losamigos

i like freshin up as much as possible before sex-i like to shower with her first. i like to put on good smelling lotion on package just to make it nice for her, just to encourage it. i keep it nice and trimmed too. i try to keep everything smooth and smellig good.

do u guys do it or am i the only one?

drakers

Well I don't shower with my wife first, no lotion on my package, I do keep it trimmed or shaved when I feel like it. But we don't take a shower before unless it is a really special night but I wish we did every once in a while to make it more intimate!)

FatherTed

I suppose it depends if it is spontaneous or not.
Sometimes I do and like to.
Sometimes the moment overtakes us and our minds are not exactly on showers

doncalypso

If I even suspect I might get oral sex I take the time to clean my dick thoroughly. I take extra care to lather profusely and make sure it is squeaky clean because I'm not circumcised and I know some women have this idea that an uncircumcised penis is unclean no matter what.

Also, I take care to keep my pubic hair trimmed so my girlfriend doesn't choke on it during oral sex.

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Nancy

We only shave and I never let Loverboy shower. Showering removes the smell and taste of his cock which I love.

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Rinndalir

I have a Monk-like obsession with cleanliness (as in, the TV show Monk, about the neurotic detective) so yes. I don't mind getting messy during sex, but there is a certain "end of the day funk" that both sexes can get down there and it is a major turn off for me.

Charlatan

You never let him shower... now that's kinky!


For us it all depends on the moment... If we are just going to have a quickie (something my wife prefers) there really isn't a need to "freshen up".

That said, my wife won't let me do oral on her unless she has washed herself first... personally I don't care (unless she's particularly dirty... i.e. just being jogging or something like that...)

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yosho

i dunno, personally I like the smell when my girl isn't super clean :þ

showering all the time just takes some of the fun out of it

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losamigos

nancy are u serious? is he cut or uncut? man, i wish my gf was like that. she always says she doesn't mind, but i would love it if she loved the smell and taste of it unwashed.

i'm like doncalyspo, i usually wash up right before oral sex. if we're at a resturant i run in the bath room and if no ones there, i wash up. or when we're back at my place, i tell her i have to use the restroom, but i don't i just wash it.

maybe i should chill a bit on it.

greeneyes

You wash it at restaurants? How do you not get your pants soaked? What if someone walks in?

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Mephisto2

Yes, I agree. Freshen up beforehand.

Of course, unless it's one of those drunken "I have just got to fuck you" moments on the way back from the pub.

Ahhh... thanks for the mammeries. Erm, memories.


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Fire

to each their own, but personally, I always make sure I have washed/ showered before recieving oral- I feel no reason to turn a lady into a "dirty cocksucker" she should instead be a "clean cocksucker"- the only exception to this being urgent quickies, when she professes not to care.......

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MageB420666

I usually try to maintain a level of personal hygiene when I'm around my SO that means I don't have to worry about a quick freshening up before "getting nasty".

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Nancy

lol, I meant I never let him shower just before sex/blowjob

Of course I'm serious; I have this terrible dick fetish so I'm obsessesed with his equipment

- oh and he's uncut like 99,99% of the males in Denmark


Ok so your girlfriend doesn't like the taste and smell of your dick unwashed but look at the bright side; she doesn't mind giving you a BJ like so many other girls

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Ella

OMG, you have a dick fetish, Nancy? Jeez....you've hidden that well!

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losamigos

nancy, u are like the perfect woman! lol, naw that's my gf -imho

green eyes, i only do it if there's a lock. i just pull it out, i'm pretty tall so i just whip it out and rinse it off after i piss.

i would never piss and not clean up then let my girl go down on me. so, if i'm at a resturant and i go piss, i try to clean up some how.

Nancy

Thanks! I'm really trying here!

Why not? It's just a bit of urin

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Squishor

I always go have a quick wash beforehand, unless it's totally spontaneous and/or there are no facilities nearby. I appreciate it when he does the same - our sex life is plenty good without the "funk" factor.

losamigos

lol, omg nancy ur just teasing now!

actually nancy u gave me the inspiration to talk to my girlie about and just told me that-

she actually prefers the natural smell versus the soap smell or worse no smell.

i've always thought washing up before oral took away a little of the sensation for me but i just did it for her. i think i'm gonna ease up a bit now.

Nancy

Not at all

Good thing you talked to her about this so you know she feels about your smell.

And yeah I have to agree with your girl about the soap smell; there's nothing I hate worse than when I'm doing a BJ and the dick tastes like Dove. That's just not sexy

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I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

Charlatan

It tastes like dove?


Now *that* is kinky...


On a more serious note... I hate it when my wife tastes like soap as well...

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pinkie

I doesn't really matter. Personally I'm with Nancy, I love the smell of a cock that's been in his underwear all day so I can smell him...

StanT

Interesting thread. After a gazillion years of marriage, even spontaneity is predictable. I always shower, shave, and brush my teeth in anticipation of sex. It just seemed like common courtesy. On the other hand, unless we've been out on a 20 mile hike, I've never minded my wife's smell (or taste). I guess we'll be having a discussion one of these days.

Kalnaur

It is often that she and I shower before making love yes, but not all the time.

Also,I do not shave hair or use lotion of any kind, and she has never requested it.

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Nancy

lol knock it off! you know very well that I meant:

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Cream Wash!

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freeload

Eventually she'll get it right

It's firiday, midnight - and I nearly fell off the couch laughing....

Oh, to keep on topic - I try my best to stay clean and trimmed.
Unless I'm really horny/kinky, I prefer her to be clean.

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someoneelse

I like to freshen up before sexy. Probably, because I am not circumcised and want to keep it extra clean for my special lady. I do not care if my lady does or not, because I love the way she smells/tastes anytime =P

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Homey_V

Im a clean person. Short of coming back from a heavy workout, I dont wash up before hand. Neither does she. I like her au naturel. Rawr!

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xxSquirtxx

Ditto.

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bing bing

I always make sure my balls are hairless, that all other hair is trimmed close and that my junk is washed beforehand. There are of course exceptions when I’m caught off guard, but I’m sure most people can relate to that.

macmanmike6100

i definitely keep myself smooth; i llke how it looks and feels, plus the chicks have always loved it. I usually don't shower before sex and only used to shower with her in the early stages because it was exciting...until we realized that I like it cold while she likes it hot. I'll lotion sometimes.

Arsenic7

It's been too eratic lately.

Normally I would make sure to be nice and neat but I can never tell when I'm going to get it so I just trim now and then. I already take a shower everyday.

Besides...you generally need to clean up more AFTER the fun.

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snowy

Add me to that tally. He just tastes better au naturel.

As for my own hygiene...I'm kind of...fanatic about it. I shower at LEAST once daily, usually twice if I have a feeling I might be getting up close and personal later. If I'm out to get booty you'd better believe that everything is neat, clean and trimmed. If I've got a feeling I'm going to be giving rather than receiving, I don't go that far.

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Jonsgirl

Well, I keep myself clean in general, so most of the time I don't worry about it. If I'm going to bed and I *know* that I'm gettin some, I will take a few extra mintues to freshen up, though.

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strcrssd

I greatly prefer it when my girl takes a shower before we mess around, this is particularly important when I go down on her. I prefer the fresh, arousal smell over the sweat odor/taste any day...though I'm usually happy to go down in either circumstance.

I try to keep myself clean for her, as well. I shower (usually) twice a day, and give the boys a good cleaning each time.

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