Get busy living, or get busy dying -- Shawshank Redemption
If you don't like your situation, you need to change it. Not tomorrow. Not later today. Now. You want to get in shape to get the chicks? Do something to get in shape. It's late? Make up a workout schedule, plan your meals, or look at gyms online.
Don't want to workout? Ok, make a different goal. Does it have to be finding a girl? Is that really what you are looking for? Take up a new hobby. Art, reading, some outdoors activity, anything. But set the goal now and follow up on it.
That being said, I'll admit, it's hard. I want a girlfriend, but don't have one, I want a better job than I have, etc, etc. But I do think about it, and more importantly, I think about ways to CHANGE it.
Heh, or maybe you are just venting and are a pretty happy guy overall and just wanted to get this out. That's ok too.
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