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snowace56 · 06-02-2003, 02:33 PM

Yea its possible, but I wouldn't resist too much...unless she was ugly or had STDs

riskybiz · 06-02-2003, 02:48 PM

Yes it CAN and HAS happened. During the mid-1970's I spent a year as a student at Brigham Young University in Provo, UT. BYU is known locally as the 'mormon marriage factory' as it is a place where young mormons find and marry other young mormons. Mormons absolutly do not believe in premarital sex however and though it occurrs there exists at BYU a significant percentage of male and female students who intentionally 'save' their virginity for their future spouse.

Young mormon males often spend 2 years in service to their church on a 'mission' where they spend their time attempting non-mormons to become mormons. During this 2 year period these young men are prohibited from even touching a woman much less caressing, kissing or making love. As you might imagine when these missionaries return home and enroll at BYU they are mighty HORNEY. They often get engaged and married within months of returning from their missions.

Back to my original point. While I was enrolled at BYU the local paper ran a story of a recently returned missionary who somehow allowed a girl to tie him to a bed, got him sufficiently undressed, manipulated his cock so as to achieve wood, hop on and screw him. He didn't claim he couldn't get hard or cum as he had done both. What he did claim was that he was raped and indeed he had been. Kind of a bizarre situation but the tables were indeed turned in this case.

~springrain · 06-02-2003, 05:48 PM

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Originally posted by Bob Biter
I don't get why people focus their argument on whether or not a guy is aroused during the act.

i couldn't agree more...

of course a woman could rape a man...

this is not rocket science... rape is not about sex... it is about control... period.

viveleroi0 · 06-02-2003, 06:15 PM

Sure. I would like it if it were some hot chick I wanted anyway... but I would be destroyed if it was an older ugly woman.

raeanna74 · 06-03-2003, 03:23 AM

I heard of once instance only a few years back here in my local newpaper. This woman supposedly slipped the guy something in his drink and then got him to a hotel. When he woke up his head was wrapped in a towel and he was naked. He reported the incident to the police because he believed the woman "raped" him. The stupidest part of it all was about a year later she comes back and claims he owes child support for the child she got herself pregnant with. The courts actually asked him to pay it too.

~springrain · 06-03-2003, 04:13 AM

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Originally posted by snowflake56
Yea its possible, but I wouldn't resist too much...unless she was ugly or had STDs

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Originally posted by viveleroi0
Sure. I would like it if it were some hot chick I wanted anyway... but I would be destroyed if it was an older ugly woman.

i really hope that neither one of you two experience rape yourself or someone close to you being raped... you'll regret being so flip and careless about such a painful experience.

~springrain · 06-03-2003, 04:14 AM

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Originally posted by raeanna74
The stupidest part of it all was about a year later she comes back and claims he owes child support for the child she got herself pregnant with. The courts actually asked him to pay it too.

raeanna... somehow that doesn't suprise me...
incredibly stupid... and sad...

RAMONES!!! · 06-03-2003, 05:52 PM

i think i saw this on peoples court...seriously

06-08-2003, 08:13 AM

I would say I've definitely been "raped" under the definition at least twice. Both women got me drunk (while they stayed sober) and took me to bed. I would never have slept with them sober! Shudder...
Seriously though guys, all this talk about whether or not you can get hard is besides the point. Of course you can, it just takes physical stimulation. And even if you "like it" at the time and responded physically, its still rape if you didn't want to do it and were coerced. It would still be rape if the woman got aroused but had said no...wouldn't it? All I know is that the fact that I responded doubled the shame I felt about the incidence. Its a scary thing to have your body betray you so easily. As for admitting it, well I think most guys wouldn't admit it because so many people would try to make him feel ashamed about it (wimp, pussy, crybaby etc.). Those terms have been used on men since they were little kids to control them and are very effective still. Thankfully, I don't give a rat's ass what emotionally manipulative people say about me anymore.

~springrain · 06-08-2003, 05:06 PM

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Originally posted by JackSpratt
Seriously though guys, all this talk about whether or not you can get hard is besides the point. Of course you can, it just takes physical stimulation. And even if you "like it" at the time and responded physically, its still rape if you didn't want to do it and were coerced. It would still be rape if the woman got aroused but had said no...wouldn't it? All I know is that the fact that I responded doubled the shame I felt about the incidence. Its a scary thing to have your body betray you so easily. As for admitting it, well I think most guys wouldn't admit it because so many people would try to make him feel ashamed about it (wimp, pussy, crybaby etc.). Those terms have been used on men since they were little kids to control them and are very effective still. Thankfully, I don't give a rat's ass what emotionally manipulative people say about me anymore.

very well said... and i commend your honestly and willingness to be open while appearing new to this forum (noting your [Rookie status). it's been a long known fact that one of the reasons incest survivors feel such deep shame and guilt is due to the fact that many of them experience physical arousal during the abuse. a total betrayal... your own body betraying the heart and mind.

i can see this being very much the case with men... and as i stated in one of my earlier posts... Rape is not about sex... it's about control... arousal is beside the point.

kelly · 09-07-2007, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Macheath

Yes I think it would be possible, but I suppose the feeling of violation might be more based on being psychologically manipulated than simple brute force. This, as degrawj said, would also make the man less likely to talk about it.

Well of course it can happen but they may not admitte to it

Strange Famous · 09-08-2007, 03:18 AM

in terms of reporting things... *if* I was ever raped, I personally couldnt imagine there being a need to get the police involved. But I dont think its possible to be raped by a woman, so I am only talking about taking the ultimate retaliation against a male.

06-02-2003, 02:48 PM	#82 (permalink)
riskybiz Psycho Location: The Granite State "Live Free or Die"	Yes it CAN and HAS happened. During the mid-1970's I spent a year as a student at Brigham Young University in Provo, UT. BYU is known locally as the 'mormon marriage factory' as it is a place where young mormons find and marry other young mormons. Mormons absolutly do not believe in premarital sex however and though it occurrs there exists at BYU a significant percentage of male and female students who intentionally 'save' their virginity for their future spouse. Young mormon males often spend 2 years in service to their church on a 'mission' where they spend their time attempting non-mormons to become mormons. During this 2 year period these young men are prohibited from even touching a woman much less caressing, kissing or making love. As you might imagine when these missionaries return home and enroll at BYU they are mighty HORNEY. They often get engaged and married within months of returning from their missions. Back to my original point. While I was enrolled at BYU the local paper ran a story of a recently returned missionary who somehow allowed a girl to tie him to a bed, got him sufficiently undressed, manipulated his cock so as to achieve wood, hop on and screw him. He didn't claim he couldn't get hard or cum as he had done both. What he did claim was that he was raped and indeed he had been. Kind of a bizarre situation but the tables were indeed turned in this case. __________________ "I'd like to meet the person who invented sex and see what they're working on now." -Groucho Marx

06-02-2003, 06:15 PM	#84 (permalink)
viveleroi0 Psycho Location: Oregon	Sure. I would like it if it were some hot chick I wanted anyway... but I would be destroyed if it was an older ugly woman. __________________ "It's not that I don't understand, it's that I don't care" - Homer Simpson

06-03-2003, 03:23 AM	#85 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I heard of once instance only a few years back here in my local newpaper. This woman supposedly slipped the guy something in his drink and then got him to a hotel. When he woke up his head was wrapped in a towel and he was naked. He reported the incident to the police because he believed the woman "raped" him. The stupidest part of it all was about a year later she comes back and claims he owes child support for the child she got herself pregnant with. The courts actually asked him to pay it too. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

06-03-2003, 05:52 PM	#88 (permalink)
RAMONES!!! _-_---_-_	i think i saw this on peoples court...seriously __________________ Come on

09-08-2007, 03:18 AM	#92 (permalink)
Strange Famous follower of the child's crusade?	in terms of reporting things... if I was ever raped, I personally couldnt imagine there being a need to get the police involved. But I dont think its possible to be raped by a woman, so I am only talking about taking the ultimate retaliation against a male. __________________ "Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate, for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain without being uncovered." The Gospel of Thomas

06-02-2003, 02:33 PM	#81 (permalink)
snowace56 Loser Location: Bakersfield...The rest stop town	Yea its possible, but I wouldn't resist too much...unless she was ugly or had STDs

06-08-2003, 08:13 AM	#89 (permalink)
JackSpratt Guest	I would say I've definitely been "raped" under the definition at least twice. Both women got me drunk (while they stayed sober) and took me to bed. I would never have slept with them sober! Shudder... Seriously though guys, all this talk about whether or not you can get hard is besides the point. Of course you can, it just takes physical stimulation. And even if you "like it" at the time and responded physically, its still rape if you didn't want to do it and were coerced. It would still be rape if the woman got aroused but had said no...wouldn't it? All I know is that the fact that I responded doubled the shame I felt about the incidence. Its a scary thing to have your body betray you so easily. As for admitting it, well I think most guys wouldn't admit it because so many people would try to make him feel ashamed about it (wimp, pussy, crybaby etc.). Those terms have been used on men since they were little kids to control them and are very effective still. Thankfully, I don't give a rat's ass what emotionally manipulative people say about me anymore.