I think this guy is playing you. I am of the mindset that you can't have your cake and eat it too. It this guy is having physical relations with someone else, you don't need to be getting involved unless he cuts the cord with her. Sure, he can be friends as we are all adults here, but if he ever expects to gain your full trust and respect, he would step up and be a man.
You, on the other hand, need to stop being so naive. I don't mean to sound harsh, but if he is admitting having sex with her and is doing the same with you, chances are his feelings for you are not as strong as you think.
I would suggest an ultimatum. This will put things into perspective for him real quick. Tell him you have other options otu there and will pursue them if he is not serious enough about you to drop this other sexual escapade.
My 2 cents.....
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