The tale of the unforseen orgasms
 

Well to make a long story short I have a bit of an odd happening on my hands and I wanted to know if anybody else has heard of it. My GF and I have been fooling around for a while now and loving every minute of it. However since we started having sex (we were both virgins before) we have noticed some shall we say odd occurrences. After a round of sex my GF usually has at least one orgasm with no stimulation (other than say cuddling normally). The most extreme incident being after a round of sex with some manual assistance afterwards she had 3 orgasms after I had finished touching her, these weren't “ooh that feels kinda good” orgasms either these were the kind that meant that the next day every last fiber of her body was exhausted from the convulsions. I can understand she is still excited (lord knows her sexual appetite outlasts mine, something to do with successive orgasms I guess), but it seems odd and it is definitely something I have never heard of before. Just to throw something out there it may be linked to her being on top (it seems to work best for us both that way though so that could be an superfluous factor. To my knowledge neither mutual masturbation nor cunnilingus ever evoked this response (if it did it was of a factor of 10 less powerful), and she is shocked enough by it that I don't believe her toys cause it either (though again I don't know her toy habits very well)

What say ye?

ye says, try this only when you have a day off the next day.

i really dont have much to add...but if it feels good, why the hell not?

I say: enjoy the hell out of this while you have it. lol

You will find that when a woman is in position of sexual control(i.e. girl on top, where SHE controls the movements and pressure on her clitoris) She will have the most intense orgasms. When you are performing oral, or manual manipulation, then YOU are in control of things like location of touch, pressure, rythm, etc... So her orgasm is based on what YOU do. That is an explanation as to the more powerful orgasms. As far as the other, where she achieves orgasm without contact, enjoy it, and don't worry about it. As you are a new couple, the sexaul exploits are new, and are more mentally exciting. Overall, any couple who are starting off their sexaulity will have very intense reactions in the early parts of the relationship. I have talked with my wife, and she agrees that a woman's orgasm is not just physical, but a large portion mental as well....How comfortable is she with her partner, what the situation is...etc. My wife has the most intense orgasms when under distress, i.e. risk of being caught, a quickie in the back seat that wasn't planned, me attacking her right out of the shower, get the idea? Anything that brings about her mental excitement will bring out a much stronger and intense orgasm. Also, this being both of your virginity, THAT also plays a big factor. I will tell you that as long as it feels good, and doesn't cause any problems, then enjoy it, and keep on rocking!

AND REMEMBER: SAFE SEX!!!! No Glove? No Love!

This is the other side of the equation... some girls can't\won't\have real trouble with getting off. It only figures some can get off without being touched, or by simply being talked to, or whatever.

Ill have what shes having..... Man I feel inept all of the sudden!

Sorry the reply took so long. My net connection is currently flaky.

Second: To those who say enjoy, believe you me I do. And to reassure everyone, glove, used right(they always made a big point of that in sex ed, but I can't quite tell how you can screw it up), every time, with redundant contraceptives (in this case the pill).

I wrote in mostly to see if it was something that any TFP'ers had seen. Judging by the replies I would say if so not often. I was not concerned, lord knows I love having her quivering in my arms

Advice concerning being each others firsts as well as position and most importantly the mental aspects are duly noted. And while I don't consider myself no Casanova I have tried to keep these things in mind.

And most of all thanks Sage, I may have a spring in my step tomorrow cause of that thought. I like to think I'm doing right by her, though I do realize how totally inept I am (yes I have heard the phrase “you missed”).

Maybe you're just one helluva lover.

I'm suprised onesnowy hasn't been in here telling y'all what I'm going to say...

Congradulations to you, fatman, for having such a good time having sex. You are definitely making her future easier by showing her a good time in the sack (trust me, a bad first sexual expierence puts us women off of sex for a while). And good for you for using BC!

I recommend The Guide To Getting It ON! by Paul Johannes (which, by the way, is currently on sale at Amazon.com), since it's the most comprehensive human sexuality book I've ever seen. If you are still living with your parents and afraid that they'd find it if you took it in the house, you can go to Barnes and Noble (or other large bookstore) and read it there at your lesiure. I also like The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Goodvibes.com is a GREAT site and they know what they're talking about. Last but not least there's Supersex by Tracey Cox, and she's got loads of good advice on how to make sex really good and sensual, plus the picutres are really erotic.

Best of luck to you!

Well, that sure is nice Fatman! I'm guessing you guys are young. I didn't have multi orgasms until I was 40! I've not done more than 5 in one lay yet though and a few times with no manual manipulation at all. I will agree with Deltona, sometimes when the female has control it can affect it. However, sometimes it is the position or how long since you last had sex.

Maybe due to age it might make a difference, I don't know. But, I do find being the age that I am now, it's better to wait at least every other day to have multi orgasms.

Man, more power to you! I loved sex when I was in my twenties and thirties, but since there are no outside obligations (meaning children or other interferences at play) I find that I can just concentrate on the moment itself. And boy howdy it's great!!! :D