Thread: Bi-Curious
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:47 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Allyallyally View Post
Sexuality can be fluid. More so in females than males, I think. It's possible to change your preferences throughout your life (Kinsey scale, anyone?).

There's heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, and everything in between. I've been attracted to women for years, now, but haven't yet had the chance to take that further. I'm working on it, though.
Pretty much sums up my idea about it as well, I have serious trouble seeing the world in absolutes, that includes hetro and homosexuality. Imo they are just degrees of bisexuality that prefers one side over the other.

And I also agree fully that sexual preferences are not static, they alter over time as we grow and explore.

As stated before in this thread, the pain about being bi curious is mostly self inflicted (social stigmata, group/peer pressure etc.), it's nothing wrong, and if it causes you so much pain don't act on it. But if you can get over your hangups and do a bit of experimentation, I seriously doubt you'll regret it as long as you stay safe.
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