I think I have the same issue as blueskies with the swallowing, my boyfriend hates all fruits and veggies so his cum almost always tastes chemical and I love making him cum but it doesn't hurt his feelings that I go spit it out. I also hate the texture of cum in my mouth it's like having a gigantic phlegm gob, and I don't know about you ladies but I don't like swallowing huge gobs of phlegm. Mucus makes me gag. For the record I do love giving my lover head I just don't enjoy the end product as much as the rest of you.

All men taste different. I'll swallow for the man I'm in love with... because it's a huge turn on for both of us and I seem to like the taste. Used to be a spitter back in my wild rock n' roller days! Ideally I do prefer a hot pussy full of spoo the most.

(the secret is to have him blow at the back of your throat and swallow fast. No contact with air makes the mouthful taste better.)

Ummmm, swallow. Because it just seems like the right thing to do, and I like it, and he likes it......but there are some exceptions. Like if you're using your hand near your mouth at the same time.....but then you just let it get all messy and slick between your fingers and stuff, that can be nice, too......can't believe I'm saying this, lol.

I have never really considered it. I just swallow. I'm either too into it to notice (or to want to stop) or he's just too deep for me to even worry about taste. Besides which, I _like_ the taste. (He's large enough that it's been quite a point of pride for me to have worked up to being able to take him that deep.) Of course, I have no idea what I'd feel like if it were with someone else. I can't see being intimate with someone I didn't love - it may be different with someone I hadn't grown up with or been married to for 11yrs; and we're each other's firsts as well. If I cared about someone enough to be considering it I'm sure I'd be just as willing to swallow. ;) But then, my friends inform me that I'm weird in that department anyway...

Swallow, for reasons already mentioned several times in this thread.

swallow. Always. :)

i think it's erotic and i like the taste.
nothing like looking into your lover's eyes when you swallow his cum.

sweetpea

Like a few others, it never occured to me not to swallow. The taste isn't anything I crave, but it doesn't bother me. Plus, I hate changing the sheets all the dang time on the king sized bed.

Mine is one, too, that will not under any circumstances allow me to kiss him after I've "had that" in my mouth. He's fanatical about cleaning himself off after, even if I make sure to clean him up, too. At least he quit washing his penis after every sex act. I feel less dirty since he doesn't rush to the sink immediately. I'm not fond of my own taste, but I don't squirm away from his lips going "hmmm mmm... nooo". Funny.

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lol @ Opus!

I have found in my experiences that fixed guys taste better. Don't know what diet has to do with it, but spouse tastes awful, but I swallow anyway.
I'm surprised, Fredweena, that you don't like your own taste. I love mine!! Maybe you need more sugar in your diet!

It all depends on the guy. One guy I know eats a LOT of mexican and very little fruit. His cum is bitter, salty, and very viscous which makes it HARD to swallow. Another guy I know eats lots of fruit and his cum is more thin and watery, and slightly sweet. That I can swallow easily.

That's probably it, Ng. I rarely eat sugar. I'm stepping up the fruit now that Jacksonville has been taken over by fruit stands and open air markets. This is my favorite time of year. I'll check it out in a week or so... if I can ever get the boy off World of Warcraft... *sigh* :lol:

Tehehe...well, I never heared about a guys diet making a difference, but I s'pose it makes sense. My blokie is a veggie too, so that must be why he's yummy ;o)
I've always swallowed. I LOVE it! I can't get enough of it. The look on his face is amazing...I don't think there's anything better.
HOWEVER...there was once, with an ex, that it taste terrible. I'd never experienced that before and it really shocked me. I still swallowed though. It seemed only fair!

I so agree...blehhhhhhhh
I'll have it smeared all over my body, I don;t care, but that stuff aint goin down my throat.

Just do it while he's playing...

:D

I used to swallow, but the taste is just unbearable. I prefer him coming on my chest or stomach or back or...wherever.

Any ideas as to how long before swallowing the diet should be changed? Does it take a day, a week, two weeks, etc., for the change of diet to make a change in taste? I don't mind swallowing, but it usually takes so long, and my jaw gets tired before he gets there.

Also, if he likes kissing you after he's gone down on you, but you don't like your flavor, have him suck on your nipples a little... it really helps to get rid of a lot of the taste. =)

It definitely depends on the situation. However, I don't mind whatsoever swallowing for my hubby! I think it would ruin "the mood" if you would just run to the sink to spit! And a piece of advice for women with men whose cum tastesz awful....citrus fruits baby....mske your man eat a whole lot of them!

C) None of the above.

Semen makes me gag HARD. I'd much rather finish him off some other way.

LOL I've found crawling into his lap (or under the desk!) to be the absolute BEST way to get him back into the RW with me... ;) That's saying something because hubby was actually addicted to DAoC for two years or more, and spent up to 16hrs in a single day playing. It was enough to drive me (and the kids) nuts!

Like so many other, not swallowing really isnt an option IMO.

We also kiss afterwards, whether he's been down on me or vice versa, its a HUGE turn on for me

hmm... it never really occurs to me to spit. i have just always swallowed.
when i am really into some one... i want to completely devour them and take them inside of me as far & as much as possible.
i get really frustrated with the physical limitations, as is.

when a lover vigorously sucks me and eagerly laps up & swallows my juices, i get soooo worked up. nothing turns me on more the a partner who cannot contain their lust for me. i can tell my unbridled lust for them, their body, and the fluid it yields in times of intense pleasure does the same for them. but honestly, it is not the main motivation. i just like it.
although, i am always immensely turned on by the sight of someone else being turned on.
that's why i have persuaded nearly every lover i have ever had to masturbate in front of me. *drool*

Spit or Swallow?
 

the mother of all questions...

I'm seeing someone new, and really hate swallowing!! what is a dignified way around this??

How do some of you handle this?

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Uh...you're either bent over him or on your knees with his cock in your mouth, going at it and you're asking about being dignified? :lol: Perhaps 'polite' might be a better word...so now that I've stopped giggling:
You can swallow and not taste it TOO much if you keep it at the back of your throat-takes practice though. If you don't want to go that route, the best way to avoid swallowing or spitting(which to me is just rude and breaks all momentum), is to just use the BJ as a starting point. Get him good and almost ready then stop doing it.

I'l swallow. It's hot. I hear women complain about the taste but in all honesty only one guy that I have been with had a bad taste. And it was baaaaaaad. I spit because I couldn't bring myself to swallow and then I chugged a Diet Coke to try and get the taste out of my mouth. I don't know what this guy ate but my god he should have come with a warning label. But like I said, most of the time it tastes fine (really doesn't have much of a taste if you ask me) so I don't mind to swallow although I prefer it on me somewhere but that is a post for another thread for another time :)

Point well taken. Yes, polite is a much better word!

I'd swallow. I'd feel like I was disrespecting my guy if I spit everything out. I couldn't imagine how I'd feel if my boyfriend stopped everything he was doing just so that he could spit my juices out...

I swallow unless he wants to release himself on my face, or boobs or somewhere else. I love oral, and have never thought of spitting. As for kissing afterwards, always. We always kiss afterwards, whether it's been him down on me or me down on him...or both! 69 is your friend!

I don't think anyone's mentioned this, so it may be of interest...I read recently that too much alcohol makes a man's cum taste bitter. I know I hated the taste of my x's so much that I would gag when he got 'close'... but my b/f's is sweet and he drinks only on occasion. Doesn't seem to be related to red meat or vegetable/fruit intake. He does eat lots of chocolate! ;)

Oh I would have to say SWALLOW all the way with my man... I love to do it for him... its such a personal thing ~ what better way to tell him you love him than to swallow his love juice? When you think about it, he is essentially doing the same to you when he is going down on you... only in smaller quantities... I enjoy giving this to my man it really brings us closer... :D

My first childs father did that for 4 years, ironically it came up in coversation with my current SO last night and he was amazed that I didn't take it personally. I just saw it as another one of his analistic behaviours.:D

The first bj I ever gave I swallowed and the guy I did it to told all of his mates. It became an insult for about a week (ironically). But girls are much better gossips when it comes to dick size, he didn't have much on offer for quite a while.

That experience didn't put me off, I have never once spat, I love the swallow, for me the job isn't complete if don't.

I swallow. Never occured to me not to, of course, the first time I gave head I only went down once.

I didn't realize it was a repeat motion *blush*

I do now though ;)

Snowball.

If they are rude enough to blow a load after I tell them I dont like the taste, they get to "share".

LOL! :lol: Awesome.

:D If you think thats great you should hear my take on handling requests for anal :lol:

Besides spitting means ya still have to taste it, ick.

Well I'll just repeat what most ladies have already said :lol: - I also swallow and it has never occured to me to spit. Just seems like the natural way to finish the act...

Funny store though - my SO and I had been out at the casino where he'd been downing vodka and red bulls all night and when we got back to the room and proceeded to have sex, I found out that particular drink makes the cum taste VERY sweet - was almost overpowering because I wasn't expecting it. But was enjoyable all the same..... :thumbsup:

i used to be a swallower, but i dont know what happened, now i gag at the taste lol ...

i think i have only ever spat once, becase the guy tasted prety funky, apart from that ive always swalloed, i guess its becase the guys i went out with when i was younger were all older then me and asked me too, so though its that way its done.

Ive have kissed guys a few times and snowballed i dont think a few of the guys appricated it lol.
And ive nver had a problem with clean up, its always seems to get the guys turned on

Swallow? Usually. Spit? Sometimes. But sometimes I don't want him to come in my mouth---but that's because I like TO WATCH IT SQUIRT and see how far it can go.;) Usually when we're someplace (like a hotel) where neither of us has to clean up the mess. My ex-husband (when we hadn't done it for a while) could come by the quart--like pornstar Peter North, but I think even more.
Lindy

Btw, even though I'll swallow, spit, or watch it squirt, I have always hated the idea of the "facial."

I really wish I were a swallower. If there is cum in my mouth, I will swallow, but otherwise, it'll be squirted elsewhere. Usually I use my hand to finish the job. I think I'll have him devour some pineapple juice then see how it goes!