she will, maybe she wont. Either way, you probably wont have much control over it. Either you're going to be a cool guy and be a pleasure to be around or you're going to be a paranoid worrier who's going to turn her off with your insecurities. I know that when I'm with someone and they constantly worry if I'm going to go somewhere else, it's all they focus on and I eventually do go somewhere else because it's a pain. Don't convince her to do so. Try to get over it and just enjoy what time you have with her. No relationship is guaranteed forever so why fret over it? Just enjoy the ride while you can instead of stressing over the what if's. Believe me, if you guys have talked about this, I'm sure she is well aware of how you feel. I personally don't enjoy being around people who are so worried about stuff like that, it's not enjoyable to be around. That alone would cause me to leave.
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