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dollom · 11-16-2005, 05:05 PM

I have been dating this woman for almost a year now....exept that we have only had sex twice in the last six months. She stopped returning phone calls...doesn't call when she says she will..

Have I just turned into a booty call? If so...I need to move on.

Psycho Dad · 11-16-2005, 05:20 PM

Not to sound harsh, but if she isn't returning calls... You aren't even at booty call status. Move on. It doesn't sound like there is much to save if anything.

MexicanOnABike · 11-16-2005, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by dollom

I have been dating this woman for almost a year now....exept that we have only had sex twice in the last six months.

OUCH!!! oh man. move on. i had sex with my gf more time than i can count in this month. if she stopped for no good reason, then i'd break up just like you should.

but seriously, Ask her what's going on... i bet she's cheating on you. i'm sure even a woman needs sex more than 4 times a year.

Mantus · 11-16-2005, 07:07 PM

Very caveman-ish. "No sex, calls stop". I almost like it.

And, I am sorry but I it looks like it's over.

Sage · 11-16-2005, 07:29 PM

hee hee hee Mantis... good advice!

Yeah, she's using you. The ratio of how much sex you have versus how many days of the week you see her should never be less than 1:7 (one sex session for every seven days of seeing her)

IMHO

dollom · 11-17-2005, 10:43 AM

Thank you all for the good advice. I have decided to move on. In the end, I need more than occasional sex and no emotional committment. My conclusion is that life is too short to waste on someone who does not absolutely want to be with me. New Rule: #12 NO EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE WOMEN.

OTK · 11-17-2005, 10:54 AM

I like the 1:7 rule. How long do you think you should be dating before you apply this rule?

rlynnm · 11-28-2005, 01:28 PM

When I first read your post I thought the worst of it was the fact that you weren't having sex regularly. One thing I've learned is that no matter how busy you both are, you both should always schedule time for some 'stress relief' -- if you know what I mean. But that's an entirely different issue...

If she isn't returning phonecalls, there isn't really much more of a relationship to pursue. Time to move on.

11-16-2005, 05:05 PM	#1 (permalink)
dollom Upright	Dating off and on.... I have been dating this woman for almost a year now....exept that we have only had sex twice in the last six months. She stopped returning phone calls...doesn't call when she says she will.. Have I just turned into a booty call? If so...I need to move on.

11-16-2005, 05:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
Psycho Dad Mulletproof Location: Some nucking fut house.	Not to sound harsh, but if she isn't returning calls... You aren't even at booty call status. Move on. It doesn't sound like there is much to save if anything. __________________ Don't always trust the opinions of experts.

11-16-2005, 07:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	hee hee hee Mantis... good advice! Yeah, she's using you. The ratio of how much sex you have versus how many days of the week you see her should never be less than 1:7 (one sex session for every seven days of seeing her) IMHO __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

11-17-2005, 10:43 AM	#6 (permalink)
dollom Upright	Thanks all Thank you all for the good advice. I have decided to move on. In the end, I need more than occasional sex and no emotional committment. My conclusion is that life is too short to waste on someone who does not absolutely want to be with me. New Rule: #12 NO EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE WOMEN.

11-28-2005, 01:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
rlynnm Psycho Location: so cal	When I first read your post I thought the worst of it was the fact that you weren't having sex regularly. One thing I've learned is that no matter how busy you both are, you both should always schedule time for some 'stress relief' -- if you know what I mean. But that's an entirely different issue... If she isn't returning phonecalls, there isn't really much more of a relationship to pursue. Time to move on. __________________ The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself, especially if that means completely redefining the world you've come to know. Don't look too hard, I'm right in front of you.

11-16-2005, 07:07 PM	#4 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	Very caveman-ish. "No sex, calls stop". I almost like it. And, I am sorry but I it looks like it's over.

11-17-2005, 10:54 AM	#7 (permalink)
OTK Upright Location: Ohio	I like the 1:7 rule. How long do you think you should be dating before you apply this rule?