spit or swallow? and WHY
 

:D or :mad:

I would choose to swallow...Why? Because it is not as messy!
I am a clean freak.

Swallow all the time, everytime with my man because...

Unless he is wearing a condom to begin with I'm already tasting it.

When he goes down on me he doesn't keep spitting when the juices start flowing.

I read somewhere it helps fight acne :)

He consumes mass amounts of orange juice purely because it adds a slight citrus flavor.

Unless there are some serious funk issues it doesn't taste bad, just different.

Finally, if you trust him enough to let it get inside you elsewhere it's safe enough for your mouth.


Exceptions...

He misses... LOL, I'm usually not down for clean up (aka lick up) duty unless it's just on his chest or something.

He askes to put it somewhere else like face, breasts, etc...

"He" is really some total stranger... in which case what are YOU doing down there anyway ;) ;)

Hope I'm not offending any die hard "spitters" but honestly, when you think about it if it's the man you love then why not? It won't kill you.

Very thorough response!

I'll be brief and say swallow. :) Because I love my honey and he is so special to me, so I don't mind doing it for him.

Mm, swallow, cuz I like the taste ;) And it sure impresses the hell out of a guy :D

Swallow; my guy loves it and its just cleaner...

Swallow! Why would I spit if I've already got it in my mouth and have the taste? if it tastes bad (and sometimes it does because he'll have eaten something that changes it) it takes less time to keep sucking and swallow it down, than to spit it out and look for something to swab your mouth with *laughs*

I buy pineapple juice for Jaiddin just for this reason too, makes him sweet.

I don't do cleanup, unless it's just a bit on my hand from a handjob and then I do it purely for the shock factor as I normally go wash my hands to get the slimy feeling off hehe.

If I'm not going to swallow, he doesn't finish in my mouth, I'll make him cum with my hand. If I'm tasting it, it's getting swallowed.

edit because I can't keep his forum names straight *sighs*

Depends on the situation, sometimes I like to see feel it running down my chin. Or have it end up in other places.

Depends on the mood and the person.

Mostly swallow...I don't see why you would spit, your already tasting it anyways. It doesn't taste bad...just different...I think its more the texture than the taste. I love the reaction I get when I tell a guy I want to swallow it for him right before he finishes :) Guys also seem to appreciate a girl who loves to swallow. I am all for cleanup duty, its fun to play with! I'll also let a guy who I've done it with a few times let me know where he wants it, I love the feeling of it on my skin!

Swallo....every once in a while i'll spit....but now that i'm used to it....i like to swallo....easy cleanup :D

Swallow. That seems to be the popular answer. I don't get his semen in me by having intercourse with a condom on, so I let his little men in my tummy! I feel bad though because they all die an acidy death probably swimming around with potatoes and rice.

Swallow, for most of the reasons redrose already said...

The Roo

I swallow cuz it actually tastes pretty good and even if it didn't it's already in your mouth and you already have the taste on your tongue so why not. Plus, I love my man and he likes it, a lot!

mhm..exactly. :)

Swallow for certain! It's not as bad as anyone tries to make it out to be and I for one don't mind the taste one bit. And, heck - the guys love it!! :)

For some reason, that potatoes and rice part make me bust up like nobody's business.

Anyway, I have only swallowed once, and it was just -terrible-. This was before I knew that meats and fish made semen taste just horrendous. I could only describe the taste of it (this was my ex) as cardboard that was soaked in a mixture of bleach/baking soda/peroxide for about a week, in a vat in the sun. Needless to say, next time I feel I am going to want to swallow, a certain someone is going to be drinking a lot of pineapple juice or some other thing that will make it sweet.

It depends on.... I'm not sure what..But, most of the time I swallow, but on occasion, I spit...

I swalllow too, for all of the reasons listed above,unless, of course, Sir prefers to put it somewhere else. Like Nikki and siN said sometimes I prefer to feel it running down my face.

Ahem, depends on the mood, environment, what he wants etc. If it is already in my mouth, I'm going to drink it. Otherwise I am wearing it / receiving it other places. :)

FYI: Water, drinking lots of water gives it nearly no taste at all for those of you who can't handle the taste.

this may sound crazy to some of you but it never occurd to me _not_ to swallow. i just LOVE gettin that stuff inside me, don't care how and boy is it yummy. Kind of an animal instinct kinda thing. oh and by the way my name's lauren and I'm a capracorn. nice to meet you all now that you know my s or s preferance.

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i couldn't agree more

I feel so crappy, but sometimes i spit or swallow. Most of the time I spit. I like him and all but it tastes so bad! Its just so bitter...if i swallow i feel like im going to hurl..literally. How can it taste better or help me swallow it? Like a huge difference. Nuts or oranges doesnt change the taste for me.Suggestions?

mew... don't feel crappy... sometimes you just have to spit... and if for you, it's more times than not, that is really OK.

i have the luxury of knowing my husband for 15 years... so whether or not i swallow, is really beside the point in our relationship now...

there are a lot of reasons why people can and can't swallow... people have different body chemistry... sometimes, just becuase, your stomach may be "weaker" than others...
like suivko said above, sometimes if it hits the back of your throat too hard, it can set off a gag reflex and no matter how much you want to... swallowing is not an option...

if you want to try other options that make you feel "less bad"... try being playful when you spit.
i have a girlfriend who simply CANNOT swallow... like you, she said she would nearly hurl everytime she tried to.
now... she spits her mouthful into her husbands bellybutton when all finished... then she kisses her way up his tummy and chest until she reaches his lips...
he loves it... and is not offended AT ALL!

the key here is... whatever works for you and your partner is what is best... don't let anyone else's preconceived idea's of what "should be" dictate how you feel...

:)

~ springrain

Awww!Thats so sweet Springrain:) THanks a lot. That really makes me feel a ton better. Though, my bf doesnt mind that I spit, but if i were to do that bellybutton well, hed freak. I mean he cant kiss me after i gave him a bj, so I doubt he'll let me do that. Though its a really good idea!

Hmm, well, I'm a spitter.....cum physically makes me ill....I don't mind having it on me, in me, in my mouth, whatever....but I swallow that, and I'm sick for the day....

Who knows....maybe it's all in my head....

m

:) thanks... that made ME feel good...


*laughing*... what is this with men? any of you other ladies have men not want to kiss you after you've gone down on him? I'll bet most of them think nothing of kissing you after they've gone down *snicker*.

as for my husband and i... neither of us care... it's all part of the whole love making process... we've shared so much spit, sweat, cum and God knows what else by the time we're done *laugh*... it seems almost silly to worry about that stuff...

anyone else come across this?

I personally don't like the way I taste, but It still turns me on to think it is all over his lips when he kisses me. I think the same goes for him, but he doesn't seem to mind either. However the one thing we are staying away from is "snowballing" where instead of spitting or swallowing, you just give it back in a kiss. His whole logic is that if his body wanted to get rid of it that forcefully, he doesn't need it all back ;). Anyways I think it would kinda freak ME out if we were to do that too. Have any of you done or heard about snowballing?

i've never heard of snowballing before your post... but i would tend to agree with you... if the body is forcefully expelling it for a reason... then logic says it shouldn't be RE-inserted *chuckle*

LOL, Well Im glad you liked my comment Springrain.
Yeah Ive heard of snowballing, but yeah...I..No. I couldnt ever no no no.lol yuck.
I wouldnt mind if he kissed me after he went down on me. But as long as I drink or eat something after I kiss him, hes ok with it.
Lots of guys are grossed out about it..even my x was the same.

OOps and another thing...Ive had cum on me once and that was gross..I cant have that stuff on my face,hair,body whatever.aside from in a condom or mouth...Im very much a clean freak and even having like whipcream remnants on my body and sleeping in bed gives me the ickys...never again lol.

I think Cum is fantastic. One of the reasons I don't swallow it most of the time is that I like it on me. I like to get messy!!
I haven't come across a man so far who was unsatisfied by this technique.
Messy sex to me is great sex.

Nikki:

Me neither, but it is hard to find a man who doesn't blush when they see a drop of blood on the sheet. It is really tragical and ironic that atleast for me the most horniest part of the month when my hormones scream for seeeeeex is the most messiest.

My bf doenst mind at all when im on my period. He's emberassed for me to tell me hes got blood all over his condom..and he so cute..when he wants lovings he says"would you rather have a Mike* tampon instead?" Aww!hes so cute

*names have been changed to protect the identity of the people.

HUH??

I was talking about CUM being messy not having my period during sex.

Swallow. I'm in a long-term relationship - intimacy 12 years, married 9, so we've enchanged pretty much all the body fluids. I think a guy likes it when his cum is swallowed, but obviously there are lots of other variations - with plenty of great examples here at TFP.

Swallowing is more practical, tho' the texture is somewhat like raw egg whites. It's fun to swallow and kiss my man. And it's a great way to share. :)

Edited cuz I can't freakin' spell!

I don't even get to that point anymore...the first time I went down on my boyfriend, I decided I'd swallow, and I just about threw up. Poor guy, but I'll still go down on him, I'll just leap on top of him when he gets close.

The thought of even the smell, taste, or texture makes me gag. :(

Also some men just "taste" better then others.

I do both ... I spit more than I swallow ... My husband LOVES eating red meat and it makes his cum taste really salty and cloroxy. When its like that I HAVE to spit or I'm gonna get sick. But if he has been on a veggie/fruit diet for a week or so I love to swallow. It tastes good then! I also love his cum on me.

I recall a thread in Usenet where some vegetarist man argued his diet made his semen taste better. Guess there are less practical reasons in this world for going veggie. :) I never took that one seriously. Hmm... *evil grin*

I think I have the same issue as blueskies with the swallowing, my boyfriend hates all fruits and veggies so his cum almost always tastes chemical and I love making him cum but it doesn't hurt his feelings that I go spit it out. I also hate the texture of cum in my mouth it's like having a gigantic phlegm gob, and I don't know about you ladies but I don't like swallowing huge gobs of phlegm. Mucus makes me gag. For the record I do love giving my lover head I just don't enjoy the end product as much as the rest of you.

All men taste different. I'll swallow for the man I'm in love with... because it's a huge turn on for both of us and I seem to like the taste. Used to be a spitter back in my wild rock n' roller days! Ideally I do prefer a hot pussy full of spoo the most.

(the secret is to have him blow at the back of your throat and swallow fast. No contact with air makes the mouthful taste better.)

Ummmm, swallow. Because it just seems like the right thing to do, and I like it, and he likes it......but there are some exceptions. Like if you're using your hand near your mouth at the same time.....but then you just let it get all messy and slick between your fingers and stuff, that can be nice, too......can't believe I'm saying this, lol.

I have never really considered it. I just swallow. I'm either too into it to notice (or to want to stop) or he's just too deep for me to even worry about taste. Besides which, I _like_ the taste. (He's large enough that it's been quite a point of pride for me to have worked up to being able to take him that deep.) Of course, I have no idea what I'd feel like if it were with someone else. I can't see being intimate with someone I didn't love - it may be different with someone I hadn't grown up with or been married to for 11yrs; and we're each other's firsts as well. If I cared about someone enough to be considering it I'm sure I'd be just as willing to swallow. ;) But then, my friends inform me that I'm weird in that department anyway...

Swallow, for reasons already mentioned several times in this thread.

swallow. Always. :)

i think it's erotic and i like the taste.
nothing like looking into your lover's eyes when you swallow his cum.

sweetpea

Like a few others, it never occured to me not to swallow. The taste isn't anything I crave, but it doesn't bother me. Plus, I hate changing the sheets all the dang time on the king sized bed.

Mine is one, too, that will not under any circumstances allow me to kiss him after I've "had that" in my mouth. He's fanatical about cleaning himself off after, even if I make sure to clean him up, too. At least he quit washing his penis after every sex act. I feel less dirty since he doesn't rush to the sink immediately. I'm not fond of my own taste, but I don't squirm away from his lips going "hmmm mmm... nooo". Funny.

I ................

lol @ Opus!

I have found in my experiences that fixed guys taste better. Don't know what diet has to do with it, but spouse tastes awful, but I swallow anyway.
I'm surprised, Fredweena, that you don't like your own taste. I love mine!! Maybe you need more sugar in your diet!

It all depends on the guy. One guy I know eats a LOT of mexican and very little fruit. His cum is bitter, salty, and very viscous which makes it HARD to swallow. Another guy I know eats lots of fruit and his cum is more thin and watery, and slightly sweet. That I can swallow easily.

That's probably it, Ng. I rarely eat sugar. I'm stepping up the fruit now that Jacksonville has been taken over by fruit stands and open air markets. This is my favorite time of year. I'll check it out in a week or so... if I can ever get the boy off World of Warcraft... *sigh* :lol:

Tehehe...well, I never heared about a guys diet making a difference, but I s'pose it makes sense. My blokie is a veggie too, so that must be why he's yummy ;o)
I've always swallowed. I LOVE it! I can't get enough of it. The look on his face is amazing...I don't think there's anything better.
HOWEVER...there was once, with an ex, that it taste terrible. I'd never experienced that before and it really shocked me. I still swallowed though. It seemed only fair!

I so agree...blehhhhhhhh
I'll have it smeared all over my body, I don;t care, but that stuff aint goin down my throat.

Just do it while he's playing...

:D

I used to swallow, but the taste is just unbearable. I prefer him coming on my chest or stomach or back or...wherever.

Any ideas as to how long before swallowing the diet should be changed? Does it take a day, a week, two weeks, etc., for the change of diet to make a change in taste? I don't mind swallowing, but it usually takes so long, and my jaw gets tired before he gets there.

Also, if he likes kissing you after he's gone down on you, but you don't like your flavor, have him suck on your nipples a little... it really helps to get rid of a lot of the taste. =)

It definitely depends on the situation. However, I don't mind whatsoever swallowing for my hubby! I think it would ruin "the mood" if you would just run to the sink to spit! And a piece of advice for women with men whose cum tastesz awful....citrus fruits baby....mske your man eat a whole lot of them!

C) None of the above.

Semen makes me gag HARD. I'd much rather finish him off some other way.

LOL I've found crawling into his lap (or under the desk!) to be the absolute BEST way to get him back into the RW with me... ;) That's saying something because hubby was actually addicted to DAoC for two years or more, and spent up to 16hrs in a single day playing. It was enough to drive me (and the kids) nuts!

Like so many other, not swallowing really isnt an option IMO.

We also kiss afterwards, whether he's been down on me or vice versa, its a HUGE turn on for me

hmm... it never really occurs to me to spit. i have just always swallowed.
when i am really into some one... i want to completely devour them and take them inside of me as far & as much as possible.
i get really frustrated with the physical limitations, as is.

when a lover vigorously sucks me and eagerly laps up & swallows my juices, i get soooo worked up. nothing turns me on more the a partner who cannot contain their lust for me. i can tell my unbridled lust for them, their body, and the fluid it yields in times of intense pleasure does the same for them. but honestly, it is not the main motivation. i just like it.
although, i am always immensely turned on by the sight of someone else being turned on.
that's why i have persuaded nearly every lover i have ever had to masturbate in front of me. *drool*

Spit or Swallow?
 

the mother of all questions...

I'm seeing someone new, and really hate swallowing!! what is a dignified way around this??

How do some of you handle this?

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Uh...you're either bent over him or on your knees with his cock in your mouth, going at it and you're asking about being dignified? :lol: Perhaps 'polite' might be a better word...so now that I've stopped giggling:
You can swallow and not taste it TOO much if you keep it at the back of your throat-takes practice though. If you don't want to go that route, the best way to avoid swallowing or spitting(which to me is just rude and breaks all momentum), is to just use the BJ as a starting point. Get him good and almost ready then stop doing it.

I'l swallow. It's hot. I hear women complain about the taste but in all honesty only one guy that I have been with had a bad taste. And it was baaaaaaad. I spit because I couldn't bring myself to swallow and then I chugged a Diet Coke to try and get the taste out of my mouth. I don't know what this guy ate but my god he should have come with a warning label. But like I said, most of the time it tastes fine (really doesn't have much of a taste if you ask me) so I don't mind to swallow although I prefer it on me somewhere but that is a post for another thread for another time :)

Point well taken. Yes, polite is a much better word!

I'd swallow. I'd feel like I was disrespecting my guy if I spit everything out. I couldn't imagine how I'd feel if my boyfriend stopped everything he was doing just so that he could spit my juices out...

I swallow unless he wants to release himself on my face, or boobs or somewhere else. I love oral, and have never thought of spitting. As for kissing afterwards, always. We always kiss afterwards, whether it's been him down on me or me down on him...or both! 69 is your friend!

I don't think anyone's mentioned this, so it may be of interest...I read recently that too much alcohol makes a man's cum taste bitter. I know I hated the taste of my x's so much that I would gag when he got 'close'... but my b/f's is sweet and he drinks only on occasion. Doesn't seem to be related to red meat or vegetable/fruit intake. He does eat lots of chocolate! ;)

Oh I would have to say SWALLOW all the way with my man... I love to do it for him... its such a personal thing ~ what better way to tell him you love him than to swallow his love juice? When you think about it, he is essentially doing the same to you when he is going down on you... only in smaller quantities... I enjoy giving this to my man it really brings us closer... :D

My first childs father did that for 4 years, ironically it came up in coversation with my current SO last night and he was amazed that I didn't take it personally. I just saw it as another one of his analistic behaviours.:D

The first bj I ever gave I swallowed and the guy I did it to told all of his mates. It became an insult for about a week (ironically). But girls are much better gossips when it comes to dick size, he didn't have much on offer for quite a while.

That experience didn't put me off, I have never once spat, I love the swallow, for me the job isn't complete if don't.

I swallow. Never occured to me not to, of course, the first time I gave head I only went down once.

I didn't realize it was a repeat motion *blush*

I do now though ;)

Snowball.

If they are rude enough to blow a load after I tell them I dont like the taste, they get to "share".

LOL! :lol: Awesome.

:D If you think thats great you should hear my take on handling requests for anal :lol:

Besides spitting means ya still have to taste it, ick.

Well I'll just repeat what most ladies have already said :lol: - I also swallow and it has never occured to me to spit. Just seems like the natural way to finish the act...

Funny store though - my SO and I had been out at the casino where he'd been downing vodka and red bulls all night and when we got back to the room and proceeded to have sex, I found out that particular drink makes the cum taste VERY sweet - was almost overpowering because I wasn't expecting it. But was enjoyable all the same..... :thumbsup:

i used to be a swallower, but i dont know what happened, now i gag at the taste lol ...

i think i have only ever spat once, becase the guy tasted prety funky, apart from that ive always swalloed, i guess its becase the guys i went out with when i was younger were all older then me and asked me too, so though its that way its done.

Ive have kissed guys a few times and snowballed i dont think a few of the guys appricated it lol.
And ive nver had a problem with clean up, its always seems to get the guys turned on

Swallow? Usually. Spit? Sometimes. But sometimes I don't want him to come in my mouth---but that's because I like TO WATCH IT SQUIRT and see how far it can go.;) Usually when we're someplace (like a hotel) where neither of us has to clean up the mess. My ex-husband (when we hadn't done it for a while) could come by the quart--like pornstar Peter North, but I think even more.
Lindy

Btw, even though I'll swallow, spit, or watch it squirt, I have always hated the idea of the "facial."

I really wish I were a swallower. If there is cum in my mouth, I will swallow, but otherwise, it'll be squirted elsewhere. Usually I use my hand to finish the job. I think I'll have him devour some pineapple juice then see how it goes!

Haha, I haven't done that before.

I'm not the biggest fan of swallowing or giving head for that matter, I don't know, it's not like I think it's gross I just don't get turned on by it. All my previous relationships I hardly ever did, the taste reminds me of saltwater which makes me gag no matter how hard I try not to, along with allowing my sinuses to clear, helpful if you're sick!
Haha, should make him take a mouthful and see how he likes it :-p
Wonder how many guys have done that...

I was going to add, though, that not all guys dislike being snowballed... some like it. I'm happy to oblige, in that case!

And as for anal... Lady Sage, do you mean that if someone asks you for anal, you ask if you can do it to them too? I must say, again, that not all guys mind... in my case, I refused to try anal unless he let me try it on him first, and he obliged. Certainly made me more willing to try it! (And I did learn to enjoy it, now and then.)

Reciprocity is good, when both parties are willing. :)

Oh, in response to the OP: Depends on my mood, the angle of the ejaculation, and his taste at the moment. I probably swallow a little more than half the time (with tons of water/liquids after), and spit out in the sink the other times... he doesn't care, either way. :icare:

Some have, and it's a turn on for them. :)

*puts hand up...I did it once...as a joke :lol:

needless to say. the guy I did it to (who I also bit at a later date) didn't really appreciate it that much...