I do unfortunately know and feel what you are going through. I've been married 20 yrs and recently filed for divorce. I struggled for over 2 yrs on whether or not to stay for my kids. I agree that divorce is not the avenue I had originally thought of, however, over time things grew worse and my kids were starting to suffer. They are old enough to understand, still hurts, but they are stronger than we give them credit for. My advice....make yourself happy. Kids will see that you are. Take care and much luck.
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