Zeraph

I had always thought I'd be fine with anon sex but I got a couple offers over the last few years and found myself surprised that I couldn't go through with it. Still a strong fantasy of mine.

Anyone else had a similar experience? Or has anyone been able to go through with it?

Jozrael

I'd love to.

However, I'm in a committed, monoamorous relationship.

Also, I'd be worried about diseases. If everyone got checked beforehand and I was single again, I would jump on that so fast ;D

Halanna

I don't think there is anything wrong with stranger sex as long as your partner is willing.

You are both scratching an itch and there is nothing one on one, relationship centered, call me tomorrow, meet my Mom about it.

Won't comment on you being in a relationship. I'm just commenting on stranger sex. It's hot.

thespian86

I'm a one time offender and I still feel ashamed of it.

edit: not on the internet. at a bar. literally at the bar.

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Jozrael

I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of for random sex. I totally agree with Halanna.

But yea, my partner wouldn't be cool with me sexing up others.

Bear Cub

I did it, fucked her a few times, made a friend out of it.

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james t kirk

Had an anon internet sex hook up.

2 years later, we're still together.

Go figure.

wooÐs

I used to do things like this years ago on the weekends, as cocaine lowers your inhibitions a smidge. But no more. The thought of it actually disgusts me now. And screw dating. Not for me. I was ready to settle down with one man and only one man yesterday.

Allyallyally

As long as both parties are up for it, and you play it safe, I see nothing wrong with it. Casual sex can be fantastic.

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Tully Mars

I tried this once. Turns out people save old photos of themselves. Who knew? Complete waste of a drive to Cancun.

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Anormalguy

It's not for me, but if two consenting adults want to use the internet to hook-up, why not?


That was the first thought I had when I read the thread title .

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Confederate

It was easy when I was in college. Ended up dating one, and having another as a fuck buddy. It just depends on what both parties want. That being said I had to give and receive a lot of trust before I let it happen.

lostgirl

+1

I would also be worried about STIs, condoms don't protect you 100%.

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Daniel_

I just came here to say, I keep seeing this thread and misreading the title as "Anal sex internet hookups".

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Plan9

Depending on how picky you are about the anus, that should be relatively easy via Craigslist!

Where's Bear Cub at? He's an expert on Craigslist.

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Daniel_

Can't say I'm especially picky about the anus, per se.

I am however picky about the person the anus is part of

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Cimarron29414

Not exactly the same, but I had a chance to do a threesome with my GF and her friend. I couldn't do it either. While I look back and sort of regret it, I recognize that fantasies always outmatch reality.

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Seeker5509

Never tried it, but am intrigued by the thought...

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Bear Cub

See my post above. The same anon hookup I had mentioned was the first person to actually yell "I want you to come in my ass" after I slapped her across the face. Sweet girl, bad cook though.

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blahblah454

Wow Bear, just wow.

Bear Cub

Jess was a great fuck, and like I said, we're still friends, and I routinely poke fun at her now that she's dating a guy who's only 5'5" on a good day. And being only 5'7" on my hind claws, I am entitled to make short jokes when the opportunity presents itself.

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Shaindra

Yanno, considering my sex drive, you'd think I'd have done this. But I've never met someone with the sole purpose of getting it on. I think maybe I fear what I would be like if I really did have an unlimited source of instant sexual partners.

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FelixP

I'm intrigued, but I'm not sure where one would go for such a thing. It seems like most people would either post false pictures (Tully's experience), or not actually be serious about going through with it.

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HannaH13

Oh you kids ... it was a lot more fun and more challenging in the 70's. You actually had to get off your ass, get dressed and look good, hit a bar or a club (it really helped if you could dance) had to make conversation and be able to sell it. Then if you had the skills you got laid. If not, you had to start over. And that was before STDs were invented. Yup ... glory days.

wooÐs

Regarding the whole pictures-not-looking-like-the-actual-person deal, webcam chats before meeting will prevent disappointment. Even if it's just a quick 10 minute 'hi,' I highly recommend doing this. Take advantage of technology people!

Tully Mars

Funny thing is I could have dealt with her as-was so to speak. Not like she was Sherk IV or something. But it was obvious she was 10 years older and 20lbs heavier then her pic's. My problem was she was obviously being dishonest about stuff. I had several conversations with her on-line prior to agreeing to meet. I literally didn't recognize her at the agreed upon meeting place, a Starbucks. She came up to me a put her arms around me, my first thought was "who the heck are you and how much did you drink last night?" I was kind of stunned. We had coffee and talked, found out she did indeed have children, young children at home and might still be involved with the father. She was suddenly rather vague about that. I told her "well nice meeting. You have a nice lay over (flight attendant) I need to get going, I've got a dive this afternoon." And I left. I think that kind of stunned her, haven't heard from her since.

Too many lies, even for a booty call.

I like the web cam idea. Would keep people honest about their appearance. Though they could still tell you whatever BS story they want. Turns out not all people are honest on-line, who knew?

Just don't think web hook ups are for me.

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Puttz

I see no problem at all with anon sex, be it internet or otherwise. I do prefer to meet in a public place first and make sure they are A) not an obvious psychopath B) not a troll

It's important to be careful, and use protectection, it's important to be up front with your limits and know theirs.

Have fun, be safe, relax.

Confederate

This is really the only proper way to do it.

Halx

So if we meet, I can expect someone with a big ol' happy face?

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elsesomebody

I've been thinking about trying to make something like this happen. It seems that the whole point is to avoid all the b.s. and just have a good time. The problem is that it seems like the internet is full of b.s. Is there a cheap/free site like match.com that can be used for this, where there is some moderation or something to keep people honest? Otherwise, Bear Cub, you want to write us a guide?

Bear Cub

Eh, there's no real magic to it. Bear Cub put up a personal ad that was somewhat lengthy, clever, and hysterical. That weeds out most of the retards. So you're left with some average normal women, and some single moms. If you don't discriminate against either, you're all set. Odds are if they're fucking you off Craigslist, they don't care if you smack them around a bit or stick your thumb up their ass.

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Plan9

Well, I know what I'm doing this weekend after SCUBA.

A whole 'nother kinda diving.

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elsesomebody

Did you bother responding to any posted ads or only post your own?
You mention them being average... Did you haveaInu luck finding attractive women? I realize it might sound bad, but I would definately want a woman that I am attracted to, which probably means above average. Getting it from below average women isn't hard but it doesn't do much for me either, and I find that I go down with much less enthusiasm.
I was hoping to find somebody that is 7 or above (out of 10) between 18 and 30 that just doesn't have the time to find Mr Right and is lookin to have their needs met. That doesn't seem unrealistic considering single moms and professionsals. Ideally it would be a hot college freshman that doesn't want to embarrass herself honing her skills on her peers. While I'm dreaming she might as well have a twin sister and a roommate that want to join in.

wooÐs

Well we haven't cammed just yet. But if and when we do, I promise to wear my happy face if you wear your toga.