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macmanmike6100 · 03-16-2004, 11:38 PM

i think the most fundamental thing I can think of is respect for the other party. that kind of applies to my actions in general, so it serves as a strong personal base for "sex morals".

i got this mentality from my parents, most definitely.

the thing I like about my personal "fundamentals" is that they are vague. they're vague because I'm a strong believer that most situations are unique and should be treated that way.

very good question!

Focus · 03-17-2004, 02:41 AM

I get flak for this and probably will on here, but I will not have sex until I get married. I do all the other fun stuff, but thats where I draw the line.

The only reason for this is because now a days, sex seems like its just and everyday, fuck whoever you want kinda thing. It doesnt seem like its held at any higher regard, and call me old fashioned, but I really want to share it with the person Im going to spend the rest of my life with.

cynicalgrrlll · 03-17-2004, 06:44 AM

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Originally posted by Prince
Well, like you said yourself, your parents were divorced by the time you were born. That, to me, does not mean that you have some special insight as to what The Original King went through when his parents divorced when he was 12 years old.

I know plenty of people, period. They're all different. Period. Besides, there is a difference between partially accrediting a situation to circumstances, and blaming people for something.

You know, even self-proclaimed and self-righteous cynicists are allowed to process the information they're provided with before they spit out whatever random thoughts enter their feeble minds.

Well let's put it this way my best friend, whose father was a cocaine addict and beat her mother and when high threatened to kill both of them more than once, is in a normal relationship with someone she loves and doesn't blame her parents for any problems she has in that area.

SO QUIT BEING SO DAMN SENSITIVE AND WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE. PEOPLE HAVE A LOT MORE SERIOUS PROBLEMS THAN DIVORCED PARENTS AND TURN OUT FINE

Prince · 03-17-2004, 07:55 AM

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Originally posted by cynicalgrrlllSO QUIT BEING SO DAMN SENSITIVE AND WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE. PEOPLE HAVE A LOT MORE SERIOUS PROBLEMS THAN DIVORCED PARENTS AND TURN OUT FINE

Well, I can't say I agree with anything you've said so far, but I do apologize for losing my cool earlier and making a statement that may have been of insulting nature. You've a right to your opinion same as I've one to mine.

Anyway, that's all, back on topic.

greyeyes · 03-17-2004, 08:48 AM

if this would be considered a moral, I always use contraceptive, and I haven't had sex without a condom yet dont plan on doing otherwise anytime soon.

cynicalgrrlll · 03-17-2004, 01:23 PM

Fair enough Prince

03-17-2004, 08:48 AM	#45 (permalink)
greyeyes ham on rye would be nice Location: I don't even know anymore	if this would be considered a moral, I always use contraceptive, and I haven't had sex without a condom yet dont plan on doing otherwise anytime soon. __________________ I'm kind of jealous of the life I'm supposedly leading. - Zach Braff

03-16-2004, 11:38 PM	#41 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	i think the most fundamental thing I can think of is respect for the other party. that kind of applies to my actions in general, so it serves as a strong personal base for "sex morals". i got this mentality from my parents, most definitely. the thing I like about my personal "fundamentals" is that they are vague. they're vague because I'm a strong believer that most situations are unique and should be treated that way. very good question!

03-17-2004, 02:41 AM	#42 (permalink)
Focus Upright	I get flak for this and probably will on here, but I will not have sex until I get married. I do all the other fun stuff, but thats where I draw the line. The only reason for this is because now a days, sex seems like its just and everyday, fuck whoever you want kinda thing. It doesnt seem like its held at any higher regard, and call me old fashioned, but I really want to share it with the person Im going to spend the rest of my life with.

03-17-2004, 01:23 PM	#46 (permalink)
cynicalgrrlll Banned Location: We Have Just Lost Cabin Pressure	Fair enough Prince