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Krycheck · 03-28-2004, 08:42 PM

I love going for a second round after I've blown my first load. But 3 times out of 4 I can't bust a second nut. It just won't happen. I get numb and sore and once that happens it's almost impossible to cum again.

Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else?

I mean it's great that i can go for 20-40 min more but I'd like to finish a second time for christs sake!!

stuyguy24 · 03-28-2004, 08:45 PM

it happens. less of a chance of it happening if i take a short break. take some time and cuddle...start over from the beginning.

Lebell · 03-28-2004, 08:45 PM

Yes,

It's very common, and it gets worse as one gets older.

Welcome to life.

dami³ · 03-29-2004, 08:22 AM

Yep, it happens ... stuyguy24 hit the mark, round two immediatly after round one isn't my cup of tea anyway ... personaly I kind of like some "other" quality time first to relax all of my muscles and to clear my head before getting fysical again, regardless of being able to cum again in round two (more chance of finishing then, but no guarantees at all)

Ace_O_Spades · 03-29-2004, 01:38 PM

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Originally posted by Lebell
Yes,

It's very common, and it gets worse as one gets older.

Welcome to life.

there's SO much to look forward to!

2kids1headache · 03-29-2004, 02:18 PM

Think of it this way:

You've just blown your load. What's left for next time?

If you want to fire the gun again, you've got to take at least a little time to reload, huh?

Slims · 03-29-2004, 02:56 PM

Edited.

Eugeni · 03-29-2004, 04:16 PM

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Originally posted by Greg700
if you give youself a little break in betwen sessions you will probably find it a lot easier to come again.

I definately agree.

Bobaphat · 03-29-2004, 04:26 PM

Heck you're lucky. I usually can't bust that first nut, let alone getting a second chance.

skysooner · 03-29-2004, 06:14 PM

Yes, perfectly normal.

*Nikki* · 03-29-2004, 07:14 PM

With my experience it REALLY depends on the guy. My BF can go three or more times in a row and get off every time with no rest inbetween.

But my ex could only shoot once then he was down for the count.

jbrooks544 · 03-29-2004, 07:29 PM

I'm same way. BUT... As long as keeping it up isn't a problem, I can end up "getting off" in about 20 seconds flat if I flip over on my back and she climbs on top. Every time! or, it can work if she blows me or handjob to get off.

The thing for me, at least, at maybe for you too, is that the second time I can't be the one making the motion, it has to be her. try it!

LaughinMon · 03-29-2004, 07:50 PM

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Originally posted by *Nikki*
With my experience it REALLY depends on the guy. My BF can go three or more times in a row and get off every time with no rest inbetween.

But my ex could only shoot once then he was down for the count.

well your bf puts to shame you ex as well as most guys out there

Krycheck · 03-29-2004, 09:03 PM

Well resting is ok if we're out renting a room or doing it during the day. But after a long day at work, doin it at 11pm resting isn't a option. Sleep may kick in

Resting has worked in the past but sometimes I just wanna keep going.

StephenSa · 04-02-2004, 11:14 AM

Heck, my problem is I want to go for a second round but by the time we finish round one my SO has orgasmed and is asleep within minutes. I'm really glad she's satisfied but I'd like another shot (forgive the expression) somertimes. Oh well, fun is fun.

shannon · 04-02-2004, 04:28 PM

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Originally posted by Krycheck
Sleep may kick in

speaking as a practically narcoleptic (sp?) girlfriend, i suggest maybe sleeping and then waking middle of night for some more. although, again, as i am constantly sleepy, if my SO tries to wake me for a romp, i am usually unwakable. so i don't know how good my suggestion really is. i guess it depends on your sleeping habits.

toiletraccoon · 04-05-2004, 02:31 PM

just be happy with one, some people aren't getting any (not me of course)

03-28-2004, 08:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
Krycheck Sultana ruined my evil persona Location: Los Angeles	A good thing or a problem? I love going for a second round after I've blown my first load. But 3 times out of 4 I can't bust a second nut. It just won't happen. I get numb and sore and once that happens it's almost impossible to cum again. Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else? I mean it's great that i can go for 20-40 min more but I'd like to finish a second time for christs sake!! __________________ His pants are tight...but his morals are loose!!

03-28-2004, 08:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	Yes, It's very common, and it gets worse as one gets older. Welcome to life. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!

03-29-2004, 02:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Edited. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence Last edited by Slims; 12-20-2010 at 07:36 PM..

03-29-2004, 04:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
Bobaphat whoopity doo Location: Seattle	Heck you're lucky. I usually can't bust that first nut, let alone getting a second chance. __________________ --size matters not-- yoda

03-29-2004, 09:03 PM	#14 (permalink)
Krycheck Sultana ruined my evil persona Location: Los Angeles	Well resting is ok if we're out renting a room or doing it during the day. But after a long day at work, doin it at 11pm resting isn't a option. Sleep may kick in Resting has worked in the past but sometimes I just wanna keep going. __________________ His pants are tight...but his morals are loose!!

03-28-2004, 08:45 PM	#2 (permalink)
stuyguy24 Upright Location: New York	it happens. less of a chance of it happening if i take a short break. take some time and cuddle...start over from the beginning.

03-29-2004, 08:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
dami³ Tilted Location: EU	Yep, it happens ... stuyguy24 hit the mark, round two immediatly after round one isn't my cup of tea anyway ... personaly I kind of like some "other" quality time first to relax all of my muscles and to clear my head before getting fysical again, regardless of being able to cum again in round two (more chance of finishing then, but no guarantees at all)

03-29-2004, 02:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
2kids1headache Loser	Think of it this way: You've just blown your load. What's left for next time? If you want to fire the gun again, you've got to take at least a little time to reload, huh?

03-29-2004, 06:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Yes, perfectly normal.

03-29-2004, 07:14 PM	#11 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	With my experience it REALLY depends on the guy. My BF can go three or more times in a row and get off every time with no rest inbetween. But my ex could only shoot once then he was down for the count.

03-29-2004, 07:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
jbrooks544 Addict	I'm same way. BUT... As long as keeping it up isn't a problem, I can end up "getting off" in about 20 seconds flat if I flip over on my back and she climbs on top. Every time! or, it can work if she blows me or handjob to get off. The thing for me, at least, at maybe for you too, is that the second time I can't be the one making the motion, it has to be her. try it!

04-02-2004, 11:14 AM	#15 (permalink)
StephenSa Psycho Location: Dallas, Texas	Heck, my problem is I want to go for a second round but by the time we finish round one my SO has orgasmed and is asleep within minutes. I'm really glad she's satisfied but I'd like another shot (forgive the expression) somertimes. Oh well, fun is fun. __________________ Thousands of Monkeys, all screaming at once. Pulling God's finger.

04-05-2004, 02:31 PM	#17 (permalink)
toiletraccoon Upright Location: beautiful NJ	just be happy with one, some people aren't getting any (not me of course)