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I would probably define myself as submissive in desire. In my current relationship though I have evolved to me a little bit more directive in day to day simply because hubby comes home and just wants to crash no more decisions. I do the finances and stuff too. When it comes to sex though I crave the submissive role. Hubby isn't strongly dominant but I have had more dominant partners and seek them out usually. In my definition the best dominant person has the submissives desires and well being always in mind and is careful to respect those. If not then it becomes abusive. Just my experience though.
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