dumbnutofak

Mk so I few weeks ago I met my friends sister and we were kinda diggin each other and I know there is a small attraction there. We've hung out a few times n what not. But all n all just friends. she would be the kinda girl that I would have a physical relationship with...and I don't think I want that.

Anyway there is the other chick I work with and got to talkin and jokin around and there is a attraction between us ( talked about it) She is more.... religous than I and she seems like the kinda girl for the emotional relationship.

I dunno what the hell I want, so maybe I will just stay friends. It's like when I'm looking for a relationship I can't find one, so when I'm not looking I get bumrushed with choices....

Cheese N Rice....stoopid decisions.

__________________
If a little knowledge is dangerous, where is a man who has so much as to be out of danger?

Strange Famous

I dont think really anone can tell you which way you should go, as I see it there are two options

1 - Try and get with the girl you like the most

2 - try and get with the girl you will most likely offer you what you want right now from a relationship

Option 3 would be to go for both of them I guess, but I wouldnt recomend it, and plus if one of the girls is the sister of a friend if you were cheating on her he would probably want to kick your ass so it wouldnt be worth it.

__________________
"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."

The Gospel of Thomas

Eugeni

Make your mind up before you do anything with either.

__________________
titular

bermuDa

the trouble with dating your friends sister (for a physical relationship) is this might alienate your friend. have you considered how he might react to such a relationship? And a physical relationship sounds like it wouldn't be all that serious. Do you think she would be interested in a relationship with little emotional investment? Do you think your friend would appreciate you having a merely physical relationship with her?

As for the girl at work, from the little information I have the only problem I forsee is a conflict of religious beliefs, but unless either of you are very adamant about your beliefs, this shouldn't be too big a problem. Also from what you've said, I'm guessing this girl might not be as attractive as your friend's sister, but that's a matter of taste.

I recommend nothing, but agree that you shouldn't make a move on either until you've committed to a plan of action.

__________________
I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

phredgreen

you seem young. because of that, i'd say have a little fun. the only barrier i would see to that angle is the whole "hey buddy, i'm boning your sister" thing, so keep that in perspective. because you say you're not really looking, just enjoy yourself, and don't lead anyone on when you're not completely serious about the whole deal. you'll have plenty of time to settle down when you're older.

just be safe about whatever you do. too much shit going around these days.

__________________
My country is the world, and my religion is to do good.
- Thomas Paine