Wouldn't bother me. I'm kind of voyeuristic anyway. My wife isn't, though, she don't film anything, unfortunately.

I wouldn't care really - like some have said, I not ashamed of my sex life. I might have the odd concern about employers or loved ones seeing it but at the end of the day, if its up there, there's not much you can do about it - best to protect yourself ahead of time. I've filmed myself with past boyfriends, but the tape always gets erased or filmed over, after we've had our fun watching it...

not to be a pessimist, but how do you know they didnt' secretly make a copy?