maleficent

I'm going to give the guy the benefit of the doubt for a moment.

1. He's never had a girlfriend before, maybe he's unaware of the "rules".
2. He's never had you as a girlfriend before, he's unaware of your rules.
3. He's busy trying to get back on his feet, when you are focused on doing something, some folks find it hard to remember the world outside them ( would you respect him if he neglected his responsibilities and focussed all his attention on you?)
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If I thought he was worth it:

I would probably drop by his house, with a card that said i was thinking about him, and when he had five minutes to breath, to give me a call.

I have been this guy in relationships, so I know what it's like. You honestly do not realize that you are neglecting someone, I would have been appreciative of such a gesture rather than the barrage of phone calls that I did get about how work was more important than they were (Work pays the bills, they don't)

B ut with that said:
You deserve someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. If he's not giving you what you want in a relationship, cut your losses now. You deserve to be happy too.

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