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Relationships should be based on trust and the way I see it, if you don't trust your partner enough to let them go out with their buddies & have some fun then you don't have a true relationship. It boils down to self-assurance as well. You have to be comfortable with yourself to be comfortable (and trust whole-heartedly) someone else.
My previous relationship failed (in part) because my guy wouldn't let me go out for a quick drink after work, or go to the football games with my friends, etc etc etc and this eventually (because of the lack of trust factor) killed it. No one wants to be a prisoner and I think if you love someone then trust them to go have fun and have their own friends. I certainly don't want to be told what/when/where I can do/go and I would never try to tell another what they can or cannot do.
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