holy crap... what larger sizes do they come in (and how tight are they?)

To be honest, I'm not sure.

I know there is a "standard" lady that is larger than the one I have, but I don't know by how much.

OTOH, this one is pretty stretchy...I think it could accomodate (sp?) even the big guys...

good to know then.. thanks

maybe I should invest in one of those, but its the ladys turn to get "something special"

Ok... thanks for the info, but I never said anything about soap. lol

Well I hope your circumsized, because I'm not. Using conditioner would give me one hell of a yeast infection, and probably burns like hell when some of it gets into the urethra..

Anyways, just a tip, I don't really need this because I get my fill of sex drive taken care of every day by something that's always hot and tight for me ;)

Have fun.

Actually, conditioner really doesn't burn, unlike soap. And I'm not circumcized and have had no problems. Its not like you leave it on for any long lengths of time anyways. Just for the fun, then wash it off.

damn you meff - your right...

I still ahve the skin, and it would burn...
but I'm not satisfied by someone else every day damn you...

bah, no fleshlight for me...

does sound fun....

i'd imagine it'd sound somewhat like a plunger at the end of it :D

I finally got my FL the other day. The brown box was on my living room table waiting for me when I got home from work. Unfortunately my mother-in-law lives with me and me wife temporarily. So I rushed to the bathroom to try it out. Lubed up and slipped right into the Lavendar Lady. Wow. Best toy I have bought yet. Feels very good. I really like the suction feeling when you tighten the endcap. I blew a huge load into it after about 10 minutes. Later that night my wife was jealous cause she didn't get to see me using it. She had me lube it up for her and she then took over. She had a blast using the FL on me. She was trying her best to get me cum as soon as possible. It felt to good having her using it on me. I lasted about 30 minutes this time. She really likes it becuase she doesn't have to worry about getting all messy with lube and other juices like some of the other toys we have. Anyways, it's well worth $50 guys. Now I can't wait until I buy some other inserts.

Yep, they're awsome. I wouldn't get through the dry spells without mine. haha

best use I could see is using it in bed with a partner. seems like alot of girls squeeze a bit hard when doing a handjob. at least in my experience...

This may help that *shrug*

I'd just like to comment that my Fleshlight has served me well so far. Orgasms using it seem far stronger than just handjobs...

I strongly recommend it.

i'll add my opinion too.

a fleshlight has a number of great advantages:

1. Carpel Tunnel is avoided. I dunno about you, but I tend to take a very long time to masturbate (between 20 min to an hour), and i do it frequently. when using the fleshlight, a completely different set of muscles gets worked out--mostly the ones in the forearm. the first time i used my fleshlight, my forearm got sooo tired and i thought i would never be able to use it on a regular basis! but the human body is an amazing thing and has adjusted well. sidenote: a few days ago i tried masturbating the 'old fashioned' way and after about 20 minutes i lost feeling in my fingers. i have a feeling the normal spanking method is more traumatic to the wrist than we realize.

2. keeps you sensitive. one of my big problems is that, because i take so long to orgasm, i rarely orgasm when i'm with a girl and have to take care of myself. i attribute this to the fact that i can make a goddamn tight fist with my hand and kind of ruined myself. the fleshlight gets you in tune with more gentle, subtler sensations that your partner can provide for you. again, the 1st time i used the thing, i was sooo frustrated because i wanted more and more pressure, but couldn't get it. but nowdays i use it at its lowest pressure setting (ie, i've taken the endcap off) because anything else feels too tight! for me, this is a fabulous change.

3. it feels REALLY good. it is like rubbing velvet on your brain. it's like having the softest girl sit on your lap, but it turns out that everything except her vagina is supernatural. you can put that fairy into all sorts of positions you can't put your real girlfriend! and if you fall asleep afterwards, no one will complain.

4. can accomodate anybody. this thing is humungous! i bet even hal could fit into one of these. and the ability to vary pressure means it can be as tight as you need. to me, the tightest is waay to tight, and i'm probably smaller than average.

disadvantages:

1. looks like a milkshake. mine is pink and has been scented vanilla. i have NO IDEA why all of them are scented (you have to choose between chocolate and vanilla) but there you have it. and once you've finished for the day, it smells like vanilla and cum milkshake. ewww...

2. it's a pain to take care of. though i personally don't think it's as much a pain as others have stated here. there's no point in warming up the thing, since after 5 minutes it will be body temperature (due to your johnson's high heat conductivity and surface area). and since i never share my toy with anybody (and doubt i will ever find someone i will want to share with) i don't clean super thoroughly--just a water rinse. and though others have said you have to clean the thing immediately (can someone tell me why?), i've managed to conk out right after using it and take care of the aftermath the next beautiful morning.

3. sounds like an asthmatic kid. the thing will make a little wooshing slurping sound, particularly if you loosen the endcap. however, for me, i like it without the endcap entirely, and it makes no noise when so used.

4. requires a water-based lube. now, keeping a water-based lube handy is not such a big deal. but as i've said before, i take a LONG time to masturbate, and usually dry out frequently while using the fleshlight. that never happens when i lubricate my palm with....hmmm..actually i won't tell you what i lube my palm with...it's too personal, but suffices to say that it doesn't dry out. at first i was keeping a cup of water handy while i was masturbating so that i could wet it as needed. now i'm so lazy i just spit into it. ewww....vanilla cum spit milkshake...

despite the fact that I will never enjoy a milkshake ever again, this is a wonderful tool and a very good icebreaker for your imagination. when you're inside something soft, you can easily picture sublime, etheral nymphs, cosy fireplaces and blankets, hot chocolate and whipped cream. men may not like soft things, but penises do very much. highly recommended at any price.

I bought mine after reading this back in October. My only downside is that when I use it I orgasm in about 2 minutes. Depending on the situation it isn't always a bad thing, but when I do want to last, I can't seem to do it using it. I guess I just really enjoy it.

i think i am getting closer and closer to buying one. i'll probably have one within the next couple or so weeks... woot woot.

Whooo hoo ! I am definately getting one.

It takes me a long time to get the job done too, so if this thing can get me off, WHILE enabling me to protect my oh-so-sacred sensitivity, I'm all for it.

The "Wonder Wave" is awesome! My favorite

does this come in a nondescrip package?

I'd be interested to use such a toy with someone else, but I'm not particularly interested in solo play...

I'm guessing it depends from whom you buy it from. Mine was in a plain cardboard box with the 'real' company name of the website I bought it from. ( Convergence, Inc?)

If you order direct, it does come in a very nondescript package.

I recently went the other route and got a cyberskin artificial vagina. It's design and weight allow for hands free operation, you don't have to grip it or hold on to it or place it between two pillows. The more I use it, the more I like it. I am very impressed with this product. About the same price as the fleshlight, that I will probably buy also, eventually.

Jay, Might you have a link to your purchase? That sounds interesting too.

Sure thing. I ran another thread under "cyberskin" but got mine through The Lawrence Research Group "Xandria Collection". They tend to be a little more costly than other suppliers but carry a complete satisfaction guarantee on all of their products. Years ago, I tried a silicone sleeve called the "Cheri" and it was crap. It tore after just a little bit of use. They refunded my money completely when I returned it. God, how gross must that be, having to deal with returned men's adult toys. Ecch.

Also, you might be able to just do a websearch for Cyberskin and see what pops up on the web, you might even find a lower cost. Mine cost around $50.

At this site, it is called the "cyberskin sex buddy"


http://www.pleasuremenow.com/search....n&dc=boxxxplus

Jeez, I had no idea that there were so many options out there. Check out this page for example.

http://www.greattarget.com/db.cgi?si...s=Vaginas&nh=7

That was my issue. Your 'hands free operaton' comment got me curious, so I went searching and found about 50 different types :)
I'll look into those.. Thanks!

^hmmm that sex buddy thing looks pretty interesting too. I'm trying to decide if I want to buy either that or the fleshlight and if so, which one...

Status: Delivered
Delivered on: Feb 25, 2004 12:22 P.M.

YESSSSSSSSSS.

I am so excited, can't wait to leave work.

I'm in an interesting situation though, see, I broke up with my ex, then moved back in with my mom, but am continuing to pay rent at our old apartment so MY EX has somewhere to stay.

It turns out, that this is a rather good arrangment, as MY EX has recently gone toy crazy too, so I told MY EX about this, had it shipped to the apartment, and MY EX wants a demonstration.

One word ... hot.

Whoo hoooo ! Happy f'ing day !

edit --- :o

Mephex: please tell me that your ex is the one that wants a demonstration, not your mom. It took me a couple of reads before I think I figured that out, and I'm still feeling off-balance.

Yes, my ex want's the demonstration. ha ha ha ha.

That's terrible, but you're absolutely right, it was easily misinterpreted ;)

What a different experience. I've never felt that real-skin stuff before. But it sure works well.

I'm thinking I'll have to try out a few new inserts down the road.

I grabbed a hitachi magic wand too, left that with her though. Damn that thing is one powerful tool.

Good times though ! Good times, I'd recommend this fleshlight to anyone I know. I just think it's going to be a bit of a pain on the maintenance side.

im a fucking pervert, i'd try it.

I got one, but after soaking it in water and use/cleaning, the rubber has become all....sticky...its weird. Anyone know what to do? or why its like this?

use corn starch to bring it back to the velvet soft feeling. I am not sure why it does it though.

Having had a couple of months to try one out, I'm starting to think that, in a more enlightened society, these should be given out to every prisoner, and to guys just reaching puberty. Might relieve some of the stress and tension. Since the sensation is closer to the real thing than anything else I've come across in my 40 some odd years of experimentation.

In my own case, it's taken some of the pressure off the marriage, since the wife is putting in long hours and getting home after I'm asleep.

I'd recommend these to anyone who masturbates regularly.

Tholo:

Use Gold Bond Medicated Powder. It has corn starch to restore the silky smooth feeling, plus an anti-fungal that will help combat any possible fungal infestation.

I use it on mine and it works wonderfully.

It just struck me that it would be really funny if they did an add for this and had George Clinton rework Flashlight for it.

I just don't think I would ever buy one. If I get bored cranking one off I use a little lube.