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loganmule · 02-01-2005, 07:30 PM

Holo and Halx give the right advice...communication is the key, and when someone doesn't want to communicate, that itself is a thundering communication which roughly translated means "for whatever reason which I may or may not be aware of, I'm fucking with you." Good luck.

Spicy McHaggis · 02-02-2005, 10:50 AM

Maybe it's a domination thing? Is she into s&m at all?

skysooner · 03-09-2005, 02:36 PM

So has anything happened with this situation, Cervantes?

jhkayakr · 03-09-2005, 02:43 PM

Hope she isn't cheating on you.

pules · 03-09-2005, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

A. Watch the "pussy man" commentary. That crap doesn't float in this pool.

B. I predict that, unless your attitude towards women changes dramaticaly, you are in for a long lonesome stretch in your life. I would suggest turning off Tom Leykis, and go outide and get a real look at what life is about.

I've been with my girl friend for the last 6 years, so don't make any assumptions. We have one of the best relationships amongst any of our friends. In fact, many of my friends want to know what have we done to last for such a long time.

All I'm saying, which is also repeating what many have said, is WHY???? Why allow something to go on for such a long time. I don't agree with a lot of things Tom Leykis has to say, but when it comes to dealing with women, he makes lots of good points. In fact, the points are so right on that I've tired some of them on my women co-workers....they all say "we don't want badass guys in our lives" but they do the opposite and get even more attracted to me when I act like an a-hole.

Cervantes - Unless you know this girl is worth everything, believe in your self and know that you can always do better. Remember this. All women want a man to be able to protect them (no matter what they say....i've had many many conversations with different women regarding this topic)

DO NOT LET SEX TAKE OVER YOU. It's your place, it's your rules.

I have nothing against you, I don't even know you. All I want is the best for you. Remember....life is a cycle, you have times of good and bad. Just step back and look at the graph.

Cervantes · 03-09-2005, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by skysooner

So has anything happened with this situation, Cervantes?

I'ts all back to normal as far as I can see, I found out some more about where she go the idea though. She has (or rather had at this point) this friend who enjoys playing with her boyfriends in this manner. She suggested my SO to try it aswell. Unfortunently my SO isn't all that experienced when it comes to relationships so she didn't forsee the problem with playing this way.

As it is now there was a bit of uneasiness when I tried your advice about physical intimacy. We haven't been that way since we moved in together. But the awkwardness gave way and it's working out just fine.

Pules,
She is definently worth it. She just doesn't think some things through (just like myself). The reason I let it go on for over a month was that at first it didn't bother me that much. It wasn't untill I relaized she wouldn't stop that it became really annoying and frustrating.

Kalnaur · 03-09-2005, 11:43 PM

I'm glad that open communication was the path you took and the path that worked. Any time open communication does not work, it is not time for revenge or drastic measure, it's time for help, in whatever form you need it to be in.

Again, glad it's all worked out (for now). Just remember what worked next time something comes up.

Sweetpea · 03-09-2005, 11:48 PM

Glad it worked out nicely . . . just keep being honest with yourself and with her and everything will fall into place.

Sweetpea

martinguerre · 03-10-2005, 12:21 AM

congrats...it seems like you're reaping the dividends of investing in patience and communication. that to me, says more in response to some of the other suggestions than anything else.

skysooner · 03-10-2005, 02:23 AM

I'm glad it is all working out. Keep it up. It is worth it. My wife surprises me all the time, and it all stems from step-by-step communication and working at the physical part of our relationship.

insidious_machinae · 03-11-2005, 02:54 PM

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03-09-2005, 02:43 PM	#44 (permalink)
jhkayakr Insane Location: under the skirt	Hope she isn't cheating on you. __________________ ........gotta need for speed....

03-09-2005, 11:43 PM	#47 (permalink)
Kalnaur Psycho Location: Portland, Oregon	I'm glad that open communication was the path you took and the path that worked. Any time open communication does not work, it is not time for revenge or drastic measure, it's time for help, in whatever form you need it to be in. Again, glad it's all worked out (for now). Just remember what worked next time something comes up. __________________ PC: Can you help me out here HK? HK-47: I'm 98% percent sure this miniature organic meatbag wants you to help find his fellow miniature organic meatbags. PC: And the other 2 percent? HK-47: The other 2 percent is that he is just looking for trouble and needs to be blasted, but that might be wishful thinking on my part.

03-09-2005, 11:48 PM	#48 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Location: in love	Glad it worked out nicely . . . just keep being honest with yourself and with her and everything will fall into place. Sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself"

03-10-2005, 12:21 AM	#49 (permalink)
martinguerre whosoever Location: New England	congrats...it seems like you're reaping the dividends of investing in patience and communication. that to me, says more in response to some of the other suggestions than anything else. __________________ For God so loved creation, that God sent God's only Son that whosoever believed should not perish, but have everlasting life. -John 3:16

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02-01-2005, 07:30 PM	#41 (permalink)
loganmule Junkie Location: midwest	Holo and Halx give the right advice...communication is the key, and when someone doesn't want to communicate, that itself is a thundering communication which roughly translated means "for whatever reason which I may or may not be aware of, I'm fucking with you." Good luck.

02-02-2005, 10:50 AM	#42 (permalink)
Spicy McHaggis Tilted Location: Athens, OH	Maybe it's a domination thing? Is she into s&m at all?

03-09-2005, 02:36 PM	#43 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	So has anything happened with this situation, Cervantes?

03-10-2005, 02:23 AM	#50 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	I'm glad it is all working out. Keep it up. It is worth it. My wife surprises me all the time, and it all stems from step-by-step communication and working at the physical part of our relationship.