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The_Dude 04-19-2003 07:54 AM

Is being called a nerd a good thing?
 
I'm talking high school.

I advanced to the state level in UIL academics and there was an article in the school newspaper title 'UIL nerds advance to state'

and it was written by another student who is involved in UIL and she made it sound good to be a nerd.

it listed the names of people going to state and i was there.

anyway, this is NOT bothering me, but i was just wondering.


our school's UIL team is not a bunch of dorks, (there are some), but some of us are pretty cool people.


anyway, i was wondering..


Would you want to be called a nerd in high school?

evang3lion 04-19-2003 07:58 AM

As weird and strange as it my sound, I take great pride in considering myself I nerd since I'm a big fan of anime and gaming.

Daval 04-19-2003 08:00 AM

hell, look at most of the powerful people in the technology world nowadays, they were all nerds and most of them still consider themselves nerds.

Spungfoo 04-19-2003 08:14 AM

The definition and connotation of "nerd" and"geek" has definitely changed in the past 10 or so years. When I was in high school, and that was only 6-7 years ago, being a nerd was a social stigma. Now it's almost cool to be a nerd or geek. Although I'd say "dork" holds the same weight it did when I was younger.

genka 04-19-2003 08:16 AM

Nerd is okey, but geek is generaly thought of as a more deragatory term. Like someone who is akward is a geek, nerds are stabler in their nerdom.

Peetster 04-19-2003 08:18 AM

It's a big cycle. I was a "nerd" in high school in the late 70's, we all laughed about it in a "wild and crazy guys" SNL kinda way.

BoCo 04-19-2003 08:19 AM

Being a nerd is a bad thing, but being a geek is cool!

Spanky Johnson 04-19-2003 08:58 AM

I prefer to be called a geek. To me, a geek is a nerd with social skills.

forseti-6 04-19-2003 09:02 AM

Nerd, Geek what difference does it make. I read a great article a while back in the New York Times called "what's in a name?" I think you just define what it means. Meaning if you think nerd is a bad label, it will be. It doesn't have to be though. I was labeled a so called nerd in high school, and it never hurt my social status. At times it's even enhanced it. Just realize this, "nerds" run big business, and ultimately the economy. Those who despise nerds are probably just jealous they've got the iq of a fetal pig.

Wile E 04-19-2003 09:46 AM

Call it whatever you want. Geek, nerd, whatever. Its all about how YOU percieve it. You should be proud of your geekdom, nerdiness or whatever you want to call it.

Actually forseti said it well enough.

Lebell 04-19-2003 10:16 AM

Bill Gates is a nerd and current Master Of The Universe.

You figure it out.

World's King 04-19-2003 10:22 AM

I was called a nerd on a daily basis in high school.

I loved it. The kids with the best grades had all the say at my school. I was King back then too.

johnnysmokes 04-19-2003 10:24 AM

im not a nerd! i just know a lot... j/k

im proud of being called a nerd. its better than being called a dumbass or an idiot :P

MyFakeAccount 04-19-2003 10:31 AM

I tell everyone, nerd = Money!

Mad_Gecko 04-19-2003 11:12 AM

Good ?,

Wasn't a nerd, but knew a few. They is makin' the $$$ now. For us in the dayz it was the nerds who did comp classes an the like. I now keep in touch with several of them who are like workin' for major corp. and earnin' bling.
Don't know if its a stigma nowadays (bit old) but I do know my corp. and a few others are still lookin' for rocket scientists (who were the nerds) and basically askin' 'em to name their price.
They put the work in they deserve the credits.

The_Dude 04-19-2003 11:14 AM

yeah, i'm feeling good being called a nerd now.

GakFace 04-19-2003 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by evang3lion
As weird and strange as it my sound, I take great pride in considering myself I nerd since I'm a big fan of anime and gaming.
Exactly! This is one of the terms. Gaming and Anime. And usually also Computers. From that i'm a Gaming Geek... I'm Nerd.. although I associate Nerd with math... and so I say i USED to be a nerd, but something went wrong. :D Even if people tried to make fun of us, they realize we're the ones who do well in life. And personally I'd rather have a weird name in highschool compared to the rest of my life.

Geek doesn't equal no social life or boring. Just means you're intelligent and usually like gaming and anime.

Gatecrasher 04-19-2003 12:37 PM

often, if a non-nerd calls you a nerd, it is meant to be negative... although as some people describe above... "nerd/geek" could describe a very broad culture. still, outsiders might not see that.

and as proud and happy as nerds may be with themselves, there is some truth to many of them lacking some social skills.

Crimson 04-19-2003 01:25 PM

Nerd is an insult in my book

I am a geek and proud of it - a nerd is someone less social and more closed in on himself

spectre 04-19-2003 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BoCo
Being a nerd is a bad thing, but being a geek is cool!
I couldn't have said that better myself.

Be nice to nerds, they'll be your boss someday. :D

I'm a geek, but who really gives a shit what anyone calls you?

bundy 04-19-2003 03:48 PM

exactly spec, who gives a shit what someone calls you, really?
its up to you.

Janie 04-19-2003 03:57 PM

i am a nerd in probably every definition of the word. i read science magazines, i'm interested in quantum physics, i get almost excited when i encounter new concepts and theories in mathematics.

the way i see it, i have something called curiosity, and if being curious means having the social label of nerd or geek attached to your backside, then so be it.

04-19-2003 04:06 PM

i want to start using my pocket protector again and the wife isn't having it...IMHO it's a convenient way to change stuff that goes into your pockets to other shirts...

geek/nerd.... intellecutal type... doesn't matter...

Bob Biter 04-19-2003 04:13 PM

As was said before, being called anerd/geek in high school doesn't have the same impact now than 10 years ago. I was called a nerd because of my grades and complete disinterest toward varsity activities. As I as started college, being a nerd/geek suddenly opened up a lot of doors, and I'm not just talking academically. It seems that girls change their taste in guys at some point, so the HS jock gets the shaft, while yours truly gets dates.

I love that.

silverback 04-19-2003 05:04 PM

nerds may not rule the world but they make more money than the average person

snowy 04-19-2003 05:05 PM

It totally depends on your definition of the words geek, nerd and dork. Geek, as it was defined by my friends and I, means you have a great love for something that is not exactly embraced by society: i.e. band geek, choir geek, drama geek, art geek. Usually associated with creative hobbies/occupations/activities. Nerd is someone who is preoccupied with things of an academic nature, books, computers, studying, the like. For instance, I am a nerd because I enjoy reading books such as Thomas More's Utopia. Nerds might also be preoccupied by Star Trek, but that can also fall into geekiness. Dork, however, is derogatory. Usually used in the sense that someone is an idiot or has committed a social gaffe.

So, for instance, I was a choir geek in high school, but now that I'm in college I'm a complete nerd who spends all her time at the library. My friends say I'm a dork though because I'm an incredible klutz.

So, by these definitions--being a nerd is definitely a good thing!

Joe Fnord 04-19-2003 05:08 PM

The New Hacker's Dictionary says:
<quote>
nerd n. 1. [mainstream slang] Pejorative applied to anyone with an above-average IQ and few gifts at small talk and ordinary social rituals.
</quote>
Just about sums it up, no?

Grondar 04-19-2003 05:28 PM

It all depends...

A girl I know used to call me a dork, but it was in a very friendly manner, and usually was said after one of my lame jokes/comments.

I didn't mind this at all, and knew it was just a way of her to say "something" in response to a joke. It wasn't intended to be hurtful and I didn't take it as so.

Even when intended to be hurtful, the person calling you a nerd is at least acknowledging that they think you are smarter than they are. :)

phoenix1002 04-19-2003 05:40 PM

For some reason, at my HS, the 'nerds' and 'geeks' more or less merged into the 'goths'. I mean, there were 'band geeks' and that definition, but the "smart but social outcast" group was the goths. Looking back, I realize just how cliquey sp? my HS was... in college it doesn't really matter, as long as you're not an ass. Although there are still some jocks in denial... they still seem to think they're hot shit, but its pretty funny watching them, cause they don't "own the school" anymore. Actually, the artsy people outnumber the jocks. I guess they could be considered the nerds and geeks in high school, only older, and they are the ones who will probably succeed in life.

rogue49 04-19-2003 05:49 PM

Being a nerd, pays cash.
Being a nerd, brings insight.

Being called a nerd in High School is usually done by those
who are intimidated by intelligence
and care about face-values only.

Be yourself, and try to improve yourself for you own value.
Sooner or later, you and the world will come in sync.

Jesus Pimp 04-19-2003 06:13 PM

From my experience..

Nerds - those who study all the time, get straight As, have no social life or common sense, are very boring, have a hard time getting laid.

Geeks - Like onesnowyowl said, those who have a great love for something that is not exactly embraced by society, a little more social than nerds but not much, have a higher chance of getting laid.

MSD 04-19-2003 07:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Joe Fnord
The New Hacker's Dictionary says:
<quote>
nerd n. 1. [mainstream slang] Pejorative applied to anyone with an above-average IQ and few gifts at small talk and ordinary social rituals.
</quote>
Just about sums it up, no?

What if i fit the first criterion, but not the the other two?

phoenix1002 04-19-2003 07:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrSelfDestruct
What if i fit the first criterion, but not the the other two?
Then you're just a dork :p

i8one2 04-19-2003 07:27 PM

Being a called a NERd is kewl, but being called "SIR" is better!

GakFace 04-19-2003 07:40 PM

sure "geek" and "nerd" usually means they lack social skills.. but thats the OLD meaning. it no longer means that. Besides i know some people that dont' fit any either category and lack the social Skills. Geeks are always gaming with each other.. thus the social skills are actually raised... as they are.... WITH PEOPLE.. ;)

I play RPGS.. and i'll admit there are some people that still carry, "The LooK" which is that physical attire that people see and give everyone else a bad name. I don't look like that, and i bet many do not. We're cool, we have social skills. Heck i'm a Geek, yet i spend tons of time talking to friends online all the time. If I didn't have social skills.. then i wouldn't well.. be able to talk to so many people daily.

The_Dude 04-19-2003 07:55 PM

here's my understanding now


nerd : an overall smart person, in almost all aspects well above average.

geek: judged mainly on looks, and the stuff they say. i cant exactly describe it though.

aarchaon 03-19-2004 04:36 AM

I couldn't care less to be honest.

Averett 03-19-2004 07:06 AM

aarchaon, what's the deal with digging up old threads for no reason what so ever?

Redjake 03-19-2004 07:49 AM

I was a proud nerd in high school. I don't look like one, but I definitely had the other attributes :)

bltzkriegmcanon 03-19-2004 08:20 AM

Roger that, I was a nerd in high school, but not because of appearance or anything like that, but I did enough computer-related shit to be called a nerd. And I carry much pride in that title.


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