FLESHLIGHT
 

Since there seem to so many topics about masturbation, has anybody ever used a product called the Fleshlight? Go here and check it out. http://www.fleshlight.com Looks like fun.

I might try it, but I would feel really strange doing it. Then again, I guess I'd try almost anything once.

It helps when you have a understanding wife. She loves to use toys on me. hehe

Exactly! I love to use toys on my husband also:D We'll try about anything, gotta keep things intresting else someone might eventually get bored. We haven't tried the fleshlight yet, maybe I should buy him one and suprise him with it!!!!! I'm sure he wouldn't object to trying it:D

Um... maybe if I'm really hard-up for sex and get tired of playing with myself.

I wouldn't mind trying one out with my boyfriend, if I had one.

And I wouldn't mind trying one out with my girlfriend, if i had one.

dang lots of interesting items being sold on that site lol

they arent that expensive in comparison to high end masturbation sleeves.

I had one for awhile. First off, they would *never* pass off as a flashlight. ;p They feel pretty good, but they can make funny sucking noises, kinda kills the mood.

IMO they're worth the price, since they can be found cheap, and are kinda discreet (as in, someone won't know it's a sex toy at first glance)

Okay, I will also admit to owning one of these. The pain with it is that it requires instant cleaning once you're done with it. If you like to have your fun before you go to sleep, you might find it annoying to get out of bed and rinse it out before you lay back down.

Other than that it was a fun toy... and probably the closest feel to actual vaginal sex. (Pre-rinsing with warm water gives it a lifelike feel.)

sounds really cool; i'd like to try it, but no funds for that kind of crap right now

Thanks for the replies guys. Can't wait until I actually get one.

I volunteer!

anyone else bought one of these yet?

I'm thoroughly considering one, and i'd like to know some mroe reviews of them.

Whats the best combination so far?

I have one and do a few shows a week for anyone that wants to watch. Feel free to contact me if you'd like to watch one.

YAHOO!: psychosocket2002@yahoo.ca

well someone has a vouyer spirit eh? ;)

i've seen it (fleshlight) around, looks like its probably pretty good. so far i see two good reviews here with minor complaints (sucking sound, immediate cleanup)
and yeah. i've never seen a flashlight that looks ANYTHING like that (other then the whole "cylindrical shape" thing)

I like the stuff they have on the site for us girls would be nice if it was like a Jack-in-the-box where they would have a cane with a crank and you could turn it tum t tum tum de tum and POP goe the penis...... hehehehehehe

do they sell theses things in sex toy stores?only ask since ordering off the site with a credit card isn't an option.

Yep, I got mine in an adult store.

vveronica: Honestly, the PR Dan, he's a really cool guy. If you give him an idea and they end up making it, he'll send you a free one once they're done.

Also for guys, they have contests where you can win free fleshlights on the site, all you have to do is be a member of the forum and they draw names from hats every month. If your name is drawn, you get a free one of your choice sent to your house.

Fuck, I swear by this toy. Its also great for abstinance, since you can take the insert out and put if between your g/f legs and fuck it. It feels like a tight 20 year old. :)

I bought mine from good vibrations online. I think it was cheaper when I bought it. (You can click the following picture for a link to good vibrations).

http://www.goodvibes.com/products/p1828s.jpg

These seem like such a cool toy. I doubt I would get one for christmas though. :)

I bet she'll enjoy you pumping away and her not feeling anything.

You don't have to make me seem so shallow. Believe me, I take care of her too. She does that for me, I don't make her.

Whoops I forgot the ;)

Don't take stuff so seriously, man. In SA we have these little things called irony and sarcasm. The first one has nothing to do with metal ;)

Sorry, I forgot to add the ;) too.


;)

Well...

After the glowing reviews in this thread, my getting paid on the 15th, and my ongoing quest for masturbatory bliss....I bought one today.

Its interesting how these things just kinda fall into place.

I'll post first impressions when I get to play with it (after it arrives, of course).

So far, I like the company....they shipped the product within hours of my ordering, and they seem very customer-oriented.

Which one did you get I had the "regular" one, a long time before they offered the anus or the vulva. Also did you order off the link I posted or did you get it somewhere else?

Hrmmm, where to come up with $65.00 dollars to enhance my sex life.

*ponders prostitution but wait if i did that I would have no need for the fleshlight*
:)

I got an extra-tight with the vulva opening...

The icon made me laugh like mad. Today has been one fun day so far.http://www.fleshlight.com/main/images/howto-icon.gif

That said, it seems like a cool thing. Kindof like the dildo counterpart. I would love to try it sometime in the future, dunno if I would have the nerve to actually buy it though.

so...you wanna use 'the testor'???
sicko...

;)

All of you that bought it, I'm just going to warn you, the first time isn't that great, but when you get used to using it, its awsome. I always use mine in the shower with conditioner. A little conditioner goes a long way, its cheap, and it doesn't wash away like water-based lubes. Let me know how you like them when you get it.

i hope it is as good as you all say it is.

I ordered my last Friday and it will be here this Friday. Can't wait. Once I try it out, I will let you all know how it was.

Is there any particular reason to order the 'regular' over the super-ultra-mega tight? Who wouldn't get the tightest possible? Or does it not expand very well to accomodate a larger girth?

It all depends on what you like. The Ultra-tight is really tight, so I've found that its hard to cum in. The regular pussy feels like a woman in her mid-20's, so its perfect for me since I'm a little bigger then average.

Well...A status update:

I received mine today.

First impression:

Interesting, lots of powder in the bag in which the insert shipped. Opened bag, strongish vanilla scent (the smell of the insert). The insert felt quite good, I don't know about skin-like...but good.

The case is plastic, and looks its $15.00 cost. It is a strange kind of substantial, yet kinda cheap feeling plastic. It also has some irregularities. Overall, it looks like it will serve as an insert holder quite well, but few would mistake it for a flashlight except at /very/ first glance.

Due to other commitments, I have not been able to try it until now.

I took a shower with my new insert, washed it thouroughly (sp?), and let it soak in a bowl of hottest-possible tap water for a while.

upon removal from the bowl, it was very very sticky. I had read about this in the fleshlight forums, and was prepared with gold bond powder (anti-fungal, and a water-absorber). It took quite a bit of powder to restore its soft-fleshy texture.

I then prepared myself, cracked open the sample lube, and had a relatively good time with it.

Notes:

Let it soak in hot water for a good long time. I didn't let mine soak long enough, and it was only mostly warm....did not feel like a warm vagina, far too cool. The toy also doesn't hold heat all that well. Get it much hotter than you want it, then play with it as it cools.

Use plenty of lube....I noticed that it was kinda non-slippery, so I added a bit more lube and was suprised about how quickly it changes the feel of the insert.

Play with the end cap. It changes how everything feels.

Overall, I'm happy with my purchase. It feels much better than anything else I've tried...

If anyone wants any more information, feel free to PM me.

Slick: The instructions mention not to play with it around soap...apparently soap breaks down the gel slowly. (you can clean with alcohol)

how big was the tunnel in circumference, just for reference? It didnt really look all that big from the photos...

I got a super tight...

It accepts two fingers relatively easily, but three is a stretch.

My (very slightly smaller than average) dick is snugly wrapped, and I cannot penetrate the toy unless I am nearly fully erect...

To answer your question: it's pretty damn tight :)

There's another toy that, IIRC, is half the diameter as this one...I think that might be too tight.

holy crap... what larger sizes do they come in (and how tight are they?)

To be honest, I'm not sure.

I know there is a "standard" lady that is larger than the one I have, but I don't know by how much.

OTOH, this one is pretty stretchy...I think it could accomodate (sp?) even the big guys...

good to know then.. thanks

maybe I should invest in one of those, but its the ladys turn to get "something special"

Ok... thanks for the info, but I never said anything about soap. lol

Well I hope your circumsized, because I'm not. Using conditioner would give me one hell of a yeast infection, and probably burns like hell when some of it gets into the urethra..

Anyways, just a tip, I don't really need this because I get my fill of sex drive taken care of every day by something that's always hot and tight for me ;)

Have fun.

Actually, conditioner really doesn't burn, unlike soap. And I'm not circumcized and have had no problems. Its not like you leave it on for any long lengths of time anyways. Just for the fun, then wash it off.

damn you meff - your right...

I still ahve the skin, and it would burn...
but I'm not satisfied by someone else every day damn you...

bah, no fleshlight for me...

does sound fun....

i'd imagine it'd sound somewhat like a plunger at the end of it :D

I finally got my FL the other day. The brown box was on my living room table waiting for me when I got home from work. Unfortunately my mother-in-law lives with me and me wife temporarily. So I rushed to the bathroom to try it out. Lubed up and slipped right into the Lavendar Lady. Wow. Best toy I have bought yet. Feels very good. I really like the suction feeling when you tighten the endcap. I blew a huge load into it after about 10 minutes. Later that night my wife was jealous cause she didn't get to see me using it. She had me lube it up for her and she then took over. She had a blast using the FL on me. She was trying her best to get me cum as soon as possible. It felt to good having her using it on me. I lasted about 30 minutes this time. She really likes it becuase she doesn't have to worry about getting all messy with lube and other juices like some of the other toys we have. Anyways, it's well worth $50 guys. Now I can't wait until I buy some other inserts.

Yep, they're awsome. I wouldn't get through the dry spells without mine. haha

best use I could see is using it in bed with a partner. seems like alot of girls squeeze a bit hard when doing a handjob. at least in my experience...

This may help that *shrug*

I'd just like to comment that my Fleshlight has served me well so far. Orgasms using it seem far stronger than just handjobs...

I strongly recommend it.

i'll add my opinion too.

a fleshlight has a number of great advantages:

1. Carpel Tunnel is avoided. I dunno about you, but I tend to take a very long time to masturbate (between 20 min to an hour), and i do it frequently. when using the fleshlight, a completely different set of muscles gets worked out--mostly the ones in the forearm. the first time i used my fleshlight, my forearm got sooo tired and i thought i would never be able to use it on a regular basis! but the human body is an amazing thing and has adjusted well. sidenote: a few days ago i tried masturbating the 'old fashioned' way and after about 20 minutes i lost feeling in my fingers. i have a feeling the normal spanking method is more traumatic to the wrist than we realize.

2. keeps you sensitive. one of my big problems is that, because i take so long to orgasm, i rarely orgasm when i'm with a girl and have to take care of myself. i attribute this to the fact that i can make a goddamn tight fist with my hand and kind of ruined myself. the fleshlight gets you in tune with more gentle, subtler sensations that your partner can provide for you. again, the 1st time i used the thing, i was sooo frustrated because i wanted more and more pressure, but couldn't get it. but nowdays i use it at its lowest pressure setting (ie, i've taken the endcap off) because anything else feels too tight! for me, this is a fabulous change.

3. it feels REALLY good. it is like rubbing velvet on your brain. it's like having the softest girl sit on your lap, but it turns out that everything except her vagina is supernatural. you can put that fairy into all sorts of positions you can't put your real girlfriend! and if you fall asleep afterwards, no one will complain.

4. can accomodate anybody. this thing is humungous! i bet even hal could fit into one of these. and the ability to vary pressure means it can be as tight as you need. to me, the tightest is waay to tight, and i'm probably smaller than average.

disadvantages:

1. looks like a milkshake. mine is pink and has been scented vanilla. i have NO IDEA why all of them are scented (you have to choose between chocolate and vanilla) but there you have it. and once you've finished for the day, it smells like vanilla and cum milkshake. ewww...

2. it's a pain to take care of. though i personally don't think it's as much a pain as others have stated here. there's no point in warming up the thing, since after 5 minutes it will be body temperature (due to your johnson's high heat conductivity and surface area). and since i never share my toy with anybody (and doubt i will ever find someone i will want to share with) i don't clean super thoroughly--just a water rinse. and though others have said you have to clean the thing immediately (can someone tell me why?), i've managed to conk out right after using it and take care of the aftermath the next beautiful morning.

3. sounds like an asthmatic kid. the thing will make a little wooshing slurping sound, particularly if you loosen the endcap. however, for me, i like it without the endcap entirely, and it makes no noise when so used.

4. requires a water-based lube. now, keeping a water-based lube handy is not such a big deal. but as i've said before, i take a LONG time to masturbate, and usually dry out frequently while using the fleshlight. that never happens when i lubricate my palm with....hmmm..actually i won't tell you what i lube my palm with...it's too personal, but suffices to say that it doesn't dry out. at first i was keeping a cup of water handy while i was masturbating so that i could wet it as needed. now i'm so lazy i just spit into it. ewww....vanilla cum spit milkshake...

despite the fact that I will never enjoy a milkshake ever again, this is a wonderful tool and a very good icebreaker for your imagination. when you're inside something soft, you can easily picture sublime, etheral nymphs, cosy fireplaces and blankets, hot chocolate and whipped cream. men may not like soft things, but penises do very much. highly recommended at any price.

I bought mine after reading this back in October. My only downside is that when I use it I orgasm in about 2 minutes. Depending on the situation it isn't always a bad thing, but when I do want to last, I can't seem to do it using it. I guess I just really enjoy it.

i think i am getting closer and closer to buying one. i'll probably have one within the next couple or so weeks... woot woot.

Whooo hoo ! I am definately getting one.

It takes me a long time to get the job done too, so if this thing can get me off, WHILE enabling me to protect my oh-so-sacred sensitivity, I'm all for it.

The "Wonder Wave" is awesome! My favorite

does this come in a nondescrip package?

I'd be interested to use such a toy with someone else, but I'm not particularly interested in solo play...

I'm guessing it depends from whom you buy it from. Mine was in a plain cardboard box with the 'real' company name of the website I bought it from. ( Convergence, Inc?)

If you order direct, it does come in a very nondescript package.

I recently went the other route and got a cyberskin artificial vagina. It's design and weight allow for hands free operation, you don't have to grip it or hold on to it or place it between two pillows. The more I use it, the more I like it. I am very impressed with this product. About the same price as the fleshlight, that I will probably buy also, eventually.

Jay, Might you have a link to your purchase? That sounds interesting too.

Sure thing. I ran another thread under "cyberskin" but got mine through The Lawrence Research Group "Xandria Collection". They tend to be a little more costly than other suppliers but carry a complete satisfaction guarantee on all of their products. Years ago, I tried a silicone sleeve called the "Cheri" and it was crap. It tore after just a little bit of use. They refunded my money completely when I returned it. God, how gross must that be, having to deal with returned men's adult toys. Ecch.

Also, you might be able to just do a websearch for Cyberskin and see what pops up on the web, you might even find a lower cost. Mine cost around $50.

At this site, it is called the "cyberskin sex buddy"


http://www.pleasuremenow.com/search....n&dc=boxxxplus

Jeez, I had no idea that there were so many options out there. Check out this page for example.

http://www.greattarget.com/db.cgi?si...s=Vaginas&nh=7

That was my issue. Your 'hands free operaton' comment got me curious, so I went searching and found about 50 different types :)
I'll look into those.. Thanks!

^hmmm that sex buddy thing looks pretty interesting too. I'm trying to decide if I want to buy either that or the fleshlight and if so, which one...

Status: Delivered
Delivered on: Feb 25, 2004 12:22 P.M.

YESSSSSSSSSS.

I am so excited, can't wait to leave work.

I'm in an interesting situation though, see, I broke up with my ex, then moved back in with my mom, but am continuing to pay rent at our old apartment so MY EX has somewhere to stay.

It turns out, that this is a rather good arrangment, as MY EX has recently gone toy crazy too, so I told MY EX about this, had it shipped to the apartment, and MY EX wants a demonstration.

One word ... hot.

Whoo hoooo ! Happy f'ing day !

edit --- :o

Mephex: please tell me that your ex is the one that wants a demonstration, not your mom. It took me a couple of reads before I think I figured that out, and I'm still feeling off-balance.

Yes, my ex want's the demonstration. ha ha ha ha.

That's terrible, but you're absolutely right, it was easily misinterpreted ;)

What a different experience. I've never felt that real-skin stuff before. But it sure works well.

I'm thinking I'll have to try out a few new inserts down the road.

I grabbed a hitachi magic wand too, left that with her though. Damn that thing is one powerful tool.

Good times though ! Good times, I'd recommend this fleshlight to anyone I know. I just think it's going to be a bit of a pain on the maintenance side.

im a fucking pervert, i'd try it.

I got one, but after soaking it in water and use/cleaning, the rubber has become all....sticky...its weird. Anyone know what to do? or why its like this?

use corn starch to bring it back to the velvet soft feeling. I am not sure why it does it though.

Having had a couple of months to try one out, I'm starting to think that, in a more enlightened society, these should be given out to every prisoner, and to guys just reaching puberty. Might relieve some of the stress and tension. Since the sensation is closer to the real thing than anything else I've come across in my 40 some odd years of experimentation.

In my own case, it's taken some of the pressure off the marriage, since the wife is putting in long hours and getting home after I'm asleep.

I'd recommend these to anyone who masturbates regularly.

Tholo:

Use Gold Bond Medicated Powder. It has corn starch to restore the silky smooth feeling, plus an anti-fungal that will help combat any possible fungal infestation.

I use it on mine and it works wonderfully.

It just struck me that it would be really funny if they did an add for this and had George Clinton rework Flashlight for it.

I just don't think I would ever buy one. If I get bored cranking one off I use a little lube.