How do you respond to being called a 'whore'? - Page 2 - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Tully Mars · 09-19-2008, 04:33 AM

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Originally Posted by jorgelito

Regardless of my own personal views regarding sexuality and your stated behaviour, there is no excuse for the response you received. Simply put, it is rude and discourteous. In this case, I think an appropriate response would be:

"Excuse me, I beg your pardon?"

or

"That was very rude and uncalled for, please apologize."

Your unfortunate experience was totally unacceptable and I am sorry it happened to you.

P.S. - It would not be unreasonable to respond: "Go to hell!" or "Eat shit and die!"

Wow, this is really offensive and inappropriate.

C'mon now, is this really necessary?

Really we've gotten so politically correct in this country we can't make jokes about stuff like this?

I'm a 100% Obama supporter. I've heard jokes about him that made me laugh.

In fact there's a thread about Obama's e-mail account, other then a couple that don't make sense. I find some of it funny.

cadre · 09-19-2008, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Willravel

It was clearly wrong and there's no excuse. Cadre deserves respect.

A+ for Willravel

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Originally Posted by punkmusicfan21

Kiss ass.

F for punkmusicfan :P

Anywho, the story continues. This same guy tried to talk to me again recently. I guess he realized that he couldn't get a woman even if he didn't insult them. So he tried to pretend like nothing ever happened and I promptly reminded him that I don't associate with assholes. At which point he left.

tenchi069 · 09-19-2008, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by cadre

Anywho, the story continues. This same guy tried to talk to me again recently. I guess he realized that he couldn't get a woman even if he didn't insult them. So he tried to pretend like nothing ever happened and I promptly reminded him that I don't associate with assholes. At which point he left.

A++ for Cadre

genuinegirly · 09-19-2008, 10:51 PM

Good move, Cadre!

ItWasMe · 09-21-2008, 06:11 PM

Good for you!

thespian86 · 09-21-2008, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by cadre

A+ for Willravel

F for punkmusicfan :P

Anywho, the story continues. This same guy tried to talk to me again recently. I guess he realized that he couldn't get a woman even if he didn't insult them. So he tried to pretend like nothing ever happened and I promptly reminded him that I don't associate with assholes. At which point he left.

Oh Cadre; let's work on my mark shall we.

We both know you're a strong, independent woman. I didn't need to remind you of that; I think maybe this was a shock to your system because your human but in reality I think you always knew you're much better then some dick who wants to treat you like a... well, treat. But you're smart enough to say fuck you.

But if you need to hear it. You have demonstrated to me and everyone here that your more then just a beautiful face; although you are certainly that too. Know that, remember that, and carry yourself that way. Something I'm certain you already do. Life is full of assholes like this guy.

Life is full of great ones like you.

kutulu · 09-22-2008, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by jewels

I'd definitely be protecting myself and others if I was "sexing" with more than one.

Should I read every guy my sexual resume before a first date?

If a relationship becomes serious then at some point you'd have to let him know. I think most people would be more offended if the person they have started to have feelings for told them they were sleeping with others than if they knew up front.

RangerJoe · 09-22-2008, 09:31 AM

When they are joking (which people do sometimes), I reply with my wonderful saying, "I'm a whore, but I'm nice."

When they aren't joking, I walk away. End of story.

Zeraph · 09-22-2008, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by tenchi069

Im going to stray just a little off topic before i add my own 2 cents into the mix.

This is in response to all of the "kick him in the nuts, slap him in the face..etc" Responding with physical assault in response to words is not only a way to further escalate things, but is also a good way to have to wait around and talk to the cops.
Is the guy a douchebag? Imo yes. A proper response would have been:

a. walk away and speak to him never again

b. Q"so you're a whore?"
A..."and I see you're an asshole."

Just wanted to say that I agree. While it's fun to imagine such violence, it is in no way a proper response just because someone's being a Dbag.

So ya, something along the lines of
"takes a john to spot one"
"at least I make money doing it"
"takes one to know one"

Deltona Couple · 09-23-2008, 05:22 AM

I just correct thm and say I am not a whore....Whores do it for money, I am a SLUT! I do it for free!!!!!!!

MSD · 09-24-2008, 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by cadre

Anywho, the story continues. This same guy tried to talk to me again recently. I guess he realized that he couldn't get a woman even if he didn't insult them. So he tried to pretend like nothing ever happened and I promptly reminded him that I don't associate with assholes. At which point he left.

Let us know when he scores the cluelessness hat trick. And tell him you wouldn't sleep with a guy who's willing to fuck whores.

09-19-2008, 10:51 PM	#44 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	Good move, Cadre! __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

09-21-2008, 06:11 PM	#45 (permalink)
ItWasMe But You'll Never Prove It. Location: under your bed	Good for you! __________________ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . "Ok, no more truth-or-dare until somebody returns my underwear" ~ George Lopez I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe

09-23-2008, 05:22 AM	#50 (permalink)
Deltona Couple Addict Location: Spring, Texas	I just correct thm and say I am not a whore....Whores do it for money, I am a SLUT! I do it for free!!!!!!! __________________ "It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison

09-22-2008, 09:31 AM	#48 (permalink)
RangerJoe Addict	When they are joking (which people do sometimes), I reply with my wonderful saying, "I'm a whore, but I'm nice." When they aren't joking, I walk away. End of story.