TinniT

Okay, first time posting about this sort of thing, so let me give some background to the whole situation.

I've been completely single for the past two months. For the previous three months, my ex-g/f and I dated and messed around together out of convenience. Three months prior, we'd been seperated, and she had moved out of our apartment. Prior, we'd been together for two years.

Over the course of the three months that we were seperated, I became friends with her old roommate. I always thought her roommate was attractive, and have always enjoyed conversation with her. We get along well, but I have ever persued this gal.

However, In expenses of my own, expenses of her own, and expenses of her existing roommates (my xg/f's friend I've become friends with), we're talking about getting a place together, with two of her flatmates.

I'm just curious if anyone has ever moved in with someone they were attracted to and have not been in a relationship with them? How did it turn out in the end? Did you ever get drunk together and spend the night in the same room (not doing anything physically necessarily).

Any advice, I appreciate it.

numist

go for it, not only do you only live once, but its a great way to establish bonds - even outside a relationship. I dont have experience myself with the g/f's friend scenario, but as long as shes not psycho-bitter (and Im assuming shes not, from the sounds of it) then there shouldnt be any problems. If you dont hook up, youll at least have a great time.

frostfell

i definitely agree with numist here. go for it. you have nothing to lose. you can become friends, and maybe (hopefully) even more!