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cyrnel · 08-22-2007, 09:38 PM

Woo!

What started as a friendship is well into that wild, didn't-think-I'd-be-feeling-this-way-again phase.

Yep it's new, or at least unexpected.
Yep it's exciting.
Yep it's been too long.

She's open, honest, fearless, curious - all more than anyone I've known. And she digs me.

Here's a toast, to anyone else close to giving up on finding a meaningful relationship in this life: if there's hope for me... Cheers.

KirStang · 08-22-2007, 10:19 PM

Oh man, it's funny that the first thing i think is: "Be careful..."

/sigh.

Midnight · 08-22-2007, 10:28 PM

in the "significant other" category, I gave up years ago.

but meaningful relationships in general... well those I have in bountiful plenty.

Best wishes in your new foray into "significant othership"!

cyrnel · 08-23-2007, 06:12 PM

Believe me, the scared voice in my head is still saying "BE CAREFUL".

Quote:

in the "significant other" category, I gave up years ago."

That's where I was. I finally gave up again and became receptive.

No small assist from this woman who's able to see right through the junk.

It's taken me a long time to get in touch with my cycles. To keep old junk from interfering with new. Not that the process will ever end, but for now I'm ok with taking chances.

snowy · 08-23-2007, 07:14 PM

My SO and I will be celebrating our 2-year anniversary this Sunday.

Two years?! Where did they go?!

Good luck, cyrnel...

RenaissanceII · 08-23-2007, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by cyrnel

Woo!

What started as a friendship is well into that wild, didn't-think-I'd-be-feeling-this-way-again phase.

Yep it's new, or at least unexpected.
Yep it's exciting.
Yep it's been too long.

She's open, honest, fearless, curious - all more than anyone I've known. And she digs me.

Here's a toast, to anyone else close to giving up on finding a meaningful relationship in this life: if there's hope for me... Cheers.

Thanks for the Hope.....
And I believe I am heading in the right direction

maleficent · 08-24-2007, 03:39 AM

I gave up and am ok with it - there is no hope...

but yay for you - you're a sweetheart of a guy and deserving of someone special - so kudos and what a lucky lady...

777 · 08-28-2007, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by cyrnel

Here's a toast, to anyone else close to giving up on finding a meaningful relationship in this life: if there's hope for me... Cheers.

A Petrantoni · 08-31-2007, 01:57 AM

i met my boyfriend where i work now as a server (ha waitress) at a diner in town, he had come in from the rain because he was riding his bicycle home from school, and he came in and wanted hot chocolate haha

that was when we were 16 and 18, he was a senior and i was a sophmore in high school and we sat and talked for the longest time while the rain was still raining, and he said he hd seen me in school and asked me out right there, and we were together until he passed away about 6 months ago, he was 23, i loved him very much

and dont worry sweety youll find another one soon, we may not be able to hold on to every love forever but i truly believe there is a reason for it all and thats what gives me strength, and i hope for you to

RenaissanceII · 08-31-2007, 03:02 AM

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Originally Posted by A Petrantoni

i met my boyfriend where i work now as a server (ha waitress) at a diner in town, he had come in from the rain because he was riding his bicycle home from school, and he came in and wanted hot chocolate haha

that was when we were 16 and 18, he was a senior and i was a sophmore in high school and we sat and talked for the longest time while the rain was still raining, and he said he hd seen me in school and asked me out right there, and we were together until he passed away about 6 months ago, he was 23, i loved him very much

and dont worry sweety youll find another one soon, we may not be able to hold on to every love forever but i truly believe there is a reason for it all and thats what gives me strength, and i hope for you to

I am sorry for your loss.
I nourish my hope, and am grateful for your strength.

08-22-2007, 09:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
cyrnel Adequate Location: In my angry-dome.	The New Significant Relationship Thread Woo! What started as a friendship is well into that wild, didn't-think-I'd-be-feeling-this-way-again phase. Yep it's new, or at least unexpected. Yep it's exciting. Yep it's been too long. She's open, honest, fearless, curious - all more than anyone I've known. And she digs me. Here's a toast, to anyone else close to giving up on finding a meaningful relationship in this life: if there's hope for me... Cheers. __________________ There are a vast number of people who are uninformed and heavily propagandized, but fundamentally decent. The propaganda that inundates them is effective when unchallenged, but much of it goes only skin deep. If they can be brought to raise questions and apply their decent instincts and basic intelligence, many people quickly escape the confines of the doctrinal system and are willing to do something to help others who are really suffering and oppressed." -Manufacturing Consent: Noam Chomsky and the Media, p. 195

08-23-2007, 07:14 PM	#5 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	My SO and I will be celebrating our 2-year anniversary this Sunday. Two years?! Where did they go?! Good luck, cyrnel... __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

08-24-2007, 03:39 AM	#7 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	I gave up and am ok with it - there is no hope... but yay for you - you're a sweetheart of a guy and deserving of someone special - so kudos and what a lucky lady... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

08-31-2007, 01:57 AM	#9 (permalink)
A Petrantoni Banned	i met my boyfriend where i work now as a server (ha waitress) at a diner in town, he had come in from the rain because he was riding his bicycle home from school, and he came in and wanted hot chocolate haha that was when we were 16 and 18, he was a senior and i was a sophmore in high school and we sat and talked for the longest time while the rain was still raining, and he said he hd seen me in school and asked me out right there, and we were together until he passed away about 6 months ago, he was 23, i loved him very much and dont worry sweety youll find another one soon, we may not be able to hold on to every love forever but i truly believe there is a reason for it all and thats what gives me strength, and i hope for you to Last edited by A Petrantoni; 08-31-2007 at 02:03 AM..

08-22-2007, 10:19 PM	#2 (permalink)
KirStang Future Bureaucrat	Oh man, it's funny that the first thing i think is: "Be careful..." /sigh.

08-22-2007, 10:28 PM	#3 (permalink)
Midnight Banned Location: Chicago's western burbs	in the "significant other" category, I gave up years ago. but meaningful relationships in general... well those I have in bountiful plenty. Best wishes in your new foray into "significant othership"!