i want bi

I am bi-curious qnd it hurts. I have been so afraid allmy life to admit it, that I have a hard even now.

ratbastid

Are you male or female?

It's sad, I think, that female bisexuality is encouraged and male bisexuality is scorned. Sort of an extension of what we noted in the thread about the fleshlight--female sexuality in general is empowering and hot, and male sexuality is sketchy and creepy.

(I note that this last paragraph is written as if I knew you were male. Sorry for that assumption, if it's inaccurate.)

EDIT: I see from your other post that I was dead wrong about all that. I stand by my "it's sad", and my advice is: go get some pussy!

Psycho Dad

On the outside maybe. I suspect that a good many people who appear to oppose homosexuality, bisexuality or perhaps even sexuality do so not on their own opinions, but on what they think others expect them to think. Society IMHO still forces honest and frank discussion about sexuality to be kept secret and something to be ashamed of. I can't help but blame religion on this to a certain degree and general attitudes towards machismo to another.

What is sadder is when this forces us to not only be open and comfortable with each other about our sexuality, but when it forces these same tendencies of repression on ourselves.

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Sharon

I see no reason why being bi-sexual or bi-curious should be anything that causes you to hurt. Men's bodies are beatiful and women's bodies are also beautiful. I am quite pleased to be bi-sexual, I feel like I get the best deal in terms of appreciating the sexual allure of men and women alike. The only hurt this causes me is that ache to want sexual fulfilment whenever I'm not getting any! And right now, I am hankering for a bit of both, if my photo in the Ladies' Lounge is a clue...

purplelirpa

I can relate to and agree with this statement^^

OP, if you are hurting, I think that's more of the issue than your bisexuality. If you examine this fear, maybe you will find the root of your unhappiness.

curiousbear

I am not bi, not bi-curious.
But I am very curious about bi-sexual and bi-curious girls
Does this happen to girls? Are there girls who are curious about bi-sexual and bi-curious guys? Is this common?

purplelirpa

Curious? Sure. I'd even go as far to say that I'd be interested enough to watch.

Allyallyally

Sexuality can be fluid. More so in females than males, I think. It's possible to change your preferences throughout your life (Kinsey scale, anyone?).

There's heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, and everything in between. I've been attracted to women for years, now, but haven't yet had the chance to take that further. I'm working on it, though.

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Cervantes

Pretty much sums up my idea about it as well, I have serious trouble seeing the world in absolutes, that includes hetro and homosexuality. Imo they are just degrees of bisexuality that prefers one side over the other.

And I also agree fully that sexual preferences are not static, they alter over time as we grow and explore.

As stated before in this thread, the pain about being bi curious is mostly self inflicted (social stigmata, group/peer pressure etc.), it's nothing wrong, and if it causes you so much pain don't act on it. But if you can get over your hangups and do a bit of experimentation, I seriously doubt you'll regret it as long as you stay safe.

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rr1024

Well my boy friend is bi and I'm str8 and we have had some great bi MMF threesomes...wow

Not all women are down with the idea of a bi man and in fact I wasn't but my bf said he loves women not men so we do them together ;-)

Try to find or convince a women to understand that she has an oppertunity to have the time of here life with you...that is what I bf did to me when we first started talking about it

skinnyass

I am also bi curious, i had a bi experience when i was 15 and drunk, for a long time i felt ashamed of what had happened but as i got older and times have changed socially i now embrace that experience and am thankful for it, i have never had another bi experience but would like to try, My wife also had a bi experience a long time ago when she was young and we both are looking for the right couple to try again.