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This can go in two directions, depending on the amount of work you're willing to do.
First, he obviously isn't getting the love and attention that anybody should recieve from a committed relationship. He's with girl A simply because he always has been. Now, you can work your little tail off and try to show him how great a relationship CAN be. It may take a few months/years for this to work, but you most likely will have a chance to make him realize how great you are, and how pathetic girl A is.
Or, you can let this go. Cut him out of your life - let him realize how much he misses you. This can either work to your benefit (he can't live without you), or your demise (he still doesn't have the cojones to leave girl A). This is risky, but this is most likely what I would do. Especially if he's only giving you 1% of his attention.
Third, you can continue your relationship as it stands. You guys both get sex, but nothing more - leaving you feeling empty and he more confused than ever. This, however, is the easiest course of action to take.
It's your call.
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