kurtisj

alright. im sure this is pretty commonplace...but heres my dilema. theres this girl who i met. a fucking 10, really cool, we got along *amazingly* we hit it off really well with regular convo, and i get her number. woot

so i call her up, and she comes out with me again. dinner/movie/romantic doorstep kiss

so my friend throws badass partys, and there one next weekend. perfect! i call her up, and she agrees. we show up, drink a little and end up in one of the random empty rooms. so we mess around, getting down to the nasty(clothes shed, my cock out, her getting to business)we get walked in on! a total mood ruiner. so with that moment spoiled, its getting late, i take her home. on the way, her cell is ringing off the hook...with her not answering. fishy, eh? so she deceides its a good time to let me know that she has a boyfriend!!!!!!!

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!

as attached as i was already, that was a fucking kick in the gut from hell. i drop her off without a word the rest of the ride home. what the fuck

later that week she calls, and being how hot/awesome she was, i talked. she still wanted to hang out with me, and we talk about her boyfriend from time to time. why would she call me if she had this guy? he came off as an asswipe who called her whenever he wanted to fuck her, pretty much.

this girl still calls me, just to talk. obviously somethings missing in her relationship, to where she'd call me this often. shes been dating this cock for almost 2 years. what the fuck

it seems to me, like i could steal this girl from her old boyfriend. is this something i should do? i could say one thing, shed be better off with me.

all opinions, please.

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maleficent

Consider what she was about to do with you, when she already had a guy. Ok?

Now you are her main squeeze....

How could you trust her? Once a cheater, always a cheater.

If she's not happy in that relationship, then it's up to her to get out of it -- stealing her away, is not a solution, besides, she's a person not a trophy - if she wants you - -she's gotta dump prince charming.

You deserve nothing less.

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ibis

Tell her you'd like to hang out/date/mate/whatever, but not if she's got a boyfriend.

Either she:

1. Breaks up with him - and is now yours.
2. Stays with him - and is out of your hair.

COMMUNICATE HOW YOU FEEL

Sugar&Spice

It seems to me that she is in the comfort zone with her current relationship. Yes, she is interested in you, but she has been in that relationship for so long and its hard to end it. Giver her some time and she'll most likely dump the guy for you. But don't try to steal her.

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timalkin

So, you barely know this girl and she ended up in vacant room with you at a party... and then she tells you that she has a boyfriend...that she's cheating on with you...

No offense dude, but she doesn't exactly sound like someone I'd hang around if I were you.

pig

Been there. To add to the preceding.

If you think you like this girl, do not steal her from her current boyfriend. Based on my experiences, this 1. stains your relationship with her. I don't care if her current boyfriend treats her like shit and everything is his fault (according to this girl) - in the back of her mind you're the reason they broke up, not her. More than likely you become something like a rebound, after you have helped facillitate her breaking up with current boyfriend.

2. If you're comfortable with that or just want to hook up with her (you said she's pretty hot) - then get out the Cavoisier and break it down.

If you really like her, then I would do the following: As said above, tell her how you feel. You like her, you'd be interested in getting to know her better and dating, but not while she's got a boyfriend. And after that, you think the two of you should wait a while for her to get over the boyfriend thing. During this time, don't spend all your time around her. Kills the chemistry.

So, in conclusion: if you just want to knock boots, sally forth, ride hard, and make us proud. If you want to date her, put the brakes on it, and give it some time. Realize that she may only be interested in you (nothing personal, but say in someone outside her relationship) because she's frustrated and/or bored and wants to move on, and might need someone to help her end it.

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the_marq

Yup, I'd nail her for a couple of weeks then get the hell out before she goes all "fatal attraction" on me.

Have fun.

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OperativeK

Bang her socks off and then decide if you want more or not. But come on guys get real just live it day to day and wear a freaekin condom stupid.

kurtisj

yeah, il just play it day by day. i might stick with the hump and dump as long as it lasts. you guys helped out alot, seriously thanks to all of you. you guys showed me shes not a keeper, but just for fun.

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diddagirl

Ok....so she cheated on her BF with you. Whats makes you think she wouldnt do the same thing to you? In my opinion you should back away so that you dont get anymore attached and dont give her the opportunity to break your heart. This girl sounds like bad news....

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Vales419

Fuck her, then Ditch the bitch!

She doesn't know what she wants!

V.

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kurtisj

exactly. im not going to date her, or try to have a relationship.

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KirStang

So hit it and split it, and it's properly done

Kazic

I disagree, to a point. I cheated and saw the after effects of what I have done on both sides of the fence. Something I can honestly say I will NEVER do again. Nothing is worth it. NOTHING.

Now to this situation. It does not seem to me that all is normal in her supposed relationship and if she is hanging with you without being upfront with you that what is she hiding from you?

I say spare yourself the problems and leave now. If she can't be upfront now. How do you know she ever will or worse how do you know what she is telling you is the truth?

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kurtisj

ide rather get laid for a while

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Nitrox

I agree with Kazic. I was the one that cheated, and I would never (repeat never) do that again. It is painful on all of the parties. Gross generalizations are never accurate