A good thing or a problem?
 

I love going for a second round after I've blown my first load. But 3 times out of 4 I can't bust a second nut. It just won't happen. I get numb and sore and once that happens it's almost impossible to cum again.

Is this normal? Does this happen to anyone else?

I mean it's great that i can go for 20-40 min more but I'd like to finish a second time for christs sake!!:mad:

it happens. less of a chance of it happening if i take a short break. take some time and cuddle...start over from the beginning. :)

Yes,

It's very common, and it gets worse as one gets older.

Welcome to life.

Yep, it happens ... stuyguy24 hit the mark, round two immediatly after round one isn't my cup of tea anyway ... personaly I kind of like some "other" quality time first to relax all of my muscles and to clear my head before getting fysical again, regardless of being able to cum again in round two (more chance of finishing then, but no guarantees at all)

there's SO much to look forward to!

:D

Think of it this way:

You've just blown your load. What's left for next time?

If you want to fire the gun again, you've got to take at least a little time to reload, huh?

Edited.

I definately agree.

Heck you're lucky. I usually can't bust that first nut, let alone getting a second chance.

Yes, perfectly normal.

With my experience it REALLY depends on the guy. My BF can go three or more times in a row and get off every time with no rest inbetween.

But my ex could only shoot once then he was down for the count.

I'm same way. BUT... As long as keeping it up isn't a problem, I can end up "getting off" in about 20 seconds flat if I flip over on my back and she climbs on top. Every time! or, it can work if she blows me or handjob to get off.

The thing for me, at least, at maybe for you too, is that the second time I can't be the one making the motion, it has to be her. try it!

well your bf puts to shame you ex as well as most guys out there :hmm:

Well resting is ok if we're out renting a room or doing it during the day. But after a long day at work, doin it at 11pm resting isn't a option. Sleep may kick in :rolleyes:

Resting has worked in the past but sometimes I just wanna keep going.

Heck, my problem is I want to go for a second round but by the time we finish round one my SO has orgasmed and is asleep within minutes. I'm really glad she's satisfied but I'd like another shot (forgive the expression) somertimes. Oh well, fun is fun.

speaking as a practically narcoleptic (sp?) girlfriend, i suggest maybe sleeping and then waking middle of night for some more. although, again, as i am constantly sleepy, if my SO tries to wake me for a romp, i am usually unwakable. so i don't know how good my suggestion really is. i guess it depends on your sleeping habits.

just be happy with one, some people aren't getting any (not me of course)