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Wow that is diffulcult. I have been with a man before that I grew to resent also but it was easier bc there were no children involved. At the time we split I could not support myself 100% either and I had to stay with someone for a week or so until I got my feet under me. But let me tell you...once I got past all the pain of leaving it was the most wonderful feeling ever. I felt this huge burden had been lifted off of my soul. From what I have seen of your writing here, I have gained the assumption that you are a very strong woman. So therefore, I know you can leave. I think in this instance you have to be selfish. You children will be upset, there is no doubt about that, but time WILL HEAL ALL WOUNDS, you can be sure of that. You will be surprised how easy it was after you start the wheels in motion.
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