Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community  

Go Back   Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community > The Academy > Tilted Sexuality


 
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 06-23-2005, 09:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
Upright
 
Bi-curious girls. Where are they?

Is it me? or am i the only bi-curious girl? I've been looking everywhere for a 'friend' to help me with my growing frustration.

I've had moments, but i long for the touch of a girl.

Even though i'm married and get plenty of attetion at work from some lovely guys, it's just never enough?

Is there any one else that feels the same or am i just a freak?
foxiefrenchie is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 09:13 AM   #2 (permalink)
Insane
 
Location: Sage's bed
Quote:
Originally Posted by foxiefrenchie
Even though i'm married and get plenty of attetion at work from some lovely guys, it's just never enough?
'Scuse me if this is out of line, but where does your husband fit into all this?

I've got no issue with experimenting and such with something that by definition you don't have in a marriage (ie. being married to a man and interested in women) but it sounds to me like maybe you're not getting what you need from your husband if you're still looking for attention from guys at work.

And just for the record, I know there are plenty of bi-curious girls around, I'm married to one.
__________________
Anamnesis
Martel is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 10:14 AM   #3 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado
Hmmm... I wouldn't exactly say I'm even at the level of "bi-curious" but I do have an interest in women at some level (whatever it is).

First of all, you're not a freak. Honestly, it's very acceptable for you to be interested in other women. No one's going to look at you differently. However, perhaps you should talk to him about this "longing" of yours and see what he thinks. Hell, he might even be delighted that you're interested in other women.
__________________
"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Gandhi
eMOTIONal20 is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 10:55 AM   #4 (permalink)
Kick Ass Kunoichi
 
snowy's Avatar
 
Location: Oregon
As Meatwad says, "I ain't no bi-curious!"

Actually, until fairly recently I was, and then I realized I really do like women...there's no curiousity about it

They do give you something men don't, and you're definitely not a freak for being interested. However, as emotional suggested, communication is key--your spouse needs to know about your curiousity. There are a lot of other bi/bicurious women on this board, and so I know you'll get a lot of support and help if you ask for it.
__________________
If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
snowy is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 10:58 AM   #5 (permalink)
who ever said streaking was a bad thing?
 
streak_56's Avatar
 
Location: Calgary
When I lived in Ohio, there were too many to count. Just sit back and wait, you'll notice a few before you know it.

And personally as said above, you get attention from guys at work and yet you are married? That brings up a bigger issue with me. But hey.... thats why it is your life, you don't have to listen to me.
streak_56 is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 11:02 AM   #6 (permalink)
Free Mars!
 
feelgood's Avatar
 
Location: I dunno, there's white people around me saying "eh" all the time
Quote:
Originally Posted by streak_56
When I lived in Ohio, there were too many to count. Just sit back and wait, you'll notice a few before you know it.
You wish.

There's barely any up here, at least, not that I've noticed
__________________
Looking out the window, that's an act of war. Staring at my shoes, that's an act of war. Committing an act of war? Oh you better believe that's an act of war
feelgood is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 12:19 PM   #7 (permalink)
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
 
raeanna74's Avatar
 
Location: Upper Michigan
Well in swinger circles there's seems to be a lot of bi-curious/bisexual girls. I have a few girlfriends that I chat with regularly and play with on occaision. I've really been initially introduced to bi-sexuality only about 3 years ago and have grown to enjoy it quite a bit. I would say about 1/3 of the swinger girls I meet are bi-curious at least.
__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
raeanna74 is offline  
Old 06-23-2005, 09:21 PM   #8 (permalink)
Psycho
 
noodles's Avatar
 
Location: sc
1) they're more plentiful than you think. as i mentioned in another thread, all the girls i've been in relationships with have been at least bi-curious, if not officlally bi.
2) like it was already mentioned, hope you have the ok from the husband before you act on anything, nobody likes a cheater.
__________________
This is what is hardest: to close the open hand because one loves.
Nietzsche
noodles is offline  
Old 06-24-2005, 07:13 AM   #9 (permalink)
Darth Papa
 
ratbastid's Avatar
 
Location: Yonder
Seriously, dude, where aren't they? Almost every single woman I know well enough to talk about sex is at least bi-curious. Out of all my female friends, I know ONE who's not.
ratbastid is offline  
Old 06-24-2005, 08:06 AM   #10 (permalink)
Squid
 
MikeyChalupa's Avatar
 
Location: USS George Washington
Hmm. I think something is fishy here. Just an instinct.

-Mikey
MikeyChalupa is offline  
Old 06-24-2005, 08:11 AM   #11 (permalink)
Ravenous
 
wolf's Avatar
 
Location: Right Behind You
I did a study on this for a class on the psych of sexuality. Bi-curiosity in both sexes is perfectly normal. Social stigmas have repressed most mens feelings about this, as well as many womens.

For women, they realize that there are places and things to be done which a man won't always do. Because women know their own bodies so well and what feels good, they tend to know what to do to eachother. When they are together there isn't a rush to penetration the way there can be with men. It can be a more emotional experience. Not to say that all women feel this way, that isn't true, or to say that all men are inept with women, I'm sure that all of the guys on this board know exactly how to please a woman after sneaking peeks into the ladies lounge .
__________________
Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as Gods. Cats have never forgotten this.
wolf is offline  
Old 06-24-2005, 08:56 AM   #12 (permalink)
Addict
 
lindseylatch's Avatar
 
Location: Seattle, WA
I'm not bi-curious, but I think that's cause my family is so open about sex and stuff, so I don't feel a need to go out and experiment (which I think curiousity is).
Depending on where you live, there may be some lesbian/gay bars where you can meet other women. I mean, does the other woman have to be into guys too?
__________________
"Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities"
"If God did not exist, it would be necessary to invent him."
"It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong."
-Voltaire
lindseylatch is offline  
Old 06-24-2005, 03:59 PM   #13 (permalink)
Addict
 
Location: Amish-land, PA
They are located on every college campus across these great United States. Go and find one.
__________________
"I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."
TM875 is offline  
Old 07-12-2005, 06:53 PM   #14 (permalink)
Upright
 
Location: Right here, right now
*raising hand* I was bi-curious for several years but did nothing about it. Afraid? Didn't know where to start? At times I have literally ached for a woman's touch. My partner-in-life and I talked about it though, and he said that if I ever had the opportunity to be with a woman he would never see it as cheating (whatta great guy I have, and not just for this reason!) I do not believe for a second that a curiosity about being with a woman is a sign of something lacking in a marriage.

By now I hope you are no longer feeling freakish about it. As mentioned before, our culture treats same-sex interests as a taboo, but how dumb is that? My personal philosophy about marriage has evolved -- a lot -- over the years. My love and I are deeply committed to our marriage and each other. Exploring my curiosities and interests has brought us even closer as a couple. Your husband may not be interested in helping you explore this part of your sexuality . . . or he may very well get into it! The only way to know is to talk with him.

Is there a swinger's club in your area? This may be an excellent place to "break the ice," so to speak (did wonders for me!) From what I've seen, it's mostly couples at the club I have visited a couple of times. I understand there are some good online groups, like on Yahoo (I have not yet explored this though).

Please feel free to PM me if you wanna talk more
__________________
Onward, through the fog . . .
Beccarain is offline  
Old 07-12-2005, 08:09 PM   #15 (permalink)
32 flavors and then some
 
Gilda's Avatar
 
Location: Out on a wire.
A long time ago I thought I was bi-curious, then for a while I identified as bisexual, but that was really just a bridge to being able to admit I was homosexual. If there are any gay/lesbian clubs or bars in your area, you're not going to find it difficult to find another woman who's interested in helping you explore your curiosity. Some lesbians do find bi-curious girls distasteful, but some don't care if you're also into guys.

Your op sounds like you may only be interested in other bi-girls, which is fine, but maybe a little harder to seek out.

My first experience with another woman was with a bi-curious girl. She satisfiedy her curiosity and went back to guys, but I think enjoyed the experience quite a bit.

Good luck. I hope you find someone. I would, however, advise that you not sneak around behind your husband's back. Some men find this sexy, while others find it a betrayal. Don't be dishonest with your lifemate.
__________________
I'm against ending blackness. I believe that everyone has a right to be black, it's a choice, and I support that.

~Steven Colbert
Gilda is offline  
Old 07-12-2005, 08:24 PM   #16 (permalink)
Pissing in the cornflakes
 
Ustwo's Avatar
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by raeanna74
Well in swinger circles there's seems to be a lot of bi-curious/bisexual girls. I have a few girlfriends that I chat with regularly and play with on occaision. I've really been initially introduced to bi-sexuality only about 3 years ago and have grown to enjoy it quite a bit. I would say about 1/3 of the swinger girls I meet are bi-curious at least.
I'd say in swingers circles its closer to 3/4ths if not a bit higher.

Quote:
Originally Posted by ratbastid
Seriously, dude, where aren't they? Almost every single woman I know well enough to talk about sex is at least bi-curious. Out of all my female friends, I know ONE who's not.
I only know one who isn't personally.
__________________
Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host

Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.
Ustwo is offline  
 

Tags
bicurious, girls


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 11:01 PM.

Tilted Forum Project

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0 PL2
© 2002-2012 Tilted Forum Project

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76