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Meridae'n · 12-10-2003, 02:24 PM

Maybe I'm more of a prude than I give myself credit for, but to me this is just plain wrong...

A friend of mine told me last night that her parents sleep in the nude. Nothing wrong with that, more power to them. But she said she has absolutely no quarms in jumping into bed with them and cuddling up to either of them. Well and good if she was, say, 5... but she's 26!

She couldn't believe I thought that was a bit suss, so the jury is still out.

I thought i'd put it to TFP and see if I was with the majority or not...

Cynthetiq · 12-10-2003, 02:41 PM

ummm what's suss?

lady · 12-10-2003, 02:42 PM

I'm assuming 'suss' means suspect or something along the lines of "EWWW wtf whyyyyyyy"

Parents sleeping nude = fine.

Parents in the nude near me = soooo not fine

and snuggling with nude parents??? *faints*

Yes I am a product of my puritan upbringing.

dragon2fire · 12-10-2003, 02:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cynthetiq
ummm what's suss?

short fo supesct i think

tritium · 12-10-2003, 02:48 PM

nasty. 'nuf said

Nachtschleicher · 12-10-2003, 03:14 PM

Well, in my opinion, that's pretty messed up. Gotta wonder if there's something more going on than just "cuddling up". :S Pretty messed up...

The_Dude · 12-10-2003, 03:26 PM

that's fuxed up all right.

lurkette · 12-10-2003, 03:42 PM

Boundaries, people, boundaries!

*shudders*

Gotta agree, this is a bit weird for a 26-year-old.

Averett · 12-10-2003, 03:42 PM

Ewww Ewww Ewwww!!!

*waits for the people to come on here and say that we're all prudes*

ratbastid · 12-10-2003, 03:45 PM

Send her to our house. lurkette and I will play mommy and daddy.

Sorry.

Jonsgirl · 12-10-2003, 03:55 PM

Ummmm....you said she was 26??? Yeah, that's a little wrong.

Question, though: Does she sleep nude when she cuddles with them?

sixate · 12-10-2003, 04:06 PM

It's completely fucked up.
I sleep in the nude, but if I ever have kids they'll be nowhere near me when I'm in bed. I find it even more fucked up that she's 26. I'm 26 and I would rather kill myself than jump in bed with either one of my parents.... And that's if everyone's wearing clothes.

water_boy1999 · 12-10-2003, 04:11 PM

ugh! Parents can sleep in the nude, but I just don't want to know. No visuals, no talk, nada!

As for your friend....yeah, she's a hair shy of a furball.

Cycler · 12-10-2003, 04:47 PM

Yeah that is not enough separation from the old parental units.

krwlz · 12-10-2003, 04:50 PM

While I would never do that... god no, thats just gross... I dont have any problem with someone else doing it.

feelgood · 12-10-2003, 04:57 PM

Must be incest kind of thing...just wrong man...just plain wrong...

ninety09 · 12-10-2003, 05:05 PM

Sick. Even if she was 5, I'd still think that's sick.

txlovely · 12-10-2003, 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by krwlz
While I would never do that... god no, thats just gross... I dont have any problem with someone else doing it.

I agree with krwlz. Seeing parents nude should be no big deal, but getting in bed with them nude wouldn't seem "normal" for most, me included. Now people from other cultures, especially Europeans, don't have the hang-ups many Americans do about their bodies and their sexuality. Take for instance I've heard of women breastfeeding their children until they are five or six years old. Now that is a little over the top. Who really wants their kid to have fond memories of nipple-sucking?

Meridae'n · 12-10-2003, 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by Jonsgirl
Question, though: Does she sleep nude when she cuddles with them?

Negative. It's just when she goes around there early and they're still in bed. There's no boundaries crossed, just gives them a cuddle.

In this reporter's opinion... still wrong!

End User · 12-10-2003, 05:59 PM

Definately Sus. It's one thing to be close to your parents, it's another thing to be close to them when they're nude.

sailor · 12-10-2003, 06:00 PM

No thanks, Ill pass. I love my parents, but thats taking it a bit far.

santafe5000 · 12-10-2003, 06:08 PM

I think i have to agree with the majority here who think something is not quite right here. While there are nudist/naturalist, who feel there is nothing wrong with other family members seeing them aunatural, Children sleeping with parents in the nude carries conatations of a sexual nature. Isn't this what the M. Jackson case is sort of like. There is an age thing here also. Her being 26 strikes me as a little funny. You would think she would have grown out of the habit of jumping into bed to snuggle with parents, nude or not.

Malted · 12-10-2003, 06:15 PM

My parents sleep in the nude, and as kids my brothers and I would jump into their bed some mornings to cuddle. My brothers and I did wear pajamas, however. Looking back at this experience, what we did doesn't seem abnormal or creepy to me.

The situation being posted seems uncomfortable to me for two reasons:
1. Skin-skin contact (versus our skin-pajama contact)
2. Age of the woman involved (my brothers and I stopped when we hit puberty)

NetterButter · 12-10-2003, 06:35 PM

Why is she or would she cuddle with her parents at that age? i don't get it. I think I stopped cuddling with my folks when i was 10, at the max.

By the way, no one ever answered what the heck "sus" means.

Meridae'n · 12-10-2003, 08:03 PM

Suspect! Must be an aussie thing...

There is no skin-skin contact Malted, it was all skin-pyjama (to my knowledge)

bundy · 12-10-2003, 08:28 PM

haha, suss is such a great word.

and yes, mate, thats pretty suss if you ask me.
i´m sure nothing bads really going on there, but all the same, thats suss.

wflol · 12-11-2003, 01:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by lady
I'm assuming 'suss' means suspect or something along the lines of "EWWW wtf whyyyyyyy"

Parents sleeping nude = fine.

Parents in the nude near me = soooo not fine

and snuggling with nude parents??? *faints*

Yes I am a product of my puritan upbringing.

agreed

wannabenakid247 · 12-11-2003, 06:25 AM

That is not right!

absorbentishe · 12-11-2003, 07:14 AM

If my wife and I have had sex, and sleep in the nude and one of the kids comes to our room, the first thing we do is quickly get dressed. Sleeping in the nude is fine, sleeping in the nude with children in bed, not fine. My $.02.

skysooner · 12-11-2003, 07:24 AM

Yeah, this is a bit edgy at age 26.

lightning · 12-11-2003, 07:27 AM

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Originally posted by ninety09
Sick. Even if she was 5, I'd still think that's sick.

If she was 5 it'd be worse

Prince · 12-11-2003, 08:16 AM

I dunno. Something about the thought of cuddling up to my naked dad just doesn't feel right.

Geez and I thought I was open-minded.

Wulf_Hunter · 12-11-2003, 08:22 AM

No way sould I cuddle my parents in the nude.......Yikes!!

jbrooks544 · 12-11-2003, 10:58 AM

I think all this fear of nakedness is pretty odd. If a family is used to being nude some of the time and shame is absent from body image, then there need not be anything odd about not having clothes on.

Hello people... it is not important whether you have a piece of fabric covering certain parts of your anatomy. I'm not some nudist and I wan't raised in some kind of naked house or anything. I'm just trying to point out that this is a relic of victorian prudishness and that it is nonsensical and random. All you uptight folks out there probably make fun of the muslims for wearing head scarves, etc. - but you don't realize that your odd beliefs and oddities are really not any different.

Nakedness does not HAVE to mean anything. It doesn't HAVE to be important. If you are raised in a house where being nude isn't made shameful then it is normal and no different than not being nude. sheesh...

WhoaitsZ · 12-11-2003, 12:19 PM

very odd. i see nothing wrong or sick, though.

cowudders14 · 12-20-2003, 07:57 AM

I see my parents nude sometimes - they don't care and I don't care. I'm married so I've "seen it all before" in their opinion. They are my parents - there is no remote possibility that I will find them sexually attractive, so what's the big deal?
But I would never even contemplate getting into bed with them. Very not right!

present_future · 12-20-2003, 10:43 PM

I think that that's kind of creepy. I would never even want to get in bed with my naked parents, much less "cuddle" with them.

omega2K4 · 12-20-2003, 11:17 PM

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A bit suss.	53	86.89%
Perfectly fine.	8	13.11%
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12-10-2003, 02:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
Meridae'n Loose Cunt Location: North Bondi RSL	Is it just me? Maybe I'm more of a prude than I give myself credit for, but to me this is just plain wrong... A friend of mine told me last night that her parents sleep in the nude. Nothing wrong with that, more power to them. But she said she has absolutely no quarms in jumping into bed with them and cuddling up to either of them. Well and good if she was, say, 5... but she's 26! She couldn't believe I thought that was a bit suss, so the jury is still out. I thought i'd put it to TFP and see if I was with the majority or not... __________________ What's easier to believe: that a guy was born without sex in the manner of several Greek demigods and grew up to be able to transmute liquids and alter his body density yet couldn't escape government execution, or that three freemasons in a vehicle made with aluminum foil in an era before digital technology escaped our atmosphere, landing on the moon, broadcasted from there, and then flew back without burning up?

12-10-2003, 02:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Location: Manhattan, NY	ummm what's suss? __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

12-10-2003, 02:42 PM	#3 (permalink)
lady Addict Location: Vancouver, BC	I'm assuming 'suss' means suspect or something along the lines of "EWWW wtf whyyyyyyy" Parents sleeping nude = fine. Parents in the nude near me = soooo not fine and snuggling with nude parents??? faints Yes I am a product of my puritan upbringing. __________________ Our doubts are traitors, And make us lose the good we oft might win By fearing to attempt.

12-10-2003, 02:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
tritium Professor of Drinkology	nasty. 'nuf said __________________ Blah.

12-10-2003, 03:14 PM	#6 (permalink)
Nachtschleicher Tilted	Well, in my opinion, that's pretty messed up. Gotta wonder if there's something more going on than just "cuddling up". :S Pretty messed up...

12-10-2003, 03:26 PM	#7 (permalink)
The_Dude The GrandDaddy of them all! Location: Austin, TX	that's fuxed up all right. __________________ "Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." - Darrel K Royal

12-10-2003, 03:42 PM	#8 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Boundaries, people, boundaries! shudders Gotta agree, this is a bit weird for a 26-year-old. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

12-10-2003, 03:42 PM	#9 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Ewww Ewww Ewwww!!! waits for the people to come on here and say that we're all prudes __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

12-10-2003, 03:45 PM	#10 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Send her to our house. lurkette and I will play mommy and daddy. Sorry.

12-10-2003, 03:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
Jonsgirl Semi-Atomic Location: Home.	Ummmm....you said she was 26??? Yeah, that's a little wrong. Question, though: Does she sleep nude when she cuddles with them? __________________ Someday, someone will best me. But it won't be today, and it won't be you.

12-10-2003, 04:06 PM	#12 (permalink)
sixate Registered User Location: Somewhere in Ohio	It's completely fucked up. I sleep in the nude, but if I ever have kids they'll be nowhere near me when I'm in bed. I find it even more fucked up that she's 26. I'm 26 and I would rather kill myself than jump in bed with either one of my parents.... And that's if everyone's wearing clothes.

12-10-2003, 04:11 PM	#13 (permalink)
water_boy1999 Fly em straight! Location: Above and Beyond	ugh! Parents can sleep in the nude, but I just don't want to know. No visuals, no talk, nada! As for your friend....yeah, she's a hair shy of a furball. __________________ Doh!!!! -Homer Simpson

12-10-2003, 04:47 PM	#14 (permalink)
Cycler Float on.... Alright Location: Where the wind comes sweeping down the plains, i.e. Oklahoma	Yeah that is not enough separation from the old parental units. __________________ "I'm not even supposed to be here today." "I assure you we're open."

12-10-2003, 04:50 PM	#15 (permalink)
krwlz Fledgling Dead Head Location: Clarkson U.	While I would never do that... god no, thats just gross... I dont have any problem with someone else doing it.

12-10-2003, 04:57 PM	#16 (permalink)
feelgood Free Mars! Location: I dunno, there's white people around me saying "eh" all the time	Must be incest kind of thing...just wrong man...just plain wrong... __________________ Looking out the window, that's an act of war. Staring at my shoes, that's an act of war. Committing an act of war? Oh you better believe that's an act of war

12-10-2003, 05:05 PM	#17 (permalink)
ninety09 Flavour of the Weak Location: Canada	Sick. Even if she was 5, I'd still think that's sick.

12-10-2003, 05:59 PM	#20 (permalink)
End User Insane Location: Sydney, Australia	Definately Sus. It's one thing to be close to your parents, it's another thing to be close to them when they're nude. __________________ People who have no faults are terrible!

12-10-2003, 06:00 PM	#21 (permalink)
sailor beauty in the breakdown Location: Chapel Hill, NC	No thanks, Ill pass. I love my parents, but thats taking it a bit far. __________________ "Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws." --Plato

12-10-2003, 06:08 PM	#22 (permalink)
santafe5000 EVIL! Location: Southwest of nowhere	I think i have to agree with the majority here who think something is not quite right here. While there are nudist/naturalist, who feel there is nothing wrong with other family members seeing them aunatural, Children sleeping with parents in the nude carries conatations of a sexual nature. Isn't this what the M. Jackson case is sort of like. There is an age thing here also. Her being 26 strikes me as a little funny. You would think she would have grown out of the habit of jumping into bed to snuggle with parents, nude or not. __________________ When all else fails, QUIT.

12-10-2003, 06:15 PM	#23 (permalink)
Malted Upright	My parents sleep in the nude, and as kids my brothers and I would jump into their bed some mornings to cuddle. My brothers and I did wear pajamas, however. Looking back at this experience, what we did doesn't seem abnormal or creepy to me. The situation being posted seems uncomfortable to me for two reasons: 1. Skin-skin contact (versus our skin-pajama contact) 2. Age of the woman involved (my brothers and I stopped when we hit puberty)

12-10-2003, 06:35 PM	#24 (permalink)
NetterButter Crazy Location: in a hole, ventura county,cali	Why is she or would she cuddle with her parents at that age? i don't get it. I think I stopped cuddling with my folks when i was 10, at the max. By the way, no one ever answered what the heck "sus" means. __________________ www.holeinthe.net

12-10-2003, 08:03 PM	#25 (permalink)
Meridae'n Loose Cunt Location: North Bondi RSL	Suspect! Must be an aussie thing... There is no skin-skin contact Malted, it was all skin-pyjama (to my knowledge) __________________ What's easier to believe: that a guy was born without sex in the manner of several Greek demigods and grew up to be able to transmute liquids and alter his body density yet couldn't escape government execution, or that three freemasons in a vehicle made with aluminum foil in an era before digital technology escaped our atmosphere, landing on the moon, broadcasted from there, and then flew back without burning up?

12-10-2003, 08:28 PM	#26 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	haha, suss is such a great word. and yes, mate, thats pretty suss if you ask me. i´m sure nothing bads really going on there, but all the same, thats suss. __________________ Ohayo!!!

12-11-2003, 06:25 AM	#28 (permalink)
wannabenakid247 Registered User Location: Wales, UK	That is not right!

12-11-2003, 07:14 AM	#29 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	If my wife and I have had sex, and sleep in the nude and one of the kids comes to our room, the first thing we do is quickly get dressed. Sleeping in the nude is fine, sleeping in the nude with children in bed, not fine. My $.02.

12-11-2003, 07:24 AM	#30 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Yeah, this is a bit edgy at age 26.

12-11-2003, 08:16 AM	#32 (permalink)
Prince /nɑndəsˈkrɪpt/ Location: LV-426	I dunno. Something about the thought of cuddling up to my naked dad just doesn't feel right. Geez and I thought I was open-minded. __________________ Who is John Galt?

12-11-2003, 08:22 AM	#33 (permalink)
Wulf_Hunter Crazy	No way sould I cuddle my parents in the nude.......Yikes!!

12-11-2003, 10:58 AM	#34 (permalink)
jbrooks544 Addict	I think all this fear of nakedness is pretty odd. If a family is used to being nude some of the time and shame is absent from body image, then there need not be anything odd about not having clothes on. Hello people... it is not important whether you have a piece of fabric covering certain parts of your anatomy. I'm not some nudist and I wan't raised in some kind of naked house or anything. I'm just trying to point out that this is a relic of victorian prudishness and that it is nonsensical and random. All you uptight folks out there probably make fun of the muslims for wearing head scarves, etc. - but you don't realize that your odd beliefs and oddities are really not any different. Nakedness does not HAVE to mean anything. It doesn't HAVE to be important. If you are raised in a house where being nude isn't made shameful then it is normal and no different than not being nude. sheesh...

12-11-2003, 12:19 PM	#35 (permalink)
WhoaitsZ Crazy Location: right behind you...	very odd. i see nothing wrong or sick, though.

12-20-2003, 07:57 AM	#36 (permalink)
cowudders14 Bringer of good Moos... Location: Midlands, UK	I see my parents nude sometimes - they don't care and I don't care. I'm married so I've "seen it all before" in their opinion. They are my parents - there is no remote possibility that I will find them sexually attractive, so what's the big deal? But I would never even contemplate getting into bed with them. Very not right! __________________ Moo! I'm mooey!

12-20-2003, 10:43 PM	#37 (permalink)
present_future Take my hand Location: Everywhere, but nowhere	I think that that's kind of creepy. I would never even want to get in bed with my naked parents, much less "cuddle" with them. __________________ The only thing I'll ever ask of you... you gotta promise not to stop when I say when.

12-20-2003, 11:17 PM	#38 (permalink)
omega2K4 Natalie Portman is sexy. Location: The Outer Rim	UGH! __________________ "While the State exists there can be no freedom. When there is freedom there will be no State." - Vladimir Ilyich Lenin "Reason has always existed, but not always in a reasonable form."- Karl Marx