07-19-2003, 11:46 AM | #1 (permalink) |
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Location: here& there but here today
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LOVE and the nice things men/women do
okay I'm gonna try this new thread thingy
I wanted to post something original and interesting, but I am in Love(I hope), and know alls I want to talk about is him! So, I thought for a long time what would I post that wouldn't sound too gushy, mushy and palin Yuck!! So it hit me just the other day, I came up with not one post but two but, I am going to combine them! First of all I realize that different people, from different, backgrounds, genders, ages, have different meanings for everything. That alone makes me want to know this ! Then we take into account pat emotional baggage and it can get really confusing!! So here I go, What is your definition of Love ? Complex question I know! But hey I'll go first!! LOVE- to love someone is to want their happiness above all else, to be soo competely blind to their faults, idiosychroses, and overall bad moods, to want to give freely of yourself by opening up to show who we really are, what we really want, and bending to fit your significant other ino that and exery other aspect of your life, to want to share everthing regardless of what it is. To know you would give your life for them without thinking of the consequences. to respect their opinions even if it isnt yours. to respect them as a person, a whole person, to want to give more of yourself that you ever thought you could. ANd that is only a breif explaination of my thought on the meaning of love! Now my second part is please share the most special thing a guy/girl has ever done for you? Fir me this happened rather frequently, Two days ago, I broke out in hives really bad at like 4 in the morning. my bf helped me by running bath water to help stop the hellacious itch, thenm when i got short of breath and weak he helped me out of the tub, helped me to bed, and looked for my meds for two hours trying find them. Then I lost it and got prety hysterical by crying, couhging and all out being a weak minded individual (I now JUST LIKE A WOMAN)! He didn't get aggravated or exasperated, instead he held me and whispered in my ear until I calmed down and relaxxed! Then he continue the quest to find my meds. He stayed by my side that whole morning even after i was asleeep. He didn't sleep at all that night and had to work at 7 the next morning. It was the most wonderful thing any guy has ever done for me! My honey restored my faith that there are a few good ones left!! SORRY LADIES I GOT ONE OF THEM!!
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07-19-2003, 03:13 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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u got a good discription of love, but i havent found it yet so ill tell you then
for the second one, i dunno bout the MOST special thing but, couple of my friends that are girls just cheered me up one day when i was feelin crappy and it made me feel better, i dont think they really knew how bad i was feelin but it made me feel special. |
07-20-2003, 10:41 PM | #4 (permalink) |
Hiya Puddin'! Miss me?
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
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Love is when you want someone to be a part of your life through good times and bad because his company enriches your life and vice versa.
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07-20-2003, 11:05 PM | #5 (permalink) |
Idolator
Location: Vol Country
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I don't think love can be encompassed by words.
I haven't had many relationships at all, or long serious ones, so I don't have a long list of sweet things a girl has done for me. One of them was she wrote me a poem. Now, I know that doesn't sound like much, but you just gotta know this girl. For one, she NEVER writes poetry. And two, she's not a very expressive person, she doesn't say what she's thinking or how she feels about you alot. And this poem was full of how much she needed me and all that, so that was really sweet. Another sweet thing she did was clean my face for me. And I know how weird that sounds, but when you're a person who's not used to it, it feels so good to have someone taking care of you.
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07-21-2003, 04:13 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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Crow, that is awesome man. Having someone wash you is one of the most sensual things a person can do for you. If its done right, it can be such a major turn on. So, by saying she washed you, you are saying what you have had what is to you, a great thing a person has done for you.
As for me, I honestly dont know where to begin. Crayzee is the most extraordinary woman I have ever met. Her tender grace, loving touch, and sexual vigor are all so much more than I had ever thought I could ever find in a woman, much less in a life mate. Now I have this woman who makes me feel like I am the strongest, sexiest, smartest, most attractive man on the face of the earth, and not just occasionally but every minute of every day. She makes me want to be more than I have ever been, and all that I ever could be. You ask what is love, well let me *try* to define that word. Love: The total surrender of all things personal, and recieving of the same in return, to a person who you can, without effort, vizualize yourself in fifty years still feeling like you do now. Love is unconditional, and unending. Now as for the best thing that has ever been done for me, I dont know that I can point to any one thing, but if I have to point something out, I would have to say that the most extraordinary thing that has been done for me is the way Crayzee re-enforces my ego on a very real, very regular basis. Something about a woman who enjoys telling you about all the things that you do that she finds so attractive is the most ego boosting thing I have ever experienced. I found a woman who actually knows how to make me feel good about me, not just talk about herself all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!! PS. Luv ya Crayzee
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07-24-2003, 07:52 PM | #7 (permalink) |
The Best thing that never happened to you
Location: Silverdale, WA
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I once had a girl leave me a note on my windshield while my car was parked in the driveway! We had messed around the night before and ended up staying up all night.. We were gonna do it again the next night, but she ended up having to work, so when I came out the next morning there was just a small note that said "sorry we didn't get to do anything last night, just wanted you to know I was thinking about you."
I was so flattered by that, and still smile to think that someone is thinking like that about me. She's great.
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