greenjelly

ok someone needs to give me some help.iv bin in other forums before but everyones bin pretty crap.So ok, im practacly in love with this guy caleld chris.He's 22 and im 16.He also happens to be my best freinds brother.Iv liked him for a year now, which is the longest iv ever liked any for and not got anywhere, but hes convinced that im not "ready" for him.We use to mess about on MSN and we've had a few games of strip poker on the webcams and he does like me but he wanst to wait untill im older.It really is driving me up the wall so any suggestions what i can do to win him over or just move on or anything really would be gr8ly appreciated, as i cant really d8 any1 becoz i feel so strongly about chris.So im miss lonesome until i can sort this out.Cheers.K@.x.x

Averett

First of all, it took me ages to read that.

If he says you're not ready because youre not mature, I'd have to agree with him. People who type out gr8ly instead of greatly might need to grow up a tad

22-16... That's just too much. He's 8 years older than you. Find a boy your age. I'm not sure what the legal ages are in England, but over here that is pretty much illegal in most situations.....

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Sho Nuff

My high school sweetheart was 15 when we met and I was 17 and the difference was night and day. We started dating when she was 16 and I was 18. It worked for a while but eventually it ended up ugly. You may be mature for your age, but I doubt youre mature enough to make it work.

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rocinante2003

Age differences are not an issue if you have lots in common, AND, you are of legal age. Unfortunately for you, he does not seem interested in dating. I would also like to point you to the following link

http://flounder.tfproject.org/tfp/sh...&threadid=1980

A quote from this link states you must be 18 or older to be a member of TFP.

What ever you choose, please be careful, and stay safe. Good luck and please dont think everyone is against you.

skysooner

Like people have said 22-16 is just to far apart at your age. When he is 30 and you are 22, it is much more realistic since you will have grown up a bit more. Forget him and move on. If he was interested in you at 16, I would have some questions regarding his intentions/sanity.

water_boy1999

Back away from this situation young lady. I don't mean any disrespect, but you can seriously get this guy in trouble by playing this game with him. You are too young legally and emotionally to deal in a relationship when he is 22. Like others have said, once you are of a legal age, go ahead, fall in love with this guy. Whatever....but just don't expect to get much response from him right now. There are plenty of 15-17 year old hunks out there!!!!Chase one of them down.

Cheers!

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Cervantes

Aren't you supposed to be 18 years or older to be allowed to partake in this forum?
I seem to remeber something about that when I registerd...

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Averett

Yeah, and what he said

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