Jinn

Staring in general is rude. If you're talking to someone and you continually look up to stare at their forehead, it's extremely distracting and thereby rude.

Staring at the wrong person in the city (like Detroit) is enough to get your ass kicked. You learn quickly to avoid noticing them at all, unless they're directly addressing you.

I doubt, however, that any of the TFP members are the "honk honk show me your tits!" crowd. It's a shame that these cretins ruin it for us all, but that's one fact I have to live with as a man.

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abaya

Funny, I thought I was weird for having to wear two sports bras to the gym... nice to know that some of you other women have to deal with the same issue. Why don't they just make better sports bras?!... the bouncing hurts when I only wear one, but when I wear two, the elastic band at the bottom constricts too tightly and my breathing gets shallow. Anyone else have that problem?

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Willravel

They're designed by men. Men love to see breasts move. Many men don't understand that bouncing breasts can be painful.

bluestars87

I agree. You just don't stare at someone. It's rude and or creepy. When it comes to a girl, and if I think she's pretty or something, I usually glance a little bit, or look for a couple of seconds from a distance. First off, I don't want to seem like a stalker, so I don't keep gawking. And second, it feels wrong to me. Heck, what can I say, I'm a nice guy.

What's messed up though is when I'm zoning out looking in a certain direction where a girl happens to be sitting down, and my head happens to be looking at the place where her boobs are...or something like that. And then they think I'm a pervert. It's extremely rare, but it's happened a couple of times in my life. There were times when I was so bored in high school during class and this certain circumstance occurred. It's along the same lines as me accidentally touching a girl's ass as I brush past and she instantly becomes furious. Yeah I do think women get way too many breaks sometimes, but whatever, that's life.

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noodle

Hey, if I'm willing to flash them, you're welcome to honk. I've flashed many a boob at and from moving vehicles. But that's different from standing in front of me while I'm clothed and trying to have a conversation. If you stand in front of me while I'm trying to have a conversation with you and honk, well... we'll just have to see.


And, abaya, I haven't even found two sports bras that restrain mine comfortably. I'm only a C after I lost all the weight. I've taken to wearing a sports bra and a sports-tank and it's still not working. I feel like I've been punched in the breasts after 10 minutes on the elliptical. But apparently they are fun to watch bounce.

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Fredweena wins the thread. Thanks for playing everyone.

Daniel_

Still waiting for you to show them to me, darling. X

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ShaniFaye

tell my husband to stay in town long enough with the camera!!!!!

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snowy

Hanes makes a surprisingly good and cheap sportsbra...it's also less uni-boob oriented than other sports bras (at least the one I have is). They keep my girls strapped down. The trick is wide straps...otherwise I end up with dents in my shoulders.

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abaya

Clearly my /end threadjack did not work ... but I'll take this advice while I can. Where did you get this sportsbra, Snowy? Is there a particular model you are talking about?

I'm somewhere between C and D cup, and love to run... but hate the bounce. Sometimes I run with my arms up close to my chest so I can stop the bounce that way (terribly uncomfortable). My mom attributes my gravity-afflicted boobs to high school cross-country and track ("I told you that if you kept running, they would sag early!"). Thanks, Mom!

Since then I have actually bought the SMALLEST, least-stretchy sports bras I could find, in order to strap my boobs down as tightly as possible. Which accounts for the trouble breathing while running, at times.. Why don't those idiot (male?) bra designers know that we want NO MOVEMENT WHATSOEVER? Uggh.

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Baraka_Guru

I'm sorry, were you after a sports bra or a bronze breastplate?

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Hyacinthe

hmm I wonder if that would work, the nipple chafing if there was movement would be terrible though

on a side note minimising bras work quite good for sports I have found - usually wide strapped with supportive cups and less likely to be uni boob orientated then the sports bras.

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abaya

Actually, I liked Baraka's suggestion... but as Hyacinthe pointed out, the chafing would be awful!!

Personally, I find the uni-boob thing to be the only thing that works as a sports bra (added bonus: guys have nothing to ogle at!... going back to the point of this thread). The "supportive cup" thing, I find, still allows for the boobs to bounce, which causes discomfort.

/goes to look for a titanium (lightweight) breastplate... or maybe just duct tape.

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