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Starkizzer · 12-05-2010, 02:26 PM

On another site, which is primarily fetish based, someone wrote in their "blog" about remembering the start of a particular fetish/preference. This memory went back to when he was a child (between the ages of 7-9) and was about his friend's mother. Since then, he has accredited his love for older in charge women to this particular event.

Reading this got me thinking. Biting is one of my fetishes/something I love and recently I recalled something from my childhood about biting. As a fairly young child I used to bite my arms, pretty hard in fact, to the point that I can remember having teeth shaped scabs. I asked my grandma about this when I saw her a few weekends ago, to make sure it wasn't just a made up memory. She said she does remember me doing that for awhile but I grew out of it quickly, probably because she would put hot sauce on my arm.

I am not sure why I did this biting, but I figure this must be the start of it. I still love having my arms bitten to this day and when I am stressed or nervous I bite them and my hands. I don't bite hard enough to leave scabs though, thank goodness.

So, can anyone else trace a fetish or sexual preference back to a moment in their earlier days? Are there any that do go all the way back to being a young child? Have you ever identified a particular fetish/preference with a specific event before?

Hotmnkyluv · 12-05-2010, 04:42 PM

I like to be the one doing the biting. I can trace it back to around 17, and s girlfriend who used to tell me,"If I don't say ouch, you're not biting me hard enough"...

slumberinglotus · 12-05-2010, 05:45 PM

Hmmm let's see. I think the whole Starwars Princess Leia Jaba the Hut scene started me. The collared Princess scene... ya I could be that. That at least made me aware of that lifestyle.

Hotmnkyluv · 12-05-2010, 06:07 PM

If you like collars check out the 'Gor' series by John Norman.

slumberinglotus · 12-05-2010, 08:01 PM

I'll have to take a look at that

thanks for the info mnky

purplelirpa · 12-06-2010, 08:14 AM

I've been trying to figure this one out for a while. I blame a lot of the erotica I read when I was a pre-teen, makes me want to be teased almost more than I want the sex.

Daniel_ · 12-06-2010, 11:09 AM

One of my first girlfriends sucked my cock, and ever since then I've been a huge fan. Does that count?

12-05-2010, 02:26 PM	#1 (permalink)
Starkizzer Hi floor! Make me a samwich. Location: Ontario (in the stray cat complex)	The roots of your fetish tree On another site, which is primarily fetish based, someone wrote in their "blog" about remembering the start of a particular fetish/preference. This memory went back to when he was a child (between the ages of 7-9) and was about his friend's mother. Since then, he has accredited his love for older in charge women to this particular event. Reading this got me thinking. Biting is one of my fetishes/something I love and recently I recalled something from my childhood about biting. As a fairly young child I used to bite my arms, pretty hard in fact, to the point that I can remember having teeth shaped scabs. I asked my grandma about this when I saw her a few weekends ago, to make sure it wasn't just a made up memory. She said she does remember me doing that for awhile but I grew out of it quickly, probably because she would put hot sauce on my arm. I am not sure why I did this biting, but I figure this must be the start of it. I still love having my arms bitten to this day and when I am stressed or nervous I bite them and my hands. I don't bite hard enough to leave scabs though, thank goodness. So, can anyone else trace a fetish or sexual preference back to a moment in their earlier days? Are there any that do go all the way back to being a young child? Have you ever identified a particular fetish/preference with a specific event before? __________________ Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey Last edited by Starkizzer; 12-05-2010 at 03:26 PM..

12-05-2010, 05:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
slumberinglotus Upright Location: I am definately where I am, but I am not sure where I should be.	Hmmm let's see. I think the whole Starwars Princess Leia Jaba the Hut scene started me. The collared Princess scene... ya I could be that. That at least made me aware of that lifestyle. __________________ just be nice.

12-05-2010, 08:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
slumberinglotus Upright Location: I am definately where I am, but I am not sure where I should be.	I'll have to take a look at that thanks for the info mnky __________________ just be nice.

12-06-2010, 11:09 AM	#7 (permalink)
Daniel_ Evil Priest: The Devil Made Me Do It! Location: Southern England	One of my first girlfriends sucked my cock, and ever since then I've been a huge fan. Does that count? __________________ ╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗ Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air, And deep beneath the rolling waves, In labyrinths of Coral Caves, The Echo of a distant time Comes willowing across the sand; And everthing is Green and Submarine ╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

12-05-2010, 04:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
Hotmnkyluv Tilted Location: Sunny South Florida	I like to be the one doing the biting. I can trace it back to around 17, and s girlfriend who used to tell me,"If I don't say ouch, you're not biting me hard enough"...

12-05-2010, 06:07 PM	#4 (permalink)
Hotmnkyluv Tilted Location: Sunny South Florida	If you like collars check out the 'Gor' series by John Norman.

12-06-2010, 08:14 AM	#6 (permalink)
purplelirpa Crazy Location: Indiana	I've been trying to figure this one out for a while. I blame a lot of the erotica I read when I was a pre-teen, makes me want to be teased almost more than I want the sex.