spit or swallow? and WHY
 

:D or :mad:

I would choose to swallow...Why? Because it is not as messy!
I am a clean freak.

Swallow all the time, everytime with my man because...

Unless he is wearing a condom to begin with I'm already tasting it.

When he goes down on me he doesn't keep spitting when the juices start flowing.

I read somewhere it helps fight acne :)

He consumes mass amounts of orange juice purely because it adds a slight citrus flavor.

Unless there are some serious funk issues it doesn't taste bad, just different.

Finally, if you trust him enough to let it get inside you elsewhere it's safe enough for your mouth.


Exceptions...

He misses... LOL, I'm usually not down for clean up (aka lick up) duty unless it's just on his chest or something.

He askes to put it somewhere else like face, breasts, etc...

"He" is really some total stranger... in which case what are YOU doing down there anyway ;) ;)

Hope I'm not offending any die hard "spitters" but honestly, when you think about it if it's the man you love then why not? It won't kill you.

Very thorough response!

I'll be brief and say swallow. :) Because I love my honey and he is so special to me, so I don't mind doing it for him.

Mm, swallow, cuz I like the taste ;) And it sure impresses the hell out of a guy :D

Swallow; my guy loves it and its just cleaner...

Swallow! Why would I spit if I've already got it in my mouth and have the taste? if it tastes bad (and sometimes it does because he'll have eaten something that changes it) it takes less time to keep sucking and swallow it down, than to spit it out and look for something to swab your mouth with *laughs*

I buy pineapple juice for Jaiddin just for this reason too, makes him sweet.

I don't do cleanup, unless it's just a bit on my hand from a handjob and then I do it purely for the shock factor as I normally go wash my hands to get the slimy feeling off hehe.

If I'm not going to swallow, he doesn't finish in my mouth, I'll make him cum with my hand. If I'm tasting it, it's getting swallowed.

edit because I can't keep his forum names straight *sighs*

Depends on the situation, sometimes I like to see feel it running down my chin. Or have it end up in other places.

Depends on the mood and the person.

Mostly swallow...I don't see why you would spit, your already tasting it anyways. It doesn't taste bad...just different...I think its more the texture than the taste. I love the reaction I get when I tell a guy I want to swallow it for him right before he finishes :) Guys also seem to appreciate a girl who loves to swallow. I am all for cleanup duty, its fun to play with! I'll also let a guy who I've done it with a few times let me know where he wants it, I love the feeling of it on my skin!

Swallo....every once in a while i'll spit....but now that i'm used to it....i like to swallo....easy cleanup :D

Swallow. That seems to be the popular answer. I don't get his semen in me by having intercourse with a condom on, so I let his little men in my tummy! I feel bad though because they all die an acidy death probably swimming around with potatoes and rice.

Swallow, for most of the reasons redrose already said...

The Roo

I swallow cuz it actually tastes pretty good and even if it didn't it's already in your mouth and you already have the taste on your tongue so why not. Plus, I love my man and he likes it, a lot!

mhm..exactly. :)

Swallow for certain! It's not as bad as anyone tries to make it out to be and I for one don't mind the taste one bit. And, heck - the guys love it!! :)

For some reason, that potatoes and rice part make me bust up like nobody's business.

Anyway, I have only swallowed once, and it was just -terrible-. This was before I knew that meats and fish made semen taste just horrendous. I could only describe the taste of it (this was my ex) as cardboard that was soaked in a mixture of bleach/baking soda/peroxide for about a week, in a vat in the sun. Needless to say, next time I feel I am going to want to swallow, a certain someone is going to be drinking a lot of pineapple juice or some other thing that will make it sweet.

It depends on.... I'm not sure what..But, most of the time I swallow, but on occasion, I spit...

I swalllow too, for all of the reasons listed above,unless, of course, Sir prefers to put it somewhere else. Like Nikki and siN said sometimes I prefer to feel it running down my face.

Ahem, depends on the mood, environment, what he wants etc. If it is already in my mouth, I'm going to drink it. Otherwise I am wearing it / receiving it other places. :)

FYI: Water, drinking lots of water gives it nearly no taste at all for those of you who can't handle the taste.

this may sound crazy to some of you but it never occurd to me _not_ to swallow. i just LOVE gettin that stuff inside me, don't care how and boy is it yummy. Kind of an animal instinct kinda thing. oh and by the way my name's lauren and I'm a capracorn. nice to meet you all now that you know my s or s preferance.

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i couldn't agree more

I feel so crappy, but sometimes i spit or swallow. Most of the time I spit. I like him and all but it tastes so bad! Its just so bitter...if i swallow i feel like im going to hurl..literally. How can it taste better or help me swallow it? Like a huge difference. Nuts or oranges doesnt change the taste for me.Suggestions?

mew... don't feel crappy... sometimes you just have to spit... and if for you, it's more times than not, that is really OK.

i have the luxury of knowing my husband for 15 years... so whether or not i swallow, is really beside the point in our relationship now...

there are a lot of reasons why people can and can't swallow... people have different body chemistry... sometimes, just becuase, your stomach may be "weaker" than others...
like suivko said above, sometimes if it hits the back of your throat too hard, it can set off a gag reflex and no matter how much you want to... swallowing is not an option...

if you want to try other options that make you feel "less bad"... try being playful when you spit.
i have a girlfriend who simply CANNOT swallow... like you, she said she would nearly hurl everytime she tried to.
now... she spits her mouthful into her husbands bellybutton when all finished... then she kisses her way up his tummy and chest until she reaches his lips...
he loves it... and is not offended AT ALL!

the key here is... whatever works for you and your partner is what is best... don't let anyone else's preconceived idea's of what "should be" dictate how you feel...

:)

~ springrain

Awww!Thats so sweet Springrain:) THanks a lot. That really makes me feel a ton better. Though, my bf doesnt mind that I spit, but if i were to do that bellybutton well, hed freak. I mean he cant kiss me after i gave him a bj, so I doubt he'll let me do that. Though its a really good idea!

Hmm, well, I'm a spitter.....cum physically makes me ill....I don't mind having it on me, in me, in my mouth, whatever....but I swallow that, and I'm sick for the day....

Who knows....maybe it's all in my head....

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:) thanks... that made ME feel good...


*laughing*... what is this with men? any of you other ladies have men not want to kiss you after you've gone down on him? I'll bet most of them think nothing of kissing you after they've gone down *snicker*.

as for my husband and i... neither of us care... it's all part of the whole love making process... we've shared so much spit, sweat, cum and God knows what else by the time we're done *laugh*... it seems almost silly to worry about that stuff...

anyone else come across this?

I personally don't like the way I taste, but It still turns me on to think it is all over his lips when he kisses me. I think the same goes for him, but he doesn't seem to mind either. However the one thing we are staying away from is "snowballing" where instead of spitting or swallowing, you just give it back in a kiss. His whole logic is that if his body wanted to get rid of it that forcefully, he doesn't need it all back ;). Anyways I think it would kinda freak ME out if we were to do that too. Have any of you done or heard about snowballing?

i've never heard of snowballing before your post... but i would tend to agree with you... if the body is forcefully expelling it for a reason... then logic says it shouldn't be RE-inserted *chuckle*

LOL, Well Im glad you liked my comment Springrain.
Yeah Ive heard of snowballing, but yeah...I..No. I couldnt ever no no no.lol yuck.
I wouldnt mind if he kissed me after he went down on me. But as long as I drink or eat something after I kiss him, hes ok with it.
Lots of guys are grossed out about it..even my x was the same.

OOps and another thing...Ive had cum on me once and that was gross..I cant have that stuff on my face,hair,body whatever.aside from in a condom or mouth...Im very much a clean freak and even having like whipcream remnants on my body and sleeping in bed gives me the ickys...never again lol.

I think Cum is fantastic. One of the reasons I don't swallow it most of the time is that I like it on me. I like to get messy!!
I haven't come across a man so far who was unsatisfied by this technique.
Messy sex to me is great sex.

Nikki:

Me neither, but it is hard to find a man who doesn't blush when they see a drop of blood on the sheet. It is really tragical and ironic that atleast for me the most horniest part of the month when my hormones scream for seeeeeex is the most messiest.

My bf doenst mind at all when im on my period. He's emberassed for me to tell me hes got blood all over his condom..and he so cute..when he wants lovings he says"would you rather have a Mike* tampon instead?" Aww!hes so cute

*names have been changed to protect the identity of the people.

HUH??

I was talking about CUM being messy not having my period during sex.

Swallow. I'm in a long-term relationship - intimacy 12 years, married 9, so we've enchanged pretty much all the body fluids. I think a guy likes it when his cum is swallowed, but obviously there are lots of other variations - with plenty of great examples here at TFP.

Swallowing is more practical, tho' the texture is somewhat like raw egg whites. It's fun to swallow and kiss my man. And it's a great way to share. :)

Edited cuz I can't freakin' spell!

I don't even get to that point anymore...the first time I went down on my boyfriend, I decided I'd swallow, and I just about threw up. Poor guy, but I'll still go down on him, I'll just leap on top of him when he gets close.

The thought of even the smell, taste, or texture makes me gag. :(

Also some men just "taste" better then others.

I do both ... I spit more than I swallow ... My husband LOVES eating red meat and it makes his cum taste really salty and cloroxy. When its like that I HAVE to spit or I'm gonna get sick. But if he has been on a veggie/fruit diet for a week or so I love to swallow. It tastes good then! I also love his cum on me.

I recall a thread in Usenet where some vegetarist man argued his diet made his semen taste better. Guess there are less practical reasons in this world for going veggie. :) I never took that one seriously. Hmm... *evil grin*